Female Players... Dangerous!

[DarkLight]

Wanted to fire this thread off, to get some discussion goin here.

Theres this one chick I tried to get at awhile back... and she always slipped through the cracks, then moved. Anyways... just had a few text messages w. her... and got me thinking.

Female Players, are straight up dangerous.

This b!tch whether she knows it or not... runs iLL game!
Straight up.

I think its totally unconcious (prob. due to her personality, and experience in dealing w. dudes)... but baby runs flawless game. And while I respect it... the fact that its unconcious totally fvcks w. me. I can't tell where this chicks at. Why...!? Cause she runs game unconciously, and therefore its hard to tell if its pre-meditated from interest, or just on auto-pilot.

Like to hear from the more experienced cats.

I'll pose a question to kick this sh!t off...
How do you get your hook in, if she snubs you first w. her hook (and unconciously)!?

I should just NEXT this b!tch alltogether, but her game has a total grip of my intrigue. Like I want to explore this b!tch, just as much as I want to hit it. lol
... like I said, Dangerous!

Comments? Lets hear'em...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just how many women out there aren't players (at least until they get into a committed relationship)? Seriously, not too many. How many women out there would go out on a date with more than one guy during any given week?

Women are out there looking for the bigger, better deal; big whoop we all know that and we should be doing the same. The trick is realizing when you come across someone who's pretty damn good and being confident enough to become serious with them without wondering whether you're missing out on someone better.

 

[Babnik]

Just how many women out there aren't players (at least until they get into a committed relationship)? Seriously, not too many. How many women out there would go out on a date with more than one guy during any given week?

Women are out there looking for the bigger, better deal; big whoop we all know that and we should be doing the same. The trick is realizing when you come across someone who's pretty damn good and being confident enough to become serious with them without wondering whether you're missing out on someone better.

Does it not bother you that a girl will sleep with 3-4 guys before she picks the one she wants to be with?

I went out on a date with some girls that were concerned about the fact that I am not dating more than one girl at a time...

Why do you have to really go on dates to get to know girls better? I'm in college and I meet girls everywhere and I look at the ones I like and the ones I do not like and I take on dates only the ones I like. I usually pick ONE that I like MOST. I am still picky and flirt/chat with many girls, but its not on like DATES, its just whatever social event there is...

 

[Freddy1]

Francisco d'Anconia hit the nail on the head. They are all basically players (with a few minor exceptions).

Women use their looks all the time to manipulate guys.

Even the whole concept of a women putting on makeup is a tool to manipulate perception on how a guy sees her.

The sad thing is many men LET women manipulate them. (A women shows some leg and men goes drooling at the mouth and are willing to lick her feet clean.)

 

[Freddy1]

Why do you have to really go on dates to get to know girls better? I'm in college and I meet girls everywhere and I look at the ones I like and the ones I do not like .....

Dont forget not everyone is in College. Not everyone have the same traffic number of women heading their way everyday.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

I next a hot babe, Sonya, a 39 year old playa babe, she can still control most dudes by her beauty, she went crazy when I next her, it doesn't happen to her very often, she has over fifty boyfreinds at the one time, they are like her puppets, she is the ultimate female playa. :yes:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Does it not bother you that a girl will sleep with 3-4 guys before she picks the one she wants to be with?...

It doesn't bother me a bit. It's not as if I care what she has done in her past. What does that have to do with me anyway, it's a waste of effort. What matters more, what she did with other guys or what she does with me? If she's treating me right, why fvck it up by worrying about the past when she didn't even know me?

I went out on a date with some girls that were concerned about the fact that I am not dating more than one girl at a time...

They were concerned about you placing all of your attention on them alone, way too much pressure on a person you aren't even in a relationship with. By the way, why the hell do you guys talk about the other people you're seeing (or not seeing)? What's the purpose of doing that?

Why do you have to really go on dates to get to know girls better? I'm in college and I meet girls everywhere and I look at the ones I like and the ones I do not like and I take on dates only the ones I like. I usually pick ONE that I like MOST. I am still picky and flirt/chat with many girls, but its not on like DATES, its just whatever social event there is...

How would you feel if women judged you primarily on what you've done in your past? Picky is one thing but getting into paranoia about a woman's past isn't healthy. It's like saying that if you were an AFC in the past you will still be one in the future. But none the less, why make a big thing out of it, it's not as if you guys are exclusive.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Solution is simple. You forgot your money at home when in the company of a female player.

 

[Babnik]

It doesn't bother me a bit. It's not as if I care what she has done in her past. What does that have to do with me anyway, it's a waste of effort. What matters more, what she did with other guys or what she does with me? If she's treating me right, why fvck it up by worrying about the past when she didn't even know me?

They were concerned about you placing all of your attention on them alone, way too much pressure on a person you aren't even in a relationship with. By the way, why the hell do you guys talk about the other people you're seeing (or not seeing)? What's the purpose of doing that?

How would you feel if women judged you primarily on what you've done in your past? Picky is one thing but getting into paranoia about a woman's past isn't healthy. It's like saying that if you were an AFC in the past you will still be one in the future. But none the less, why make a big thing out of it, it's not as if you guys are exclusive.

SHE started asking those questions...many girls do. I don't know WHY.

And they are dating several men AT THE MOMENT. Like 3-4 guys a week and screw some of them. Not PAST - but present!

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I love female players, genuine ones that sleep with lots and lots of men, and know how to make guys feel good. I want them to play with me, seduce me and steal my virginity, and put a smile on my face so doing.

My dad doesn't like them, so he did not let me see one. He wants me to go with normal girls, so I'm going with normal girls just for now, but will resort to a player if I really need some later.

 

[DarkLight]

Just how many women out there aren't players (at least until they get into a committed relationship)? Seriously, not too many. How many women out there would go out on a date with more than one guy during any given week?

Women are out there looking for the bigger, better deal; big whoop

Rightright... good point.
But I'm talking about a chick who runs game.
Like straight up DJ sh!t.

Not just a player, who is doing her thing (dating/screening for the best)... but running the dynamics of game.

The chick I have in mind is unique in this aspect.
She's not just being a chick... its like she's unconciously running sh!t, through running straight up GAME. lol

Just thought I'd fire this thread off, to see what kinda experiences/insight some players could share, on such girls. Pig dropped a lil coin, being that you just pull the whole rug out from under here game. Leaving her off base, thinking "WTF?" But I have yet to even create the opportunity, or rather, implement it before she does. But better believe... the 1-2 KO combo is lurking. lol

The 2 main things that fvck w. me are, that her whole sh!t is unconcious. She just operates from this... so its so damn hard to see where she's at. Is this game running from interest, or the polishing of past experience/interactions. My only response as a player of this game is to naturally... ASSUME ATTRACTION.

So the saying goes... "Game respects Game"

Cheers All'

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

SHE started asking those questions...many girls do. I don't know WHY.

And they are dating several men AT THE MOMENT. Like 3-4 guys a week and screw some of them. Not PAST - but present!

I say it's a sh1t test to determine just how serious (or desperate) you are in regards to dating/relationships/women. It's not a subject I bring up and when I'm with a woman who aludes to it by asking how often I go out on dates and such, I just tell her that I enjoy going out and meeting new people.

If she presses for another answer I toss out a number between 12 and 20 and tell her with a wink that she's the first shift of the night. Either she laughs it off realizing it was a silly question or she gets really self conscious. Either way, I believe that it's just a game that mostly young girls play for their enjoyment.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Rightright... good point.
But I'm talking about a chick who runs game.
Like straight up DJ sh!t.

Not just a player, who is doing her thing (dating/screening for the best)... but running the dynamics of game.

The chick I have in mind is unique in this aspect.
She's not just being a chick... its like she's unconciously running sh!t, through running straight up GAME. lol...

What exactly is she doing?

 

[DarthJuan]

The last girl I dated was like this.
Young, really pretty and all the guys chase after her like she was the last woman on earth. She has guys jumping through hoops for her. She gets away with EVERYTHING. The worse she treats guys, the more they want her.

The idea of spinning plates and dating more than one person I learned from her. She flat out told me not to get so clingy with her, she said there are a million fish in the sea. I would always complain that we weren't spending enough time together. She was more DJ than me...she felt that only seeing each other once or twice a week was more than enough. She would be like find some other girls. All of the good DJ priniciples, she inherently knew or learned from her dealings with men.

I'm just now getting over some mad one-itis for her.
She has such tight game, I learned SOOOO much from her. She told me one time that I was like the girl and she was like the guy because I was always chasing her and being a chump. She was always dropping veiled hints about what I needed to improve and when I was being unmanly. She let me get away with so much afc shyt in the beginning as she tried to groom me into being the take-charge, confident man she knew I was (what she was attracted to when we first met). But I would always slide into afc chump mode with her. She soon got tired of waiting for me to man up.

But they are susceptible to game themselves. She gets mad one-itis for the playas that drop her when she gives them drama and won't take them back. I've nexted her a couple of times, and gotten back together with her occassionally...but I would always blow it with some stupid, clingy chump move that would disgust her.

If you have tight game, chicks like this aren't a problem. If you have an achilles heel, like me, then they are VERY problematic.

Game recognizes Game.
Chicks know when you aren't complete, when you aren't whole.
When you get that sorted out...you'll have mad, tight inner game.
Then chicks like this won't turn your world upside down.
If they are turning your world upside-down, it just means you're out of your league, and you're in over your head.
You gotta go back and get some batting practice in.

 

[PRMoon]

Most women are players. Technically, each of us is a player as well in some shape or form. Whether or not we're actually good at running game is the debateable issue. Concidering we all view the human courting rituals as "a game" It's no suprise that some people at better at running game then others. Some are naturally talented, while it will take traning and practice for others to acheive.

The situation you described is just another obsticle in your path. You can't figure out how someone is playing, you may have to step back and think over your course of action in order to atain victory. This is the evlolution of the player. No matter how good your opponent is, if you want it bad enough, you'll think your options over and try new things if necessary to suceed. I always have a plan of attack when I'm trying to conquor a chick who has signficant skill in running game, natural or otherwise. It gets me pumped because it's not the same run of the mill pick up that I"m use to. That's how life stays interesting.

 

[PRMoon]

dbl pst

 

[Last Man Standing]

No such thing exist as "female" players!!! They are called hors!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Freddy1]

You got the wrong ideal. (no offence or anything dude)

They are GOLD DIGGERS who play men for material gains.

They are either playing you for money or just playing you like a circus monkey for amusement. They want to know how BEAUTIFUL they are and how much POWER they have over men. The LAST thing in thier mind is to sleep with you.

 

[Freddy1]

Historically some of the biggest female players are STRIPPERS. They just want whats in your wallet. And they have no intent in going home with you.

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ (thats whats its all about to them. Not sex.)

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The last girl I dated was like this.
Young, really pretty and all the guys chase after her like she was the last woman on earth. She has guys jumping through hoops for her. She gets away with EVERYTHING. The worse she treats guys, the more they want her...

Dude, any woman with above average looks do this! Alright, it isn't all of her doing, it's guys who are slaves to the pvssy throwing themselves at her but still, she's just an attractive woman. Don't give her or any other woman more credit than they deserve. There's a ton of women out there getting by on their looks, the truly exceptional ones have much more to offer.