SparkleMotion
Don Juan
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I figured it was time to post a field report (my first one ever, yay!). Since how can I expect anyone on her to listen to my advice if I don't try and provide some evidence that I'm out in the field doing this stuff? I included a little background of myself, but it’s not important just sort of an introduction for myself to the community. If you don’t want to read it just skip to the field report. If you have any criticism please let me hear it.
Background:
Since this is my first field report, and thus sorta my official introduction to the community I might as well give some background to my life in 'the game'. I started getting David D's newsletters back in High School (in 2003), on the advice of two of my friends. I was literally the exact definition of an AFC who got lucky a few times with women, so I started reading SoSuave and ASF. I read ASF and SoSuave, picked up all the terms and started trying to implement the ideas behind C&F and other ideas into my dealings with women. I started getting better at it; I was no longer the loner sitting in the corner at parties. I was actually starting to be sociable. I kept getting a little better day by day, the summer after High School (summer of 2004), I started actually hanging out with multiple targets. I was no longer just lucking out; I was able to start hanging out with women and feeling comfortable around them. Then I went off to college (fall 2004) in Ireland, University of Limerick, where slowly I stopped reading ASF and SoSuave because I thought I had this stuff nailed down (yeah right, how little I knew). To make a short story of it, I started dating a girl back in the states who was an old target of mine. With me being in Ireland and her in the states, I became a spineless AFC all over again. The relationship came to a conclusion when I came back from Ireland (summer 2005) to discover that she had been cheating on me the entire time. This is when two friends got me back into reading ASF and SoSuave. Over the summer of 2005, I read ASF and SoSuave constantly. I didn’t try approaching or even hanging out with women that much since to be honest I was still heartbroken about my failed relationship. So I ‘laid low’ for a while, then The Game came out, I read it and it opened up my eyes. Nothing was going to change unless I got out and started approaching women. After finishing The Game I started reading books like The Selfish Gene and Sperm Wars. Since then I have been constantly approaching women and trying out material. There’s a short version of my history.
Disclaimer:
By no means am I mPUA or a mDJ, I’m not even a DJ or a PUA, I’m simply a rAFC who is on the path of becoming a PUA (I hope). If my field report uses to many abbreviations, I apologize I’ve gotten use to using them over the couple of years of reading. Also since it’s my first Field Report, I’m sure I have on accident left a couple of details but with time I’ll get better with typing these things up.
Field Report:
The important stuff.
Yesterday while I was working, I got a call from a girl who use to be a target of mine that had sorta fizzled out. I had been to busy with getting new targets, school, and working to focus a lot of attention on her. But lets call her girl C (her name starts with a C, I’ll follow that rule for all of the girls in my escapades) she’s about an HB7 she’s got HUGE knockers. So after I got off work (7:30pm), I called her back. She proceeded to invite me over to this guy’s house, which I didn’t really know that well. Basically she was inviting me to some other guys house, wasn’t a big gathering maybe only 15 people. Which I took as an IOI.
Girl C: “What are you doing tonight? You should come stop by Dan’s house we are having a pumpkin carving party.”
Me: “As long as you don’t stab me.”
Girl C: giggles “I’ll try not to.”
Me: “Alright I’ll be there in like 10 minutes.”
I then proceed to go to Barnes & Noble to buy a book, since that’s what I was planning on doing once I got off work. So I go buy the book, then head to the house. I arrive probably around 30 minutes after I had called her (8pm).
Me and Girl C start talking to each other, which is basically nothing more then flirting. She would say stuff and I would respond with C&F, or just bust on her. They had made a bunch of food; she wanted me to try all of it.
Girl C: “You gotta try the finger sandwiches I made!”
Me: “Only if you feed them to me.”
Girl C: “Are you going to bite my fingers off?”
Me: “I’ll try not to but I’ve got jaws of steel.”
We continued chit chatting and building up rapport with her for a good hour. Over which she gave me several IOIs. It was around 9pm that I noticed a girl sitting a close vicinity to me had an English accent (Girl L, about a HB6), I thought I overheard her say she was from Kingston. So I simply asked her.
Me: “Did I hear you say you from Kingston.”
Girl L: “No.”
I think she thought I meant from here in Washington State, so I asked again.
Me: “No, I mean like Kingston in England.”
Girl L: “Oh no, I’m from Plymouth.”
She was very short with me, not mean but short. So I figured I’d just let it be and go back to Girl C. Kept bull****ting with Girl C. When my friend who has a pitbull puppy showed up. To be honest I’m still an 8-year-old kid inside, who enjoys playing with Tonka trucks and dogs more then just BS’n with girls. So I went outside to play with the dog. After I was out there for a couple of minutes, Girl L came out with her friend Girl F to have a smoke. I figured, might as well not be a quitter and give up, so I approached them again.
Me: “So you are studying abroad then?”
Girl L: “Yeah me and her are.” Points to Girl F (HB7).
Then I start just general bull**** with them, didn’t run any routines just started up conversation about England and Ireland. Explained that I had lived in Ireland and that I’ve got friends from Chorelywood. Did this for about 20 minutes or so. Things started to wane a little between Girl L and me, so I decided to just plow her.
Me: “You should give me your number.”
Girl L: “Yeah, definitely”
So I hand her my phone and she puts her number in.
Then the guy who showed up at the party with them starts to jump into our conversation. He was drunk and he kept trying to put on this horrible English accent. Whenever the Girls and me would bring up something about Ireland or England he would try to jump in.
Me: “Do you guys have Abrakabras in Plymouth?”
Girl L: “Is that just like a Kabob shop?”
Girl F: “Yeah, they are pretty good I went there when I was in Dublin.”
Guy: (in a horrible English accent) “Do they have those in Australia, I think I remember seeing one.”
Me: “Man I love your accent where you from?”
Girl L and Girl F giggle.
We talk for a little bit longer, then go inside. Girl F starts talking to me; they ask when the bus comes around next. I explain how the bus system here in the US isn’t like back in the UK. Since I was leaving, I offered to give them a lift home since they were on the way home. Just as long as they didn’t mind riding in the coolest car ever, I’ll put up pictures of the car it’s a 1980 Honda Accord spray painted at least 10 different colors and it says General Awesome on the hood. We chit chat about bull**** like Peter Kay, I tell her I want her to get a copy of Phoenix Nights when she goes back for Christmas Holiday. The Australia kept disarming himself for me, with his horrible put on English accent (He’s actually from Seattle, don’t know if I said that earlier). On the way home I mention how General Awesome is just the car I drive around because I ride motorcycles she immediately takes interest.
Girl F: “If you ever want a riding partner I’d love to go!”
Me: “If you think you can handle the intensity, just let me know when.”
Girl F: “I don’t have your number”
I hand her my phone.
Me: “Put your number in.”
I drop Girl L, Girl F, and the Australia guy off. Both Girl L and F tell me that I have to call them this weekend, the Australia guy tells me he’ll see me later like we are friends I just ignore him.
Overview:
- Could have number closed Girl L a little more smoothly, it was kind of awkwardly in the middle/end of a conversation
- Should have tried isolating Girl C, live and learn
- I think I did an okay job with Girl F since I had her wanting to give me her number
Background:
Since this is my first field report, and thus sorta my official introduction to the community I might as well give some background to my life in 'the game'. I started getting David D's newsletters back in High School (in 2003), on the advice of two of my friends. I was literally the exact definition of an AFC who got lucky a few times with women, so I started reading SoSuave and ASF. I read ASF and SoSuave, picked up all the terms and started trying to implement the ideas behind C&F and other ideas into my dealings with women. I started getting better at it; I was no longer the loner sitting in the corner at parties. I was actually starting to be sociable. I kept getting a little better day by day, the summer after High School (summer of 2004), I started actually hanging out with multiple targets. I was no longer just lucking out; I was able to start hanging out with women and feeling comfortable around them. Then I went off to college (fall 2004) in Ireland, University of Limerick, where slowly I stopped reading ASF and SoSuave because I thought I had this stuff nailed down (yeah right, how little I knew). To make a short story of it, I started dating a girl back in the states who was an old target of mine. With me being in Ireland and her in the states, I became a spineless AFC all over again. The relationship came to a conclusion when I came back from Ireland (summer 2005) to discover that she had been cheating on me the entire time. This is when two friends got me back into reading ASF and SoSuave. Over the summer of 2005, I read ASF and SoSuave constantly. I didn’t try approaching or even hanging out with women that much since to be honest I was still heartbroken about my failed relationship. So I ‘laid low’ for a while, then The Game came out, I read it and it opened up my eyes. Nothing was going to change unless I got out and started approaching women. After finishing The Game I started reading books like The Selfish Gene and Sperm Wars. Since then I have been constantly approaching women and trying out material. There’s a short version of my history.
Disclaimer:
By no means am I mPUA or a mDJ, I’m not even a DJ or a PUA, I’m simply a rAFC who is on the path of becoming a PUA (I hope). If my field report uses to many abbreviations, I apologize I’ve gotten use to using them over the couple of years of reading. Also since it’s my first Field Report, I’m sure I have on accident left a couple of details but with time I’ll get better with typing these things up.
Field Report:
The important stuff.
Yesterday while I was working, I got a call from a girl who use to be a target of mine that had sorta fizzled out. I had been to busy with getting new targets, school, and working to focus a lot of attention on her. But lets call her girl C (her name starts with a C, I’ll follow that rule for all of the girls in my escapades) she’s about an HB7 she’s got HUGE knockers. So after I got off work (7:30pm), I called her back. She proceeded to invite me over to this guy’s house, which I didn’t really know that well. Basically she was inviting me to some other guys house, wasn’t a big gathering maybe only 15 people. Which I took as an IOI.
Girl C: “What are you doing tonight? You should come stop by Dan’s house we are having a pumpkin carving party.”
Me: “As long as you don’t stab me.”
Girl C: giggles “I’ll try not to.”
Me: “Alright I’ll be there in like 10 minutes.”
I then proceed to go to Barnes & Noble to buy a book, since that’s what I was planning on doing once I got off work. So I go buy the book, then head to the house. I arrive probably around 30 minutes after I had called her (8pm).
Me and Girl C start talking to each other, which is basically nothing more then flirting. She would say stuff and I would respond with C&F, or just bust on her. They had made a bunch of food; she wanted me to try all of it.
Girl C: “You gotta try the finger sandwiches I made!”
Me: “Only if you feed them to me.”
Girl C: “Are you going to bite my fingers off?”
Me: “I’ll try not to but I’ve got jaws of steel.”
We continued chit chatting and building up rapport with her for a good hour. Over which she gave me several IOIs. It was around 9pm that I noticed a girl sitting a close vicinity to me had an English accent (Girl L, about a HB6), I thought I overheard her say she was from Kingston. So I simply asked her.
Me: “Did I hear you say you from Kingston.”
Girl L: “No.”
I think she thought I meant from here in Washington State, so I asked again.
Me: “No, I mean like Kingston in England.”
Girl L: “Oh no, I’m from Plymouth.”
She was very short with me, not mean but short. So I figured I’d just let it be and go back to Girl C. Kept bull****ting with Girl C. When my friend who has a pitbull puppy showed up. To be honest I’m still an 8-year-old kid inside, who enjoys playing with Tonka trucks and dogs more then just BS’n with girls. So I went outside to play with the dog. After I was out there for a couple of minutes, Girl L came out with her friend Girl F to have a smoke. I figured, might as well not be a quitter and give up, so I approached them again.
Me: “So you are studying abroad then?”
Girl L: “Yeah me and her are.” Points to Girl F (HB7).
Then I start just general bull**** with them, didn’t run any routines just started up conversation about England and Ireland. Explained that I had lived in Ireland and that I’ve got friends from Chorelywood. Did this for about 20 minutes or so. Things started to wane a little between Girl L and me, so I decided to just plow her.
Me: “You should give me your number.”
Girl L: “Yeah, definitely”
So I hand her my phone and she puts her number in.
Then the guy who showed up at the party with them starts to jump into our conversation. He was drunk and he kept trying to put on this horrible English accent. Whenever the Girls and me would bring up something about Ireland or England he would try to jump in.
Me: “Do you guys have Abrakabras in Plymouth?”
Girl L: “Is that just like a Kabob shop?”
Girl F: “Yeah, they are pretty good I went there when I was in Dublin.”
Guy: (in a horrible English accent) “Do they have those in Australia, I think I remember seeing one.”
Me: “Man I love your accent where you from?”
Girl L and Girl F giggle.
We talk for a little bit longer, then go inside. Girl F starts talking to me; they ask when the bus comes around next. I explain how the bus system here in the US isn’t like back in the UK. Since I was leaving, I offered to give them a lift home since they were on the way home. Just as long as they didn’t mind riding in the coolest car ever, I’ll put up pictures of the car it’s a 1980 Honda Accord spray painted at least 10 different colors and it says General Awesome on the hood. We chit chat about bull**** like Peter Kay, I tell her I want her to get a copy of Phoenix Nights when she goes back for Christmas Holiday. The Australia kept disarming himself for me, with his horrible put on English accent (He’s actually from Seattle, don’t know if I said that earlier). On the way home I mention how General Awesome is just the car I drive around because I ride motorcycles she immediately takes interest.
Girl F: “If you ever want a riding partner I’d love to go!”
Me: “If you think you can handle the intensity, just let me know when.”
Girl F: “I don’t have your number”
I hand her my phone.
Me: “Put your number in.”
I drop Girl L, Girl F, and the Australia guy off. Both Girl L and F tell me that I have to call them this weekend, the Australia guy tells me he’ll see me later like we are friends I just ignore him.
Overview:
- Could have number closed Girl L a little more smoothly, it was kind of awkwardly in the middle/end of a conversation
- Should have tried isolating Girl C, live and learn
- I think I did an okay job with Girl F since I had her wanting to give me her number