Females CHOOSE how they want to FEEL...

[cola]

I think some people in this community generalize way too much. As you get into the world you guys will see all women arent a raging ball of emotions. There are still some really cool girls out there, and furthermore this community is jading you guys to the point you cant be yourself around females long enough to see.

Every female out there isnt waiting to rip your heart out when you slip up and most pua stuff only applies to a certain pool of women.
carry on

 

[DonGorgon]

I think some people in this community generalize way too much. As you get into the world you guys will see all women arent a raging ball of emotions. There are still some really cool girls out there, and furthermore this community is jading you guys to the point you cant be yourself around females long enough to see.

Every female out there isnt waiting to rip your heart out when you slip up and most pua stuff only applies to a certain pool of women.
carry on

^^ i hope typing that made you feel better... but we are assessing trends in females so that we can be prepared for what happens most of the time to most men with most women

 

[Down Low]

that's the worst neg-hitting i have ever seen.

No, here's the worst:

...then they grow up to be B1TCHES that b1tch YAP YAP YAP YAP YAP YAP

 

[Desdinova]

Yes. her feelings are real BUT she can turn them on and off like a light switch when ever she wants... and when she does they are really on and really off though to us it seems like she was lying or faking..

I disagree wholeheartedly with this point. Women cannot control their feelings like this. They may be able to control (to some degree) how these feelings show through her speech and body language, but their feelings are still there.

If a woman is flaking or not returning your calls, she:
1) Has no strong feelings for you
2) Has a strong dislike for you

She CANNOT suddenly turn her feelings toward you into a positive feeling. If this were the case, then the nice guys would win. The fact that women generally go for the jerks is enough proof that the woman CANNOT control her feelings.

 

[bigneil]

Good point Desdinova. Think of the women you DIDN'T like, how you couldn't seem to shake them. Women do have cyclical moods, but it's like the varying temperature of a day versus a year.

 

[backbreaker]

penkitten has more DJ skills than probably 98% of this forum would listen to her. she knows what she is talking about and doesn't talk out her ass because she's a woman.if you ever wanted to get a real opinion about a woman's point of view penkitten is your gal. we might not always see eye to eye but she is not your prototypical "woman" so to speak. shoe knows what the deal is.

 

[runner83]

I disagree wholeheartedly with this point. Women cannot control their feelings like this. They may be able to control (to some degree) how these feelings show through her speech and body language, but their feelings are still there.

If a woman is flaking or not returning your calls, she:
1) Has no strong feelings for you
2) Has a strong dislike for you

She CANNOT suddenly turn her feelings toward you into a positive feeling. If this were the case, then the nice guys would win. The fact that women generally go for the jerks is enough proof that the woman CANNOT control her feelings.

^ ^ Agreed.

Original poster, instead of being a bitter hater, should just learn to not take it personally if a girl isn't into him, and move on.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Dongorgon, sorry mate. But it´s time to leave your computer and to consult a doctor on your mental issues.

When you write sh*t like this, is very clear that you hardly know women. It´s very easy to read lots of pickup foruns (where by definition you find men who had problems with women), make a compilation, and write an epic post with your conclusions..

Your posts make success, because many guys are super negative, and don´t come with that **** talk, "I´m just an honest thinker, who although wished reality was different, can handle the truth". Just sh*t the f*ck, don´t you get tired of always writing the same stuff?
Aren´t you aware that kids also frequent this forum, and you are brainwashing them from the research you do online, and not based on real world?

There are good and bad women, period. And don´t be ridiculous, women choose the way they want to feel. That´s right, women who commited suicide, because they had love problems chose to feel that way....

 

[DonGorgon]

Dongorgon, sorry mate. But it´s time to leave your computer and to consult a doctor on your mental issues.

When you write sh*t like this, is very clear that you hardly know women. It´s very easy to read lots of pickup foruns (where by definition you find men who had problems with women), make a compilation, and write an epic post with your conclusions..

Your posts make success, because many guys are super negative, and don´t come with that **** talk, "I´m just an honest thinker, who although wished reality was different, can handle the truth". Just sh*t the f*ck, don´t you get tired of always writing the same stuff?
Aren´t you aware that kids also frequent this forum, and you are brainwashing them from the research you do online, and not based on real world?

There are good and bad women, period. And don´t be ridiculous, women choose the way they want to feel. That´s right, women who commited suicide, because they had love problems chose to feel that way....

^^^simple i am a realist and most humans cant handle reality so they are optimists or pessimists.. you think and do what works for you..

 

[Eternal_water]

this isn't exactly true. i know the difference between right and wrong. i am not amoral. sometimes i can choose how i want to feel about something, and sometimes i just feel a certain way about it no matter what i want.... but i still know the difference between right and wrong.
contrary to what someone may "feel", people do make choices on how to behave.

I can neither trust nor respect a woman who is on a forum that should be just for guys. It must be such an ego boost for you reading these forums.

The other posters comment about women not having to work for it is very valid.

 

[youngmack]

I can neither trust nor respect a woman who is on a forum that should be just for guys. It must be such an ego boost for you reading these forums.

The other posters comment about women not having to work for it is very valid.

I concur

 

[Mike32ct]

Everything on this site has to be taken in the proper context. Believe it or not, even the most (seemingly) negative and cynical posts have value because they contain shreds of truth. Nobody is claiming that the negative stuff is true 100 percent of the time. Just be aware that these things happen.

If someone on a women's forum said "Men just want sex" I would probably laugh and nod "yes" because it's LARGELY true no matter how negative or cynical it might sound. But any intelligent person knows it's not a 100 percent rule because plenty of men do want a relationship, with the right woman. You just have to take the statement for WHAT IT'S WORTH, ie in the proper context.

So I like DonGorgon because he calls as he sees it. You don't have to agree with all of it. If you see it differently, I welcome your posts. Disagreement is healthy here. I like to see diffrent viewpoints.


As for female posting on here, RARE is the female poster who can see the whole picture and present it in such a way that she isn't being condescending, AND she is genuinely trying to help guys. Penkitten meets all those criteria. So I have enormous respect for her posts.

 

[Trump]

with all these men out here desperately in search of a vagina supply women quickly learn hat the world is their oyster and they can do as they please while never having to worry about being alonE or without sex so they focus on other things in many of their decisions...

When you contact a females trying to make planes to F she compares you and your offer to 5 other guys and their offers.. many time curiosity is her biggest motivator .. i.e. she wants to know what it will be like to F the guys she has not Fed yet.. So devise a game strategy to make her FEEL like it will be a great adventure if she chooses you over the 10000 other desperate dudes trying to F that night..

Dont value them so much. If you have so much time to think about how a girl talks to you, reacts to you, swears at you, you have too much time on your hands. Imagine if you didn't know where you next meal was coming from, or didn't know if you could make rent next month, would you care so much?

The only thing you want a girl to do is respect you. Anything else is her prerogative.

 

[Atom Smasher]

This has got to be one of the most amusing threads ever to hit SS on SO MANY different levels.

Do you guys see how a woman will insist that she knows right from wrong, will insist that she is not amoral, has no idea under the sun what the difference between "amoral" and "immoral" is, and is completely unaware that amorality comes into play and drives her only within the context of relationships? She is unaware because she does not posess the wiring for these concepts to take hold, just as I can't comprehend being a mother because the wiring is simply non-existent.

You can bat this around with her from now till doomsday and it will go nowhere (as you will see from her further responses).

Can my toaster calculate the energy levels of the pi-network in Hexatriene? Not that I'm aware of.

Can my computer make me a nice piece of toast? I really don't think that capability was instilled by its manufacturer.

Computers cannot comprehend cooking toast, and toasters can't comprehend crunching numbers.

I submit that the amoral in nature cannot comprehend amorality and therefore it is an exercise in absolute futility to discuss it.

 

[Down Low]

Yes. her feelings are real BUT she can turn them on and off like a light switch when ever she wants... and when she does they are really on and really off though to us it seems like she was lying or faking..

No, and for two very simple reasons:

(1) Hormonal balance. Women live through an unending roller coaster ride of changing hormonal balance that has nothing to do with what's happening at the time. It's a poor subject for study. Women have difficulty understanding why they feel as they feel at any given moment. In contradistinction, men have constant hormonal balance. That's an easy subject for study. Our big emotional jumps are always situational. Because we learn this, we learn to avoid or minimize bad situations, not to blame others for our own actions, etc., etc.

(2) The matter of perspective. Women riding the roller coaster see things from their perspective -- not yours. At times, the whole world is against them. Then, they're so immensely happy. Then they're doing things they can't understand even while they're doing them. Finally, they're deeply relieved that their periods came, while upset because the cramping hurts. Women cannot get off the roller coaster, so they can never understand that it's them who are tilting up and down -- not the Earth. But even the few women who do understand what's happening to them -- still go through the wild gyrations in mood and respond accordingly. Merely knowing something doesn't give anyone the functional ability to do anything about it.

It's andropomorphism to assign male characteristics to females. It's a mistake, fellas.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Women cannot get off the roller coaster, so they can never understand that it's them who are tilting up and down -- not the Earth. But even the few women who do understand what's happening to them -- still go through the wild gyrations in mood and respond accordingly. Merely knowing something doesn't give anyone the functional ability to do anything about it.

It's andropomorphism to assign male characteristics to females. It's a mistake, fellas.

Down Low, this is one of the most insightful posts I've ever read. I've never heard it expressed the way you did here.

 

[Cabal]

In general, however, many women will lie, cheat, and manipulate others and ruin a good man's name if she thinks it will garner sympathy for herself and her personal status as seen by others. Some men do this too.

This. As the guy whose three year girlfriend had an affair with a co-worker, got caught, then both moved into together and told everyone I used to hit her and she was a victim and he was a hero... I know this to be true.

That ended with my life in danger, my job in jeopardy, a baby-for-council-flat caught in the middle, and a lawsuit that ultimately saw six people fired.

But it's okay, it felt like the right thing for her to do...

 

[rum]

14. Secrecy - You used to know everywhere she went at all times...she'd tell you, and in the rare case you'd ask she'd be honest. Now it's "Listen I'm not going to tell you everything" "Can't I get some me time" "You're being too invasive" just more strategies to make you feel like a creeper for even wondering and more attempts to push you away

hint:

she's with another guy, or with "the girls"...talking about another guy

 

[Down Low]

Down Low, this is one of the most insightful posts I've ever read. I've never heard it expressed the way you did here.

Thanks, I appreciate that.

 

[DonGorgon]

No, and for two very simple reasons:

(1) Hormonal balance. Women live through an unending roller coaster ride of changing hormonal balance that has nothing to do with what's happening at the time. It's a poor subject for study. Women have difficulty understanding why they feel as they feel at any given moment. In contradistinction, men have constant hormonal balance. That's an easy subject for study. Our big emotional jumps are always situational. Because we learn this, we learn to avoid or minimize bad situations, not to blame others for our own actions, etc., etc.

(2) The matter of perspective. Women riding the roller coaster see things from their perspective -- not yours. At times, the whole world is against them. Then, they're so immensely happy. Then they're doing things they can't understand even while they're doing them. Finally, they're deeply relieved that their periods came, while upset because the cramping hurts. Women cannot get off the roller coaster, so they can never understand that it's them who are tilting up and down -- not the Earth. But even the few women who do understand what's happening to them -- still go through the wild gyrations in mood and respond accordingly. Merely knowing something doesn't give anyone the functional ability to do anything about it.

It's andropomorphism to assign male characteristics to females. It's a mistake, fellas.

^^^from this i conclude that god create women to be random and out of control to increase the chances of them accidentally mating with several men based on their mood and getting knocked up ...lol yes women hormonal instability is often the main factor in relationships being stressful.. females just can be calm and cool they need drama and trouble and will make some if there is none..