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Field Report from Brazil

darkstarrr

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For those of you who voted in my poll I ended up choosing the 2nd place option and right now I'm in Brazil.

I decided on Brazil because a friend who is from here was already planning on coming here and he invited me to go with him. It ALWAYS helps to know someone, especially if English is minimaly spoken and you aren't yet fluent.

This place is a gold mine. There are more women than men here. The US dollar is worth 1.7 of their dollars. My 2nd day here I was offered sex from a hooker for $20 Brazilian, which is about 13 bucks. The thing is you don't even need to pay for sex here. All you have to do is take care of yourself physically and mentally, be clean and have good hygene, smile, and learn a little bit of the language on the street.

I've hooked up with 4 chics in the 2 weeks I've been here, and I'm here for another 2 - 3 weeks. Please pardon my French but my experience so far is that they're swallowers. I've made a bunch of friends, some of whom speak English and are from the USA. The US friends are older than me, in their 50s, and have been here for about 5 yrs. They came here after bad divorces and said its like heaven. Each one has girlfriend(s) plural in their late 20s.

Property is cheap here and so is the food. I'm paying about $20 a day US for a decent, modern, clean, but small hotel room. I could have gotten a better price if I had planned ahead more. I'll be back here for Carnival, so...

The only bad experiences I've had so far are a few ferocious mosquito bites, a strange 3 day cold/flu like illness that I got from a girl whose apartment I slept over (which I ended up unintentionally giving to another girl and also a masseuse - woops!), and a slipped disk in my lower back which I promptly treated with some over the counter steroids. Giggidy giggidy..

The slipped disk happened when I was working out at a make shift gym with rocks on the beach. I used the exchange rate for dollars by accident, and not KG to pounds. I was deadlifting over 200lbs not 150lbs.

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Anyway, I'm glad I came here. Latvia is next on my list for those who voted for me to go to Europe. If anyone has any questions about Brazil from my point of view let me know.
 
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darkstarrr said:
a strange 3 day cold/flu like illness that I got from a girl whose apartment I slept over
You ARE wearing condoms, right? From what I've read, the seroconversion phase of HIV is a lot like the flu. :nervous:

Either way, sounds like you're having a blast. You should take up jujitsu while you're down there...I would if *I* was there. That'll wear you out/beat you up nicely. ;)

I know a couple of people who went on and on about the women in Brazil. Even pulled Brazilian chicks from bars around here before. Very uninhibited. :) Good hunting.
 

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Dear DarkStarr,
Sounds really good,there is something about the tropics that brings out the animal in us......Latvia?We have quite a few Latvians in Australia...They are a remarkable race...Germanic descendants of Teutonic Knights,with a mixing of Slav and Viking,they are hard as Krupps Steel....Someone once said "The Russian Revolution was won by Russian Ignorance,Jewish intelligence and Latvian bayonets....Like all such people,they carry a strong element of brutalisation,which comes out in their personality problems....I think this explains why the five or so Latvian Women I have had personal experience of,were very difficult people,often very horny,frequently alcoholic and always manic...Maybe the Ukraine would be a better place to meet Eastern Women....The Latvians are influenced too much by those Cold Dark winters and brooding Forests.
 

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Where in Brazil are you?
 

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Scaramouche - I hope you know I posted this field report for you. I'm sorry I didn't make it to your beloved vacation destination of Hong Kong. As I mentioned, I changed plans last minute due to the invite from my friend. I'll try again someday. "Germanic descendants of Teutonic Knights,with a mixing of Slav and Viking" ??? Reading that sent shivers up my spine. I'll research Ukraine some more and get back to you on what I decide.

Bluntmaster - I'm 100% with you on finding the hottest one I can, qualifying her as best I can, and bringing back home a wifey. I'll update you on my taboo-ic quest as more progress emerges. By the way I've yet to sample the bluntz here.

Squirrels - Condoms yes for intercourse. My brother would be more into the Jujitsu, and with the slipped disk incident my focus has been healing up and getting back to those rocks.

Sampsade, Effort, 3CountriesPlan - I'm in Guarapari which is about a half hour south of Vitoria and an overnight $40 bus ride to Rio. Vacation season just ended here so it quieted down a little, but it had been popping the last 2 weeks with people from all over coming here for the famous beach. I've been meeting girls with day-game and at this one club called Boteca at which I have a 100% success rate. I've found if I stay clean shaven at all times and smile semi-flirtaciously the ladies are exponentially more receptive to cold approaches. I'll be bussing it down to Rio next week for 3 days to get my feet wet there as well. Its the winter here in the Southern hemisphere, so about 80F each day mostly sunny. My plan has come to fruition such that I'll be returning to Guarapari/Rio for 3 months in the summer of next year (Jan Feb March) for Carnival. By then my Portuguese will be great and I'll have a concrete social network.

F28300 - Your wish is my command here are some pics but keep in mind, as you'll see with #4, common sense says it's not possible to snap pics of random girls on the street and game them at the same time. Bluntmaster, #1 is the wifey material you speak of. A fox who was downright painful to look at and talk to in person to the point where you could just find yourself flapping your lips and not really speaking clearly. humminna..humminna.. She shut me though. To my credit though, I did see a ring after the fact.

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Hello Dark Starr,
"I'm sorry I didn't make it to your beloved vacation destination of Hong Kong"....You read me wrong old chap,Honkers is quite a reasonable patch,but is nowhere near the best for ladies ....Just what are you after...whoors or nice girls for a long term relationship?....For whoors try Thailand,say Chiang Mei or Phuket,or the Phillippines where English is a first language,and where Americans are really respected as they did a lot for the Country....for a nice mix,what about Costa Rica?...for a bride,try the Ukraine,quite warm and close to nice tourist destinations like Turkey...Good luck mate.
 

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hey squirly,

you taking bjj at the moment?
 

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Sounds like a great time! Not to be a buzzkill or anything, but bringing a woman back to the US is usually not a good idea. I have seen firsthand that most of them eventually end up just as worthless as the typical American women. Some have turned out even worse. The US just ruins women.

If you want to marry a foreign woman, IMO it's best to live in her home country. One of the qualifiers for a wife should be that she is from a solid, close-knit family. If she really is, there is a good chance she will miss her family and want to go home soon anyways.

Just something to think about, since you are now officially spoiled..haha.
 

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PokerStar said:
hey squirly,

you taking bjj at the moment?
I was taking BJJ last year. During the summer I stopped going because my buddies were always going riding in the evening. Then in August I broke my leg and haven't been back since. But I can see myself going back sometime...it was an enjoyable martial art. It was like chess for meatheads. :p

I'm kinda waiting for the MMA-fever to die down a little.
 

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Dear Steve,
Yes you make a few good points,and in general I agree with you..."but bringing a woman back to the US is usually not a good idea. I have seen firsthand that most of them eventually end up just as worthless as the typical American women".....That is a long bow to draw,and it certainly does happen,but in general that is not the case....all of them have family ties that are extremely strong,generally packing them off back home once a year is enough,or bringing Mum or whoever over here...The best of these Girls are already here,often they have made a mistake with a very low type of guy....These Girls have done the hard yards,have decided to stay and save you the strain on a relationship, that is involved in breaking them in.
 

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It's 6am here in Brazil and I'm checking in with an update for you guys. I may have mentioned that I've extended my trip. I may cry when it's time to return to the States..

Scaramouche said:
..Just what are you after...for a bride,try the Ukraine,quite warm and close to nice tourist destinations like Turkey..
Scaramouche since my biological clock is ticking and I'd like to play catch with a future kid before my arms stop functioning, my sights are set on more wholesome, housewife quality women. Barefoot in the kitchen type. I trust that comes across to you as more old-fashioned than womanizing or misogynistic.

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If I were you I'd pick the hottest Brazilian girl I could find and bring home a wifey.
Bluntmaster - here is one candidate I found. She's 20, a Church girl, and very close with her family. Does not drink or smoke at all. She has a slightly sweet fragrance about her that I know is her natural scent and not perfume because she can't afford perfume. Man that sounds rude, but you know I intended it to be a compliment on her. Anyway, she's about 115-120lbs with a C cup. I'm sorry but I'm not revealing my strategy for picking her up. ;)

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Just needs a little guidance with the eyebrows but my buddy's wife is into estheticics so she can help with that.
steve38 said:
If you want to marry a foreign woman, IMO it's best to live in her home country. One of the qualifiers for a wife should be that she is from a solid, close-knit family.
Steve thanks, this makes sense to me and I think it would be possible to travel somewhat frequently together. I mean a lady and me of course not you and me. I'm kind of speechless at this point about this place. I have some ridiculous stories from the last month that I'll share when I get back and have more time to write.

Do not be mistaken, however. The same goes here as in the States. To maximize your potential with the ladies you must put in effort to Self Actualize. Once you do that you'll be equipped with the most powerful weapon you can have in your repetoir, a natural flirtacious smile with an overall attractiveness about you.

PS - yes those are braces.
 
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