Fights

[zekko]

Since you won't post what he said to you, it's impossible to judge what the proper response would have been.

You don't say how old you are, but I remember when I was in my twenties and lifting weights a lot. That combination can result in a lot of testosterone. I'm not a violent person, but I definitely became more aggressive and got into some scrapes. Nothing serious, fortunately. You should try to be aware of this effect and get yourself under control before you get into trouble.

It's good that you've toned it down but it sounds like you still fly off the handle too much. A man should not be controlled by his emotions, he can't afford to be. Women are controlled by emotions, not men. Women want men who can control their emotions, who can be theiir rock. You should get this taken care of.

 

[Blood Angel]

OP, you need help dude. I don't know if you're 'roid raging or just think you're tough **** because you're in shape, but every example you've given of times you thought about fighting was not an appropriate time to resort to physical violence.

So some fat dude at the gym rolls out onto the floor dripping wet and gets weird looks from everyone and you're gonna go lay him out? Seriously? I bet that would've totally got the cops on your side after they'd arrested your stupid ass.

 

[Jeremymichael]

Dude,

I read your post with interest and understand your feelings. I'm a fairly big guy 6ft 3" a little over weight, fairly attractive. I have red hair and when at school I used to get bullied, until one day they saw another side of me - I attacked my bullies and never got bullied again. However then I was 16 years old.

I have now matured and am mr nice guy really. A few months ago I was in a bar and this low life came up to me and said "your fat" something like that and then went onto say do you want trouble. I had rage inside of me but just said "no thanks". He probably thinks I'm a wimp, however I don't care. The thing is I know I have this raging temper, but am wise to know that it's not worth it. After he left everyone commented he was a loser and I kept my respect. I know of this guy and its not personal he's like it with everyone, although at the time I felt offended. I think in a year or two he'll be in prison and I will be okay and keeping my job.

Cheers,

Jez

 

[Bible_Belt]

The OP should take up mma

 

[Boxer]

So sounds like most of your problems are coming from the gym... Sounds like you're a looser with no life and spends WAY to much time in the gym to run into so many problems while you are there. Most people that have a sense of what they are doing and not on steriods are in the gym for a max of 45mins to an hour not including locker room time. How the hell do you find yourself in the position to be in so many fights at the gym when you are only there 3-4 hours a week? Sounds like you are out looking for fights.


Troll troll troll your boat
gently down the feed
merely merely merely
A life is what you need

 

[snowdog]

First of all; you need to chill and find out why you're so f*cing insecure, because that's what you are. Guys who are confident don't feel the need to start fights and can shrug it off when people try to start sh*t. People who start fights outside a boxing ring want to prove something, and that exactly the same as boasting about how much money you have. It's equally lame and pathetic.

Being unable to control yourself isn't a virtue, nor is it cool or tough. Any retarded dumbass can throw a punch. In case you hadn't noticed yet, girls hate aggressive meatheads and the guys who're smart will watch from a safe distance and laugh at you for being a dumb ass.

Avoiding fights with random people is generally a good idea, because you just don't know who your dealing with. Starting fights with people you don't know is basically one of the stupidest things to do. These days, more and more people practice martial arts or carry a weapon and you can't tell that from the outside.

You really want to run the risk to get stabbed or get beaten up badly because of your ego? There are a lot of thugs walking around who don't give a sh*t and will stomp you in the face and on your head when you're on the ground. People get scarred for life or killed every week because of dumb ass drunk fights.

And if YOU are the one doing the ass whooping, you have a big risk to get charged because you hurt someone for life (even if he deserved it). If you knock someone to the ground and he hits his head on the ground in a nasty way (there's always a pretty big chance), you can kill a guy or put him in a wheel chair. A felony assault charge will straight up ruin your life if you have any serious goals career-wise.

If you get into a street fight, you're risking jail time, felony charges, getting very seriously hurt, or even getting killed. So yes, most of the time it is better to walk, or even run, away. It's just not worth it.


Second of all; the fact that you lift weighs doesn't mean jack sh*t. In pretty much all the cases, the big muscle guy will get his sh*t ruined by a much smaller guy who's good at martial arts. This is a generally known fact and there are many hilarious examples of this on YouTube by the way.

 

[R19]

- Holy G - because I wanted to see what others think. I didn't realize that it would be so polarized to taking the insult and playing it off as the response.

- Amazing. I do have a large ****, but I don't want to get you all really harping on me. I won't *** in you, but thanks for the invite...

- Furyguy, thanks for the comments. From what I could tell, I think that they just met because I was with her quite a lot when she first arrived by herself and there were not that many people there. He was a little piker - not really a scumbag. A lot of colleges just got out so much of the crowd was spesh little boys... I have rarely had a bouncer look at me the wrong way much less law enforcement. I am 'ready to fight' and I choose my spots and battles not some all out random 'like to fight'.

- Zekko, it's a small world so that's why I won't say. He directly insulted my physical appearance implying that I was weak. Here's close enough: 'Hey weak a$$, what's up with you tonight? And I just met this guy? Are you effen serious. How would you react? I wasn't being emotional, I have edge. What can I say?

- Blood Angel, I have an aggressiveness than outmatches my strength and fighting skills - so what? most people do. Sounds like a lot on here watch a lot of Hollywood action movies and police shows when they aren't twittering. And the fat guy? If and when I see him pull that again, I will be in his face like a starving pit bull to steak. First time, I told the sparse early morning staff and they did nothing... AND I do take creatine, protein powder, and vitamins, but no steroids.

- Jeremymichael, thanks for the comments.

- Bible Belt - I should have been a boxer. I have the genetics to have a lot of muscle and be light as a butterfly, especially given my height. Then I would have had a shot to be a baller like Mayweather or De La Hoya.

- Boxer - really? I go to the gym 6 days a week and spend 1-2 hours each time there. I lift really heavy for my size and I have to rest a lot. I am not an expert, but am in the top tier of knowledge given what I do and how much I lift given it is a fitness gym and not an all out hard core gym where the pro's go. Because there are so many idiots there that come and go I have to watch with their stupid behavior making it annoying for the serious. I have not gotten in any fights there - only altercations where I prevail and the other guy backs down.

- Snowdog - I agree. I mentioned fights, but maybe I should have called it altercations that could lead to 'em. If I was sooooooooooo out of control, I would be fighting often and I haven't. I project a lot of strength very aggressively and am ready to roll. A couple of my friends do the same, but fight quite a lot.

- Maybe I am a gym etiquette facist, but I have respect for everyone there who is struggling to push themselves. Hard workouts are hard enough without all the novice riff raff to deal with.

Plus an update... She was so turned off and taken aback by my behavior that she hit me up this afternoon and I will probably be seeing her later this week so thanks for the responses.

Now let's hear about some other altercations/fights where somehow women where in the mix.

 

[Kerpal]

And the fat guy? If and when I see him pull that again, I will be in his face like a starving pit bull to steak.

Now let's hear about some other altercations/fights where somehow women where in the mix.

Here's one for you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2009_Collier_Township_shooting

This isn't the UFC. Unless you own the gym or work there, mind your own business.

 

[R19]

Now let's hear about some other altercations/fights where somehow women where in the mix.

What I meant by that is situations where an altercation occurs that is somehow tied into all this DJ sh1t, not some random nut job that goes on a shooting spree. Now go watch the news, all the Hollywood war and action BS, play your fighting/war video games!!! Those are the nut jobs that are likely to fight, get into trouble and lose it.

 

[HeMan]

R19 is the biggest tool i read on this site so far...

cant believe he wants to knock out the guy at gym for being wet after the sauna

what a loser!!! someone ban him please

 

[R19]

R19 is the biggest tool i read on this site so far...

cant believe he wants to knock out the guy at gym for being wet after the sauna

what a loser!!! someone ban him please

Let's see Master of the Universe 'HeMan' - to clarify, he walked directly away from the men's locker room out on to the main gym floor in front of all the free weights, and cardio machines to get some water (because there is none in the locker room. This must be acceptable to you if not a turn on at 0545...

 

[Furyguy]

girls hate aggressive meatheads

From my life experience it seems quite the opposite, actually. Women appear to be quite drawn to them. They all want to "fix him" or "can't walk out on him when everyone else in his life is." Really works for a lot of guys.

 

[Nygard]

Now let's hear about some other altercations/fights where somehow women where in the mix.

Sure, one my my cousins was out in a bar with some friends. There was a pretty chick there and he, obviously, started to hit on her. Another guy came out of nowhere and started yelling things at him because he was hitting on a woman he wanted for him. My cousin had a very short fuse and went after him. He hit the guy so hard that he broke that chump's teeth.
That guy went home all banged up and my cousin friends decided to get out of there because they didn't like heated up stuff. The girl was impressed, and they kept on talking for a while. The banged up guy showed up 30 minutes later in a car and an UZI. Knocked the girl down with a punch and emptied the whole ammo on my cousin. End of the story. Fights are usually stupid and grudges are made. You don't know who the other guy is and what he's capable of. In my city, there are over 10 airheads like you, every day, who go around looking for a fight but they end up at the receiving end of a gun.

 

[sodbuster]

I've got an ex wife you'd be a perfect match for. She was spending all her time looking for reasons to be pissed at someone/something. Learn to relax a bit-you'll live longer.People ARE stupid,but they aren't running around being stupid just to pizz you off.Most likely,they don't even know you exist.It's not a vast conspiracy to annoy you.

I've had 2 surgeries on my foot and a frozen thumb joint from karate tournaments. If I decline to fight you in the bar,it's not because I'm afraid of you,I'm just debating if I want the hassle of the lawsuit or the third surgery on my foot when they are removing my size 12 from your mouth.

 

[HeMan]

R19
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Quote:
Originally Posted by HeMan
R19 is the biggest tool i read on this site so far...

cant believe he wants to knock out the guy at gym for being wet after the sauna

what a loser!!! someone ban him please



Let's see Master of the Universe 'HeMan' - to clarify, he walked directly away from the men's locker room out on to the main gym floor in front of all the free weights, and cardio machines to get some water (because there is none in the locker room. This must be acceptable to you if not a turn on at 0545...
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yes dude there is nothing better than seeing a fatty walk around the gym nearly naked...

much better than seeing roid users like yourself abusing other gym members because of your deep down unhappiness with life!

 

[Blood Angel]

A bunch of 'roid rager bull****.

Yeah, okay dude, I'm done with you. Like everyone else in this thread, I'm just going to let you learn the hard way. :nono:

 

[ENIGMA16]

Wow if I was that guy I would've egged you on and let you beat the sh!t out of me. Then I could get the girl by being the bigger man and also sue your ass for everything you're worth. Maybe then you'd get it through your thick f*cking skull.

The problem with your front is that it's so unbelievable that everyone can see through it to who you really are. The guy was completely right; you're f*cking weak.

You're beyond hope.

 

[R19]

Plus an update... She was so turned off and taken aback by my behavior that she hit me up this afternoon and I will probably be seeing her later this week so thanks for the responses..

... yep learning the hard way I guess... I won't be letting you know if we end up fvcking each other like there's no tomorrow. At least I got many of you with your convictions and your panties so bunched up - ha ha - what a joke. Now go back to your action movies, police tv shows, and halo video game BS. And the next time someone tries to walk all over you or does something completely out of line, good luck!

And great logic JLay87. One day, will be as smart as you and get start a fight to let another guy level me so I can make him look bad in hopes of getting a girl!!!

 

[Bible_Belt]

I should have been a boxer. I have the genetics to have a lot of muscle and be light as a butterfly, especially given my height. Then I would have had a shot to be a baller like Mayweather or De La Hoya.

So do it! You don't have to be a world champion; the point is participating. You will find that after you spend time training in a fighting sport, it keeps you from wanting to fight random guys at bars and gyms.

 

[Amazing]

You are immature and too thick to see it, but once you get your ass kicked a few times and/or become older and smarter, you will see how insecure this thread makes you look

Cheers