Female Psychology: Women love to flaunt their accessories, which also includes the men in their orbit

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Boyos, have you ever wondered why women love to flaunt their Fendi purses, Prada shoes and latest iPhones, etc...???...

It's because women love to one-up each other just as much as men, and they secretly love to inspire envy out of their female peers.

The vast majority of women are incapable deriving self-worth internally, their sense of self-worth is entirely externally driven - meaning they need to feel validated by others, either in the form of attention from men or envy from other women.

This is nothing new. Back in the 1950s women would congregate and each would take turns bragging about their husband's promotion while also talking sh1t about the women who's husbands are lagging in their career or who's looks are fading. Watch Mad Men on Netflix if you want a good portrayal of this.

And that's actually the crux of this thread: women view men as accessories.

There are 2 types of accessories that women keep in their sphere:

Type 1 - Accessories that are tools, like for example, eyebrow tweezers. It's a tool used to do a job, it's not a tool to flaunt.

Type 2 - Accessories that are used to flaunt, like for example the latest iPhone. It's a status symbol, it's used to inspire envy from others.

Women keep (or rather they tolerate having) low-value men in their orbit because these fools offer them easy validation, and they can also exploit these buffoons for money, or move some furniture or do some other degrading, menial task. But women would never flaunt these men to their friends. Why would they? These low value schmucks wouldn't inspire envy from their female peers.

Women will flaunt Chad, Tyrone and Carlos to their friends because these men are Type 2 Accessories - accessories that are used to inspire envy. Women also treat these high value men a lot better than they treat the low value yesmen in their orbit. They lavish these men with affection the same way they are protective of their expense Fendi purses.

Please understand that a woman's level of interest in you is highly dependent on whether she classifies you as a Type 1 or Type 2 accessory.

Ask yourself this question and be honest with yourself: "Am I the type of guy that would cause her friends to be green with envy?"... As a man, you must do everything in your power to be able to confidently and honestly answer yes to this question.

Boyos, I hope you'll be able to derive wisdom from my words. I'm here to guide you through the minefield that is the modern Sexual Marketplace.

We'll talk again soon.

Sincerly,

Xenom0rph - The Blackpill Prometheus
 

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What's funny is that women get angry when you point this out. "What's wrong with being friends with someone, they say?" Anyone with experience will know that these so-called friends are always trying to ask for favours and take advantage. That's why you need to kick any woman that is uncooperative out of your life right at the beginning.
 

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Exactly, my own definition of "beta orbiters" to a woman is gems on her "crown." The more gems she "adds" to her "crown," the better and higher status she feels when comparing herself to other women.
 

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What's funny is that women get angry when you point this out. "What's wrong with being friends with someone, they say?" Anyone with experience will know that these so-called friends are always trying to ask for favours and take advantage. That's why you need to kick any woman that is uncooperative out of your life right at the beginning.
This is not the woman's fault, but rather these simps'.

By willingly being "friend" with a woman, they have all the "duties" of a boyfriend (being her ATMs, her psychologists, her shopping girlfriends, her drivers, etc...) but none of the "benefit" aka sex.

So yeah, they only have themselves to blame.
 
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This is not the woman's fault, but rather these simps'.

By willingly being "friend" with a woman, they have all the "duties" of a boyfriend (being her ATMs, her psychologist, her drivers, etc...) but none of the "benefit" aka sex.

So yeah, they only have themselves to blame.
I partly agree. Users take advantage of naive, inexperienced guys (and guys need to wise up to avoid these tricks), but that doesn't mean that I think their behaviour is acceptable.
 

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I partly agree. Users take advantage of naive, inexperienced guys (and guys need to wise up to avoid these tricks), but that doesn't mean that I think their behaviour is acceptable.
Whether you find their behaviour or not is personal. As men, we need to wisen up to truly protect ourselves from the consequences of other people's doings - without having to take into consideration how these people view their doings.

If a chick says you're mean because you don't want to be just friend with her, it's her problem, not yours. Your job is simply to stop being friend with her because that's not what you want.
 

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If a man is stranded on an deserted island, he'd die of thirst before he dies of hunger...

If a woman is stranded on a deserted island, she'd die from a lack of validation before she dies of thirst...
 

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If a man is stranded on an deserted island, he'd die of thirst before he dies of hunger...

If a woman is stranded on a deserted island, she'd die from a lack of validation before she dies of thirst...
She'd die from not getting enough likes on her Instagram.
 

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Women typically value each other based on the quality of men she can attract. All you have to do is listen to a gaggle of women talking about dudes that are chasing them. No need to expand further on this. She wins points with her friends if they think you are a good catch and she rejects your advances. Why? Well... women grade themselves on their ability to screen men out

Next... they grade each other by how much fun they are having and the adventures they go on.

One more thing... women intuitively know how you feel about them. Women who have 'orbiters' (I love that term, don't know who came up with it) know those guys, if given a chance would date her. When she says "Oh, we are just friends." that is typically bvllsh1t.

If she thinks you are the best she can do, at that moment in time... she will chase you and date you. If you are 'acceptable' but not necessarily the BEST she can do, she will allow you to enter a geosynchronous orbit... It's nice to brag about... and who knows.... something could go sideways with the dude she is fvcking, so she can keep an eye on you in case your value increases.

I don't know any real man that would sign up for being an 'orbiter'... but the truth is you, as a man, have no control over this. I hear people giving men advice "Don't agree to this." LOL!!! You do not have any control over this... If a chick thinks you are an orbiter... then you ARE an orbiter. I get chicks all the time reaching out to me for one thing or another, and if I like you and I consider them a friend, man or woman, I'll help you as long as you are willing to help me if I need it. I am certain women who do this, consider me an 'orbiter', and I suppose at some level I am. If I like her, and she is willing... yeah I'll bang her.

Rather than giving men advice to never be an orbiter, I would say don't put any effort into women that are not willing to put effort in you... she has to take that step towards you... you step forward towards her... if she steps back, you step back. Now the chick thinks "HA! I can get him if I want." Really, in most cases that is all she wants. She doesn't really care what you think, she only cares about how you make her feel. Just don't put a hold on your life for any one woman. She can think you are in her orbit... that's fine... you can't control that. But the only time it becomes a problem is if you focus on her.
 

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Women typically value each other based on the quality of men she can attract. All you have to do is listen to a gaggle of women talking about dudes that are chasing them. No need to expand further on this. She wins points with her friends if they think you are a good catch and she rejects your advances. Why? Well... women grade themselves on their ability to screen men out

Next... they grade each other by how much fun they are having and the adventures they go on.

One more thing... women intuitively know how you feel about them. Women who have 'orbiters' (I love that term, don't know who came up with it) know those guys, if given a chance would date her. When she says "Oh, we are just friends." that is typically bvllsh1t.

If she thinks you are the best she can do, at that moment in time... she will chase you and date you. If you are 'acceptable' but not necessarily the BEST she can do, she will allow you to enter a geosynchronous orbit... It's nice to brag about... and who knows.... something could go sideways with the dude she is fvcking, so she can keep an eye on you in case your value increases.

I don't know any real man that would sign up for being an 'orbiter'... but the truth is you, as a man, have no control over this. I hear people giving men advice "Don't agree to this." LOL!!! You do not have any control over this... If a chick thinks you are an orbiter... then you ARE an orbiter. I get chicks all the time reaching out to me for one thing or another, and if I like you and I consider them a friend, man or woman, I'll help you as long as you are willing to help me if I need it. I am certain women who do this, consider me an 'orbiter', and I suppose at some level I am. If I like her, and she is willing... yeah I'll bang her.

Rather than giving men advice to never be an orbiter, I would say don't put any effort into women that are not willing to put effort in you... she has to take that step towards you... you step forward towards her... if she steps back, you step back. Now the chick thinks "HA! I can get him if I want." Really, in most cases that is all she wants. She doesn't really care what you think, she only cares about how you make her feel. Just don't put a hold on your life for any one woman. She can think you are in her orbit... that's fine... you can't control that. But the only time it becomes a problem is if you focus on her.
If you make a move quickly, you'll find out if the interest is mutual. If not, then it's generally a waste of time dealing with a woman.

What women love to do is try to keep you guessing, because this way they can take advantage of you. As soon as a guy realises she's not interested he's gone, so women try really hard not to reveal that whilst pretending not to know what's going on.
 

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but the truth is you, as a man, have no control over this. I hear people giving men advice "Don't agree to this." LOL!!! You do not have any control over this...
Yes but we as men do have 100% control over our choices of actions after knowing we are their orbiters - which is stop contacting them, and start dating other women.
 
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Boyos, have you ever wondered why women love to flaunt their Fendi purses, Prada shoes and latest iPhones, etc...???...

It's because women love to one-up each other just as much as men, and they secretly love to inspire envy out of their female peers.

The vast majority of women are incapable deriving self-worth internally, their sense of self-worth is entirely externally driven - meaning they need to feel validated by others, either in the form of attention from men or envy from other women.

This is nothing new. Back in the 1950s women would congregate and each would take turns bragging about their husband's promotion while also talking sh1t about the women who's husbands are lagging in their career or who's looks are fading. Watch Mad Men on Netflix if you want a good portrayal of this.

And that's actually the crux of this thread: women view men as accessories.

There are 2 types of accessories that women keep in their sphere:

Type 1 - Accessories that are tools, like for example, eyebrow tweezers. It's a tool used to do a job, it's not a tool to flaunt.

Type 2 - Accessories that are used to flaunt, like for example the latest iPhone. It's a status symbol, it's used to inspire envy from others.

Women keep (or rather they tolerate having) low-value men in their orbit because these fools offer them easy validation, and they can also exploit these buffoons for money, or move some furniture or do some other degrading, menial task. But women would never flaunt these men to their friends. Why would they? These low value schmucks wouldn't inspire envy from their female peers.

Women will flaunt Chad, Tyrone and Carlos to their friends because these men are Type 2 Accessories - accessories that are used to inspire envy. Women also treat these high value men a lot better than they treat the low value yesmen in their orbit. They lavish these men with affection the same way they are protective of their expense Fendi purses.

Please understand that a woman's level of interest in you is highly dependent on whether she classifies you as a Type 1 or Type 2 accessory.

Ask yourself this question and be honest with yourself: "Am I the type of guy that would cause her friends to be green with envy?"... As a man, you must do everything in your power to be able to confidently and honestly answer yes to this question.

Boyos, I hope you'll be able to derive wisdom from my words. I'm here to guide you through the minefield that is the modern Sexual Marketplace.

We'll talk again soon.

Sincerly,

Xenom0rph - The Blackpill Prometheus
So, when you are a girls fwb who she doesn’t go out with or introduce to anyone, does this mean you are a type 1?
 

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So, when you are a girls fwb who she doesn’t go out with or introduce to anyone, does this mean you are a type 1?
The conflict that occurs is when a woman surrounds herself with high value women, but as a result, cannot effectively compete for male attention amongst her friends, for that reason, this is a hard one to call until you've been exposed to the friendship hierarchy
 

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The conflict that occurs is when a woman surrounds herself with high value women, but as a result, cannot effectively compete for male attention amongst her friends, for that reason, this is a hard one to call until you've been exposed to the friendship hierarchy
Thanks.

I must say I despise social hierarchies and power plays and "pecking orders". I also don't understand them.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Thanks.

I must say I despise social hierarchies and power plays and "pecking orders". I also don't understand them.
These things are in constant flux, without them we would all just constantly wage war against each other over and over again without end, which is what the people at the highest echelons of hierarchy end up doing anyways, until they are exposed to a higher hierarchy and become peons themselves within the new hierarchy
 

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These things are in constant flux, without them we would all just constantly wage war against each other over and over again without end, which is what the people at the highest echelons of hierarchy end up doing anyways, until they are exposed to a higher hierarchy and become peons themselves within the new hierarchy
Not sure how to use that information but thanks
 

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So, when you are a girls fwb who she doesn’t go out with or introduce to anyone, does this mean you are a type 1?
Very few men can achieve FWB arrangement. Most guys online will lie about achieving a FWB situation, but the reality is that a guy would have to be really good looking just to even be able to have sex with a gal without having to jump through hoops to do so.

But the caveat is that if a guy is handsome enough to have sex without jumping through hoops, then he's already a Chad/Tyrone/Carlos and by default he's already Type 2.

If a woman gives away free sex (her only source of power over men), you can best believe she'd only do so if the guy has an Instagram that she can show off to her friends.... Or at the very least, he'd have to give her a picture of himself (so she can show off to her friends).

At the end of the day, we gotta keep it real and address the elephant in the room: Why would a women give a man free access to her body (her only source of power over men) without expecting something in return?
 

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Very few men can achieve FWB arrangement. Most guys online will lie about achieving a FWB situation, but the reality is that a guy would have to be really good looking just to even be able to have sex with a gal without having to jump through hoops to do so.

But the caveat is that if a guy is handsome enough to have sex without jumping through hoops, then he's already a Chad/Tyrone/Carlos and by default he's already Type 2.

If a woman gives away free sex (her only source of power over men), you can best believe she'd only do so if the guy has an Instagram that she can show off to her friends.... Or at the very least, he'd have to give her a picture of himself (so she can show off to her friends).

At the end of the day, we gotta keep it real and address the elephant in the room: Why would a women give a man free access to her body (her only source of power over men) without expecting something in return?
Probably because the fwbs I have are 6’s. I also do very direct game. Either we fwb or I’m moving on
 

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Not sure how to use that information but thanks
Well, everyone hates being in a hierarchy until they are at the top of one, many share in your frustration but lack the will to voice it, your reluctance to be a part of one though, it will not help you, have to be as social as you can.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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