FIELD REPORT : Gym pickup....

[Ryan]

Ok so I usually wait until my workout is finished before I start going in on chicks...

So today their was a supermodel hot girl, but I saw like three guys on her, so I'm like nah I dont want to be another fruit fly buzzing around her....I'll wait when she is alone.

Ok then I saw another cute girl on the leg curl machine, with a foreign accent.

So this is DJ's game:

DJ: Do you mind if I work in?

Chick: no its ok

<im just curl the same weight as her, my intention is to get to know her>

DJ: You're pretty strong for a girl

Chick: thanks

DJ: Are you from Hong Kong (yeah 2016 im into asian girls)? , you sound like you have a HK accent

Chick: No Im from Korea....

DJ: Ohhhhh what program you in?

Chick: Biomedical , but I like computer programming

Chick: Ohhh I am trying to learn C#

and I got her name and chatted some more....

but I didnt get her number yet b/c she is not familiar with me yet, still thinks I am a stranger (trust me read my previous post ), I see the same ppl all the time in the gym....next time I see her in the gym (hopefully I am in the right state) I will keep talking......"oh you like sushi?" ok ....I know a nice lake....

I think the previous mistake I made was getting a number too early, with only 15min chat and the number is not solid!

1. How would you guys of played it (and remember its a college gym, not a commerical one)

2. How should I play it next time I see her?

3. What did I do wrong/good?

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[marmel75]

Lol I have been a VB.net programmer for 6 years and swore I'd never learn C#...but the job market dictates what you need to know to succeed and I pretty much learned and am writing good code in C# in under a week...never thought the transition would be that painless...but since VB.net and C# are equivalent languages the concepts are 99% the same so the transition was really easy...mostly just syntax.

And after learning it I'd never go back to VB...C# is such a beautiful language to look at and code in...it's like an HB 9.5 that looks tough to crack while VB.net is like an HB6 that's open and friendly...once you get the HB9.5 you can't go back to HB6's, lol...

 

[Julian]

the question is how did you come across? some beta overexcited geek or were you eye fkin her smoothly while speaking to her.

next time ask her for a spot...then get the digits

 

[JohnChops]

Lol I have been a VB.net programmer for 6 years and swore I'd never learn C#...but the job market dictates what you need to know to succeed and I pretty much learned and am writing good code in C# in under a week...never thought the transition would be that painless...but since VB.net and C# are equivalent languages the concepts are 99% the same so the transition was really easy...mostly just syntax.

And after learning it I'd never go back to VB...C# is such a beautiful language to look at and code in...it's like an HB 9.5 that looks tough to crack while VB.net is like an HB6 that's open and friendly...once you get the HB9.5 you can't go back to HB6's, lol...

just started learning C programming myself, pretty damn awesome language. Way more brushed than others.

 

[marmel75]

just started learning C programming myself, pretty damn awesome language. Way more brushed than others.

C or C# or Objective C or C++?

 

[Ryan]

@marmel75


We are discussing the pickup NOT C# ( but yeah I trying to learn it off the internet)

is code academy a good source to learn C#?

 

[marmel75]

I'd recommend edX classes or just jump straight in by completing some easy challenges at CodeWars.com

 

[Ryan]

the question is how did you come across? some beta overexcited geek or were you eye fkin her smoothly while speaking to her.

next time ask her for a spot...then get the digits

came across as neither. Just a little overexcited I guess.

How do you eye**** smoothly?




@marmel75 @Julian @JohnChops

 

[JohnChops]

C or C# or Objective C or C++?

C#, it's an open ware class from MIT. I'm in my gap year before med school, wanted to learn something this summer.

 

[AlexLefty1]

Awesome post bro! Let us know how it goes when you see her again

 

[RangerMIke]

I think the previous mistake I made was getting a number too early, with only 15min chat and the number is not solid!

1. How would you guys of played it (and remember its a college gym, not a commerical one)

2. How should I play it next time I see her?

3. What did I do wrong/good?

When you first meet a woman you are trying to build some basic rapport and get her curious about you. Attraction is curiosity. You are at a gym... you already have that in common, you should have built on that. You noticed she could lift a lot of weight you should have built on that... "How long have you been weight training?" "How did you get into it." Get her number and suggest that you should workout together... tell her you have a work-out routine you would love to show her....

Another rapport point is that you are both in college. You did go there asking about her studies, but you are not asking leading questions and you failed to build rapport on that. You should have asked why is is studying what she is... Just asking her what she studies gets you and answer... asking her WHY gives you underlying reasons you can build rapport on.

Never GUESS what race or job a woman has unless you are 100% sure. You get her to tell you, by asking leading questions. This is a MAJOR LEAGUE mistake. Guessing a woman is Chinese and learning she is Korean, make you look like Lloyd Christmas, in that movie "Dumb and Dumber", mixing up Austria and Australia.

You should have gotten her number... or asked her out on the spot, glad you see that. The reason is that women are not stupid... she KNOWS you are interested in her and when you don't try to make something happen she either thinks we are weak, or you are not really interested in her. Women are emotional if she thinks you like her... she will be more inclined to like you... if she thinks you don't like her... she will not like you.

The only thing you can do at this point is to just not worry about what you have already done, and push for a date or her number. Forget about your first meeting and just approach her directly... if you get shot down, you know to move on.
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[marmel75]

C#, it's an open ware class from MIT. I'm in my gap year before med school, wanted to learn something this summer.

I'm taking the Microsoft class on edX on C#...took two computer science courses from MITx earlier this year in Python and loved them...a lot of the stuff was easy because I already know programming but I enjoyed learning more structure and different methods to do things.

Just took an IBM Prove It! Test from a prospective employer on C# and got a 90%...not bad after a week, lol

 

[Julian]

came across as neither. Just a little overexcited I guess.

How do you eye**** smoothly?




@marmel75 @Julian @JohnChops

what i mean is when you are talking to her, your eyes should make direct connection with hers...and while they do your thoughts should be of slowly undressing her/banging her as you are talking to her. the vision of it your mind will transmute to her brain somehow. it works trust me. its hypnotic in a way..

 

[Ryan]

I'd recommend edX classes or just jump straight in by completing some easy challenges at CodeWars.com

Ok I dont want this thread to be about programming, but I have zero experience with programming, if I spent three hours a day learning programming, how long will it be before I become a decent programmer?

@JohnChops @marmel75

 

[deci-mator]

OP, What you did wrong was you didn't try to escalate, the thing with women is, always approach like it will be your last time seeing her (don't appear too needy but going with the mindset that, "I need to bang this girl today" whilst simultaneously having an abundance mentality in the background)
The conversation was too short, and you must stop aiming low just so that you can succeed. A number close is too little, it shouldn't even be a goal. If anything she should just give you her number willingly. If your to close, try push it as far as you can, see if you can get a meet or something, keep trying out different methods and tactics and find the one that works for you.
You also shouldnt aim for the girl to be comfortable with you, you need that sexual tension, she needs to have a reason to remember you. If she wants someone to be comfortable with, the guy who sits next to her in class is perfect for her, her girlfriends are perfect for her. But you.... nah. Your not like the others, distinguish yourself from the herd. She must have a reason to want to see you again.
You could have followed her back to her dorm room for some computer programming lessons. And if your cards were played right, you could have banged her. But you wont know unless you try, So learn from this OP... Learn from this

 

[Ryan]

OP, What you did wrong was you didn't try to escalate, the thing with women is, always approach like it will be your last time seeing her (don't appear too needy but going with the mindset that, "I need to bang this girl today" whilst simultaneously having an abundance mentality in the background)
The conversation was too short, and you must stop aiming low just so that you can succeed. A number close is too little, it shouldn't even be a goal. If anything she should just give you her number willingly. If your to close, try push it as far as you can, see if you can get a meet or something, keep trying out different methods and tactics and find the one that works for you.
You also shouldnt aim for the girl to be comfortable with you, you need that sexual tension, she needs to have a reason to remember you. If she wants someone to be comfortable with, the guy who sits next to her in class is perfect for her, her girlfriends are perfect for her. But you.... nah. Your not like the others, distinguish yourself from the herd. She must have a reason to want to see you again.
You could have followed her back to her dorm room for some computer programming lessons. And if your cards were played right, you could have banged her. But you wont know unless you try, So learn from this OP... Learn from this

lol why dont you tell us how your last gym pickup went?

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@logicallefty @VladPatton @marmel75 @Julian @JohnChops

 

[Ryan]

So today their was a supermodel hot girl, but I saw like three guys on her, so I'm like nah I dont want to be another fruit fly buzzing around her....I'll wait when she is alone.

OK guess what you guys are not going to believe this:

I went to a club last night....and guess who came up to me and asked "you the guy my friend spotted in the gym!!! " ( I deliberately got her friend who is from the same country as me to spot me hence limiting my attention on her )

Yes obviously the superhot girl who I was too afraid to go in, at the gym.

So we chatted I asked about her program, where she works on co op, she was like, "you should come with us (her and a bunch of orbiter friends) to work out at the gym"

I was semi drunk, so thankfully confident...I think I chatted with her for too long but I got her facebook.

then I went in on some random chicks and made out with one (got her number another story for another field report)....but superhot babe (SHB) saw this and now I could tell from her facial expression she is intrigued about me for sure...

soooo obviously I will see her at the gym (same gym where my oneitis works out- for those who followed that story), how you guys want me to play this?

I already checked out her facebook, she is beautiful and smart, cheerleader in high school, kinda tomboyish.....she is definitely not a princess type...

we both worked at accounting firms so there is commonality there.....

Should I work out with them? become friends with her orbiter friends...then escalate?


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@logicallefty @VladPatton @marmel75 @Julian @JohnChops