Field Report: Grocery Daygame

TRSX

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Target: HB8, dressed for work (lawyer), and looking through the produce.
Age: unknown, also just a little shorter then me.

Me: You look like an expert in this, mind helping me out?
Her: Haha, im really not but sure.
Me: Awesome, im looking for an easy, healthy meal I can make at home
Her: Well blahakbalhalablhaa

(we go on about selecting a good mix bag of salad to buy with some chicken)

Me: You've been awesome, my name is XX
(shakes hand)
Her: My name is XX

(Some small chatter goes on, about what she does, where she lives blah blah)

Me: Well i'd love to get to know you more
Her: Yeah thatd be awesome, i think i might have a card
Me: I think a card is impersonal, here, put your number in my phone
Me: I put you down as "NICKNAME" (Salad XX)
(she puts her number in the phone)

Me: What are you plans this weekend?
Her: Well i have family in town -
Me: Ah, i bet there gonna love eating this healthy stuff (sarcastic tone)
Her: *Laughs* Yeah i bet, but i might be free this friday
Me: Alright great, theres a cool spot called the Brass Tap, right down the road how about we meet there tommorow night?
Her: I might be having a happy hour with work friends, but maybe after - call me/text me tonight so i have your number

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So got the number, and I had finished up my shopping - saw another HB9 but didnt go for her (i should of though).

Texted her an hour later after I got home and ate.

Me; Salad XX, good meeting you - this is my number

Her: Hey awesome! I was just afraid I was too nervous and gave you the wrong number:)

Me: What? Lol -- (okay i was a dumbass and read this multiple times and didnt understand it, but now i do.)

Her: Haha true story! I already forgot your name.. I wasn't planning on meeting a cute guy in the salad aisle after a tough day at work:)

Me: I get nervous too when cute guys meet me in the salad aisle.... =x

Her: Haha funny:)

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Anyways ill call her tommorow and see if she wants to meet up that night. Was a good successful pickup.

Let me know your thoughts

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[UPDATE] THE DATE.

The date went really well, she talked most of the time. I had probably talked 15% of the time, which is a good thing because all I did was keep eye contact and listen. She was very talkative and opinionated which was great. We had a few drinks in the bar and then when the check came of course I took it. I payed for the drinks and we left the bar, I held her hand on the way to her car (she had made a joke about how she heard something on the radio) - we got to her car and we had naturally done a kiss close.

She said i smellled good.

We then proceeded to talk about whatever banter, what she was doing this weekend, she wanted to see me or talk to me in a very specific window (12-3) tommorow. I told her I had to work and I would let her know. Shes very cool, opinionated and a Taurus like me.

At the end I grabbed another kiss from her telling her "This one is for the road" (i cant remember exact words but it was close) -- Anyways I thihnk the date went very well and very cheap (only $30 USD) . You guys asked for update and there it is!

She just texted me.

Her: Home safe. Thanks Again!:)
 
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TRSX said:
Target: HB8, dressed for work (lawyer), and looking through the produce.
Age: unknown, also just a little shorter then me.

Me: You look like an expert in this, mind helping me out?
Her: Haha, im really not but sure.
Me: Awesome, im looking for an easy, healthy meal I can make at home
Her: Well blahakbalhalablhaa

(we go on about selecting a good mix bag of salad to buy with some chicken)

Me: You've been awesome, my name is XX
(shakes hand)
Her: My name is XX

(Some small chatter goes on, about what she does, where she lives blah blah)

Me: Well i'd love to get to know you more
Her: Yeah thatd be awesome, i think i might have a card
Me: I think a card is impersonal, here, put your number in my phone
Me: I put you down as "NICKNAME" (Salad XX)
(she puts her number in the phone)

Me: What are you plans this weekend?
Her: Well i have family in town -
Me: Ah, i bet there gonna love eating this healthy stuff (sarcastic tone)
Her: *Laughs* Yeah i bet, but i might be free this friday
Me: Alright great, theres a cool spot called the Brass Tap, right down the road how about we meet there tommorow night?
Her: I might be having a happy hour with work friends, but maybe after - call me/text me tonight so i have your number

---

So got the number, and I had finished up my shopping - saw another HB9 but didnt go for her (i should of though).

Texted her an hour later after I got home and ate.

Me; Salad XX, good meeting you - this is my number

Her: Hey awesome! I was just afraid I was too nervous and gave you the wrong number:)

Me: What? Lol -- (okay i was a dumbass and read this multiple times and didnt understand it, but now i do.)

Her: Haha true story! I already forgot your name.. I wasn't planning on meeting a cute guy in the salad aisle after a tough day at work:)

Me: I get nervous too when cute guys meet me in the salad aisle.... =x

Her: Haha funny:)

---

Anyways ill call her tommorow and see if she wants to meet up that night. Was a good successful pickup.

Let me know your thoughts

The approach and pickup looked smooth. What I highlighted in bold is great example of C+F. Let us know how it goes and get that date!!
 

SoSuaveDude

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Wow nice, simple, and clean daygame. This is proof that pickup doesn't have to be all planned and rehearsed hours before execution. Natural and stress free is best. Whether she responds from this point on in on her, but you did great.
 

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Bro, your final text reply to her had me cracking up because I would've said exactly that.
 

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TRSX said:
Me: You look like an expert in this, mind helping me out?
Her: Haha, im really not but sure.
Me: Awesome, im looking for an easy, healthy meal I can make at home
Her: Well blahakbalhalablhaa

(we go on about selecting a good mix bag of salad to buy with some chicken)

Me: You've been awesome, my name is XX
(shakes hand)
Her: My name is XX

(Some small chatter goes on, about what she does, where she lives blah blah)

Me: Well i'd love to get to know you more Good. Simple and to the point. I would avoid attaching the word love to a woman you have met only seconds ago, though.
Her: Yeah thatd be awesome, i think i might have a card
Me: I think a card is impersonal, here, put your number in my phone
Me: I put you down as "NICKNAME" (Salad XX)
(she puts her number in the phone)

Me: What are you plans this weekend?
Her: Well i have family in town -
Me: Ah, i bet there gonna love eating this healthy stuff (sarcastic tone)
Her: *Laughs* Yeah i bet, but i might be free this friday
Me: Alright great, theres a cool spot called the Brass Tap, right down the road how about we meet there tommorow night? Good again. However, make a statement rather than ask a question. Something like "There's this cool spot called (place). Let's hang tomorrow night." or something along those lines. You want to give her a choice, but not let her take over things, especially since you are creating a first impression.
Her: I might be having a happy hour with work friends, but maybe after - call me/text me tonight so i have your number

---

So got the number, and I had finished up my shopping - saw another HB9 but didnt go for her (i should of though).

Texted her an hour later after I got home and ate.

Me; Salad XX, good meeting you - this is my number

Her: Hey awesome! I was just afraid I was too nervous and gave you the wrong number:)

Me: What? Lol -- (okay i was a dumbass and read this multiple times and didnt understand it, but now i do.)

Her: Haha true story! I already forgot your name.. I wasn't planning on meeting a cute guy in the salad aisle after a tough day at work:)

Me: I get nervous too when cute guys meet me in the salad aisle.... =x

Her: Haha funny:)

---

Anyways ill call her tommorow and see if she wants to meet up that night. Was a good successful pickup.

Let me know your thoughts
This girl is high IL. You handled this well. I liked your approach very much; you only need a few tweaks here and there. 1+ to your rep.

Keep being money,

-Robyn
 

CostaDeSol

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Nice daygame OP, whats your age? what did you think was her age?
 

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Nice example of effective use of texting also.
 

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CostaDeSol said:
Nice daygame OP, whats your age? what did you think was her age?
I am 25 years old, and I'm guessing shes around the same age.. 24-27
 

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Good job just how it was. Her calling you cute is a very good sign
 

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very nice , I've always wanted to try something like this , will defiantly look at it in the future , there's a collage in town , and once school starts up ill frequent the grocery stores closest to the campus
 
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