I was out again (Friday night) after a awful time Thursday night. Thursday started great but I slowly lost my cool and I was annoyed pretty quickly to where I want it to left. That night, I saw my buddy dancing with couple of good looking girls and getting numbers as well (I was so outcome dependent that I never ever try to talk to girls, which I ended up being frustrated about)
Well being the good friend that he is, he gave me a speech about how I don't try enough and that you never know a girl's intention until you try to talk to them. Also that I should just enjoy myself because girls will be attracted to the fact that you are having fun and then they will be more open to talk and/or dance.
So friday arrive and I decide that I wanna go out again. I leave pretty late (12:30am) and the bars closes at 2-2:10. I decide to dress pretty classy (dress shoes, dress shirt, black khakis pants.
Anyway, I get there almost at 1am, get a drink, and start bumping my head to the music. 15 mins later, 2 chicks just bump into me, and they start dancing near. Lots of eye contact and I'm all smile because those girls were acting silly. After a little while, one of them when on to talk to another guy and was making weird faces. So I asked her friend: ''Is she always like that ?'' She reply no while laughing.
They decide to leave and the girl that I talk to (let's call her S) wave me good bye. I wave back and I stay in my spot, still enjoying the music.
Some other girl took a sip of my drink and left (wtf ? aw ?) then just look at me like it was a normal thing to do....
I decided to go to the other dancefloor and there I see the girl alone and she has a napkin trapped underneath her shoe.
Me: I tap her on the shoulder
S: ''Thanks for letting me know !''
Me:No problem, what's your name by the way ?
S:Says her name ''What's your name'' ?
Me: badboyjmm (while shaking her hand)
Me: I thought you said earlier that you were drunk and you are still drinking ?
S: Yes I am, do you want some ?
Me: No I'm fine, I was drinking earlier, do you wanna dance ?
S: Yes.
So we find a little corner where we are hiding between a bunch of people. We dance, it getting a little touchy touchy, then we make out.
She then takes my hand and lead me downstairs where the bathrooms are. We make out some more.
S: I'm looking for a quite spot, I want you !
Me: There's no spot, if we start doing something here, we'll get caught !
So we make out some more, I have her against the wall while bringing one of her legs up.
S: Are you sure we can't have a quick doggystyle here ?
Me: Yeah, it's a nice corner but there's no door ! Somebody will catch us !
So we make out some more then a member of the staff open a door, sees us and closes the door quickly
S: You are so right, imagine if we were doing some nasty stuff !
Me: I told you ! Listen we need to leave.
S: I can't leave my friend
Me: Tell them you are lost somewhere
S: Well I can't do that.
Me: Yes, you can, *kiss*, do it
S: Hmmm, ok let me grab my coat
Afterwards we basically walk to my car, she talk about how I'm so cool about everything and how she never does that( '' I'm not those one night stand type girls)
We got home, gave her a tour of the apartment. Then we ended up in my room, some more making out, clothes off and the rest was history !!! :rockon:
Funny thing: She was giving me a BJ when I realize that my dad got in the apartment (I live with my dad) so I'm like:'' I'm going to call him so he doesn't open up the door.'' The girl giggles and I call my dad. Some sweet actions after wards yeah yeah :yes:
I drive her home at around 3am, apparently she works at 8am... But it was great. She seems very chill and we exchange numbers. She was stating that she wants to see me again. Asking me questions about my work, favorite music and typical first date questions.
Dry spell duration: 1 year and 4 months. That was long.... But it's now destroyed !:box:
Summary, what did I do right:
- I was looking to have a great night by myself
- Didn't push the issue the first time she was around
- Saw the opportunity to dance (again, i didn't think we would end up banging)
- Kiss close and basically acting like I've known her forever
- Assuming the sale (assuming that she will accept the offer to go to my place, she was cool because she knew exactly why we were going there)
- Leading (telling her to ditch her friend)
One thing that was odd was when I drop her off and she like: '' I'm glad I meet you tonight, you were awesome, and I wanna let you know that if I don't see you again, it was really fun''
I think it odd because I told her we should definitely see eachother again that way I can see if she a cool chick. Maybe she a bit insecure, who knows ?
I wanna thank the forums for all it's teaching, it's sad that we don't see more of those success stories but if I can help somebody with this field report or with a answer to their question, I feel I'm just giving back the support that I got when I got in the forums !
Thanks for reading (it was a long read), hope you've enjoyed it and I hope there's going to be more
Well being the good friend that he is, he gave me a speech about how I don't try enough and that you never know a girl's intention until you try to talk to them. Also that I should just enjoy myself because girls will be attracted to the fact that you are having fun and then they will be more open to talk and/or dance.
So friday arrive and I decide that I wanna go out again. I leave pretty late (12:30am) and the bars closes at 2-2:10. I decide to dress pretty classy (dress shoes, dress shirt, black khakis pants.
Anyway, I get there almost at 1am, get a drink, and start bumping my head to the music. 15 mins later, 2 chicks just bump into me, and they start dancing near. Lots of eye contact and I'm all smile because those girls were acting silly. After a little while, one of them when on to talk to another guy and was making weird faces. So I asked her friend: ''Is she always like that ?'' She reply no while laughing.
They decide to leave and the girl that I talk to (let's call her S) wave me good bye. I wave back and I stay in my spot, still enjoying the music.
Some other girl took a sip of my drink and left (wtf ? aw ?) then just look at me like it was a normal thing to do....
I decided to go to the other dancefloor and there I see the girl alone and she has a napkin trapped underneath her shoe.
Me: I tap her on the shoulder
S: ''Thanks for letting me know !''
Me:No problem, what's your name by the way ?
S:Says her name ''What's your name'' ?
Me: badboyjmm (while shaking her hand)
Me: I thought you said earlier that you were drunk and you are still drinking ?
S: Yes I am, do you want some ?
Me: No I'm fine, I was drinking earlier, do you wanna dance ?
S: Yes.
So we find a little corner where we are hiding between a bunch of people. We dance, it getting a little touchy touchy, then we make out.
She then takes my hand and lead me downstairs where the bathrooms are. We make out some more.
S: I'm looking for a quite spot, I want you !
Me: There's no spot, if we start doing something here, we'll get caught !
So we make out some more, I have her against the wall while bringing one of her legs up.
S: Are you sure we can't have a quick doggystyle here ?
Me: Yeah, it's a nice corner but there's no door ! Somebody will catch us !
So we make out some more then a member of the staff open a door, sees us and closes the door quickly
S: You are so right, imagine if we were doing some nasty stuff !
Me: I told you ! Listen we need to leave.
S: I can't leave my friend
Me: Tell them you are lost somewhere
S: Well I can't do that.
Me: Yes, you can, *kiss*, do it
S: Hmmm, ok let me grab my coat
Afterwards we basically walk to my car, she talk about how I'm so cool about everything and how she never does that( '' I'm not those one night stand type girls)
We got home, gave her a tour of the apartment. Then we ended up in my room, some more making out, clothes off and the rest was history !!! :rockon:
Funny thing: She was giving me a BJ when I realize that my dad got in the apartment (I live with my dad) so I'm like:'' I'm going to call him so he doesn't open up the door.'' The girl giggles and I call my dad. Some sweet actions after wards yeah yeah :yes:
I drive her home at around 3am, apparently she works at 8am... But it was great. She seems very chill and we exchange numbers. She was stating that she wants to see me again. Asking me questions about my work, favorite music and typical first date questions.
Dry spell duration: 1 year and 4 months. That was long.... But it's now destroyed !:box:
Summary, what did I do right:
- I was looking to have a great night by myself
- Didn't push the issue the first time she was around
- Saw the opportunity to dance (again, i didn't think we would end up banging)
- Kiss close and basically acting like I've known her forever
- Assuming the sale (assuming that she will accept the offer to go to my place, she was cool because she knew exactly why we were going there)
- Leading (telling her to ditch her friend)
One thing that was odd was when I drop her off and she like: '' I'm glad I meet you tonight, you were awesome, and I wanna let you know that if I don't see you again, it was really fun''
I think it odd because I told her we should definitely see eachother again that way I can see if she a cool chick. Maybe she a bit insecure, who knows ?
I wanna thank the forums for all it's teaching, it's sad that we don't see more of those success stories but if I can help somebody with this field report or with a answer to their question, I feel I'm just giving back the support that I got when I got in the forums !
Thanks for reading (it was a long read), hope you've enjoyed it and I hope there's going to be more