Field report: internet chick wants sex

[Austin Allegro]

Further to my recent post about meeting an HB9 off the internet who wanted sex, we met up last night.

In real life she turned out to be nearer a 7 than a 9, but was still pretty and seemed quite nice - no flakey behaviour. Was very upfront about wanting sex so after dinner we went back to my place.

Now this is the funny thing, I just didn't seem to get turned on!

Maybe some of you have felt this way - I was just bored - I mean I had this attractive woman doing all kinds of stuff to me, but I just felt, yeah, who cares...! I just couldn't seem to mentally 'connect' with the situation, it almost seemed unreal.

Partly it was because I was tired from a long day, and partly fear of STD (she's been with a lot men apparently) but I just couldn't get it up for ages. When I finally did, bizarely I came after only about two minutes.

Now to make things even stranger, and to prove the DJ principles, her IL rocketed! She said she really liked me, wants to see me again and has texted and emailed today saying she was worried she didn't turn me on enough and wanted to know how she could make things better!

Bizarre. Feeling pretty down though - any suggestions for this little 'problem'?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

When it's not hard - it is a 'liitle' problem indeed!!!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

This is a funny post - LOL - you had everything going against you in one day

I think the problem was that you were , besides being fatigued, thinking too much and stressing which constricts your veins and thus restricts your blood flow. You weren't drinking or smoking too were you? This is bad for blood flow also.

Inquire about Viagra

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You got excited too fast -- you are using a condom , right?

Next time think about something else except "the act" - like stock quotes or the capture of Saddam Hussein!

Austin says ....

"Now to make things even stranger, and to prove the DJ principles, her IL rocketed! She said she really liked me, wants to see me again and has texted and emailed today saying she was worried she didn't turn me on enough and wanted to know how she could make things better!"

I don't think I would advise this tactic to my fellow Dj's to "rocket a woman's interest level" LOL I guessed you created a new 'ad hoc' technique ---- Post it under 'DJ TIPS' under 'premature ejaculation' and 'soft on' technique!

This girl is a giga-ho ---- you should be stressed thinking about disease and the consequences but this was no surprise to you since this is what you were looking for.

I can say more but I'll stop.

 

[bp1974]

Well, to be honest mate hooking up with some random internet sl*t for a quick f*ck really isn't the greatest thing to do.

I have a hunch that the reason you weren't getting into it was because at least a small part of you was thinking "I'm better than this. This is bad sex".

Was there any attraction between the two of you when you met up, or did you end up in bed purely because it was a foregone conclusion? If you went to bed just because you said you would then it's likely to be a letdown.

Is this the kind of chick you really want to see more than once?

 

[Austin Allegro]

Good replies guys.

And yes, I think the basic reason was that although she was 'attractive', I just wasn't really attracted to her, if that makes sense.

Because the sex was offered I took it - which is actually an AFC thing to do - but ultimately didn't really want it, hence the soft-on.

Her positive response was, however, in line with DJ principles because I think she suspected she wasn't turning me on and this turned me into a sort of 'challenge'.

I used a condom but am now paranoid about oral herpes.

 

[NewMan]

Don't be paranoid about herpes - it does you no good to worry.

Perhaps this is a lesson.

Some people can handle ONS - internet fvcking etc. and it's not for others.

Casual banging is not my thing to be honest - I've done it, but it's always left me feeling empty inside.....

I prefer to get to know the woman first. But that just me.

Everyone to their own thing.