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I believe field experience as your top and first priority....no matter if u win, lose, or draw....does anyone else feel the same? So if ur from the bay area and want to go get it....let me know....there's plenty to be had....and for those who have "anxiety" about the first and only step....you've been lied to and if u still "can't" get it/do it.....I have a singing frog for sale I saved for you especially.
 

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OP, it seems that you are still in that young/old single military lingo mindset.

In my perspective based on your past threads, you're single and you wanna go out and meet and perhaps F*ck as many broads as you can or in a bigger scale like many young/old vets that just finish their first contract, you want an actual relationship.

Yes field reports are essential to building up to what you want to achieve, but it takes time (seems like you're in a bit of a rush).
Being in the military myself I've met a lot of young/old single individuals going on the same aloof ploy you are getting at, and without doubt they fail to pick up the slightest chance of bringing home the prize as they give off a vibe of desperation in every attempt.

In my opinion, take you're time and work on yourself a little more.
Sleeping with a chick ain't gonna sprout rainbows on your head, in other words a broad will not make your life complete.

This is purely based off my personal perspective on what's going on here whether my assumptions be true or not
 

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The OP is right. Anything else is tantamount to saying that you should learn to drive by reading a book. Yes you need to know the highway code but the learning is in the doing.

Unless you are already mature enough (and experienced enough), which in my opinion does not cover the majority of the readers here, then this site will not teach you what you need to know. It can help you or it can hinder you and my advice is that you listen to this OP. Stop trying to reason the mindsets of others and act to teach your emotions to how to behave. ACT.
 

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SemperDJ said:
OP, it seems that you are still in that young/old single military lingo mindset.

In my perspective based on your past threads, you're single and you wanna go out and meet and perhaps F*ck as many broads as you can or in a bigger scale like many young/old vets that just finish their first contract, you want an actual relationship.

Yes field reports are essential to building up to what you want to achieve, but it takes time (seems like you're in a bit of a rush).
Being in the military myself I've met a lot of young/old single individuals going on the same aloof ploy you are getting at, and without doubt they fail to pick up the slightest chance of bringing home the prize as they give off a vibe of desperation in every attempt.

In my opinion, take you're time and work on yourself a little more.
Sleeping with a chick ain't gonna sprout rainbows on your head, in other words a broad will not make your life complete.

This is purely based off my personal perspective on what's going on here whether my assumptions be true or not
i wont discredit your assumptions...it is true i want to experience more women in general. not looking for a relationship right off the bat because i just got out of one and im looking to stay free to spend my time, money, and energy on myself. the early bird gets the worm in my book....how to do that without seeming eager is at the person's own discretion. just met a tall, model like girl who saw my "desperate" vibes as somewhat cute. but you can spin any vibe to suit the situation/crowd...i agree sleeping with a chick wont sprout rainbows, but it will add fuel to my fire. thanks for the advice on working on myself more...its good to hear. you say field reports take time...learning to master a trick shot at basketball or hitting a curve ball takes time, but you can help yourself be faster by actually taking a swing every time. in my opinion, if you want to "get" girls, go out and take the swing, wether you know how to swing the bat the correct way or not. eventually life will teach you want you want to learn. now if your first priority is becoming a "great" human being and a pillar of society, obviously go read those threads/books....in summation...the worst vice is advice. first things first...it means opening your mouth to the girl you like, and yes being your best example of what "you" are. and that will change over time...your likes in women will change and you will have to learn new ways to interact with them. but the first step is all you need. you gotta show up to the gym first...if youre doing an exercise wrong, some good soul will help you out. just like life will help you out, but you cant do it from the couch, or from inside your own head.
 

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Better metaphor.....if you buy the newest video game....would you watch all your friends play it first and see what works for them....then go read gamepro magazine and see what strategic moves you can use to beat the levels? No! You're taking all the fun out of it for yourself. Your woman should be discovered by you. If you're "learning" the tricks, essentially its like you would pay to have her if you were Charlie sheen rich. Just go out and hit the start button. Some games are hard, some are not...but you can't know unless you start. And then you will see that u like the easy games cuz they are more fun for you, or the harder games are much more to ur liking. Or u thought u were into super nice graphics (looks), but it got old fast, or u only like them when ur buzzed....point is u gotta start. I'm taking my own advice...
 
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