Females are the foundation of a life well lived.

[Millard Fillmore]

no I am not. Going on vacations with someone or people you value and having those shared experiences is always going to beat a solo trip. The fact that you are limited to certain activities going solo speaks for itself as well.

Some people are just more independent. No limits here.

 

[SW15]

MGTOWs and incels are not all that happy in their lives without females.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Some people are just more independent. No limits here.

Im independent af and I have travelled to distant continent solo plenty of times.

 

[LucianoM]

OP is young and a bit naive, he will learn.

Man im damn near 40, but that makes my point all the more valid. Ive done all the hobbies, trips, and activities but none of them compare to doing even the most mundane chit with a girl by my side. If you want the most memorable life experiences you first need the girl, everything else comes second.

 

[The Duke]

Man im damn near 40, but that makes my point all the more valid. Ive done all the hobbies, trips, and activities but none of them compare to doing even the most mundane chit with a girl by my side. If you want the most memorable life experiences you first need the girl, everything else comes second.

What is the most memorable thing you've done and enjoyed that was with out a girl?

 

[CornbreadFed]

What is the most memorable thing you've done and enjoyed that was with out a girl?

I know this is directed at OP, but there’s only so many things you can do by yourself. In the traveling retrospect, it makes things easier, more affordable, and gives you more options to do things. For example, I went to Africa with my partner and we did a safari/resort together. If I was solo, I would’ve never considered doing that because 1). It’s expensive and 2). It is a couples/family thing, so you would look odd going by yourself. Yes, I have had wonderful times traveling solo to places, but I still felt limited and the people I met I don’t even keep up with because they live in a different country.

 

[LucianoM]

What is the most memorable thing you've done and enjoyed that was with out a girl?

probably when i went to costa rica, but i only went solo because i didnt have anyone to go with.

A trip to state park with female > solo trip to anywhere.

 

[LucianoM]

I know this is directed at OP, but there’s only so many things you can do by yourself. In the traveling retrospect, it makes things easier, more affordable, and gives you more options to do things. For example, I went to Africa with my partner and we did a safari/resort together. If I was solo, I would’ve never considered doing that because 1). It’s expensive and 2). It is a couples/family thing, so you would look odd going by yourself. Yes, I have had wonderful times traveling solo to places, but I still felt limited and the people I met I don’t even keep up with because they live in a different country.

Theres also the motivation factor. When you have a girl whose down to travel your motivation to take trips greatly increases vs planning trips by yourself.

 

[RazorRambo24]

I just came back from an amazing camping trip at a national park. Why was it amazing? Because i had a cute girl with me. Ive camped alone and while it was better than staying home, the trips always felt average because there was no one to talk to while hiking, no one to admire the mountains with me, no one to hug at night around the campfire. Females make everything 10x better. The manosphere always talks about creating a beautiful life and that girls should just be icing on the cake, but that is complete bullchit. You cannot build a beautiful life without a female to help you build it. Period. She is the active ingredient. Without them every trip, every night out, every experience you have will always be half lived because youre missing the active ingredient. I can honestly say i wouldve forgotten about this trip within a month if i went alone. But with a girl ill reminisce about the trip 10 years from now. Ill remeber the time i chased her around with a frog, the time i playfully pushed her into a waterfall, the drunken banter around the campfire, etc. If you are missing out on girls you are missing out on life itself.

Stop coping!

Great post but... I'd say --You're preaching to the wrong choir. A buncha these dudes are f-ed man. The more I spend time on here, the more I realize the crowd we're dealign with is comprised with a buncha socially inept creeps, many of whos perspectives would convince you they hate women.

 

[member160292]

Great post but... I'd say --You're preaching to the wrong choir. A buncha these dudes are f-ed man. The more I spend time on here, the more I realize the crowd we're dealign with is comprised with a buncha socially inept creeps, many of whos perspectives would convince you they hate women.

The ignore function is quite useful

 

[RazorRambo24]

The ignore function is quite useful

Hah you know how many people i'd have to end up ignoring? If i just shun out everyone who has a different perspective than me it would make better sense to just leave.. I think that's my eventual route anyways. But I do appreciate the tip.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

MGTOWs and incels are not all that happy in their lives without females.

There are worlds of reason between making pvssy to the epicentre of your life and MGTOW though.

 

[CornbreadFed]

There are worlds of reason between making pvssy to the epicentre of your life and MGTOW though.

but mgtow and incels just spend all day talking about pvssy instead of fvcking pvssy.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I just came back from an amazing camping trip at a national park. Why was it amazing? Because i had a cute girl with me. Ive camped alone and while it was better than staying home, the trips always felt average because there was no one to talk to while hiking, no one to admire the mountains with me, no one to hug at night around the campfire. Females make everything 10x better. The manosphere always talks about creating a beautiful life and that girls should just be icing on the cake, but that is complete bullchit. You cannot build a beautiful life without a female to help you build it. Period. She is the active ingredient. Without them every trip, every night out, every experience you have will always be half lived because youre missing the active ingredient. I can honestly say i wouldve forgotten about this trip within a month if i went alone. But with a girl ill reminisce about the trip 10 years from now. Ill remeber the time i chased her around with a frog, the time i playfully pushed her into a waterfall, the drunken banter around the campfire, etc. If you are missing out on girls you are missing out on life itself.

Stop coping!

The counterpoint to that is that thee is some guy on some other forum right now posting about how glad he is to go on a camping trip alone and leave his annoying, post-wall wife of 20 years with the kids. The bottom line is that new experiences are always exciting. And then sh!t get old fast.

 

[Bokanovsky]

To all you saying a girl shouldnt be the foundation, then what should it be? What is this fuzzy thing that we should base our hapiness on? Gardening?

Happiness is, first and foremost, based on inner game. Some people can be happy with very little. Others are never satisfied with anything.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Happiness is, first and foremost, based on inner game. Some people can be happy with very little. Others are never satisfied with anything.

well to be happy with other people, you must be happy with yourself first and foremost. Then you can expand your happiness with other people.

 

[corrector]

I've also lived the counter-point as well. If you are a woman that's not really a good fit (ie like my ex-wife) then the alone time to those places has a premium. In fact, one good thing comes out of being tied to the wrong women, is that you remember how much of a prison it was, and how it was a luxury to enjoy simple things by yourself, you don't have to worry if you are going to the gym by yourself, or doing some activity. Apart from that my ex-wife was a good buffer to my ex-gf that I did feel great moments with, so I was able to reminisce about the past experience without feeling bad the ex-gf was the last girl I dealt with.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I've also lived the counter-point as well. If you are a woman that's not really a good fit (ie like my ex-wife) then the alone time to those places has a premium. In fact, one good thing comes out of being tied to the wrong women, is that you remember how much of a prison it was, and how it was a luxury to enjoy simple things by yourself, you don't have to worry if you are going to the gym by yourself, or doing some activity. Apart from that my ex-wife was a good buffer to my ex-gf that I did feel great moments with, so I was able to reminisce about the past experience without feeling bad the ex-gf was the last girl I dealt with.

I also remember the depressing times by myself and how I would’ve loved to do social activities or have sex with a woman lol. In addition, I live next to a popular bar area and I cringe whenever I see obviously single men walking on the side walk with that I need to find pvssy tonight vibe lol.

But I’ve also had bad relationships too where I felt like I was imprisoned. Overall, I would choose the bad relationships because feeling lonely and jerking off was always worse than feeling trapped after having sex lol.

 

[corrector]

I also remember the depressing times by myself and how I would’ve loved to do social activities or have sex with a woman lol. In addition, I live next to a popular bar area and I cringe whenever I see obviously single men walking on the side walk with that I need to find pvssy tonight vibe lol.

But I’ve also had bad relationships too where I felt like I was imprisoned. Overall, I would choose the bad relationships because feeling lonely and jerking off was always worse than feeling trapped after having sex lol.

It does not sound like a bad relationship if you are having sex. That goes when things get too nasty.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I’m chillin like a villain with just a loyal and feminine cutie with a fat azz hanging out in my living room watching something of the oled screen and puffin on some sativa off my balcony.
She ain’t got no other place in this crooked world she rather be than in my corner.
I prefer a woman who comes to me for pleasure. There is peace in that.
Her best part is her sex and the fulfillment of her true feminine identity.
There is no game or ulterior motive.
She can just be a woman there.
That is man’s nectar of life.
I carved it in stone years back that your right feminine and nurturing woman by your side can without a doubt be your fate’s whisper when the chips are down

Next to a bag full of cash, passing quality time with a good female is the best rush of endorphins fueled with a dopamine surge like no other.