Female friends settling down with lesser dudes

[Trump]

By lesser I mean, less buff, less handsome less interesting, less fun filled by means of going outside. Fun can be had indoors, its all relative.
Also less challenging.
I'm hearing stories of how these guys propose their love and yadda yadda....and these chicks somehow stay with them.

In high school I could romance my way in with words because they were young.

In here we preach to be a challeng3.

Are these females I know weaker in their herd and scared?
I know too many have said that they don't want to settle, but that is what's happening.

On both sides, these guys that say such "Wonderful" committed things aren't the trim in shape tanned dudes with stylish hair, or I should say, pride in their image.

I wouldn't normally care, but there's an ocean of unsatisfied women, that I want to satisfy....so whats going?????

Bro this post sounds too specific and a bit childish to be real.

Have a feeling it is fake just to stir up emotions out of everyone.

 

[Serenity]

@Grewd where in any of my posts have I ever implied any man is lesser. This site is about raising men up and I'm totally on board with that.

The boxing thing with the friend is trying to encourage him to lose weight. He's 34 and at least 20 kilos overweight. He displayed interest in boxing and seemed to enjoy the first session. I've previously taken him down to the golf driving range and badminton but neither seemed to take.

I was never talking to you in this thread, the post I think you're referring to was aimed at OP.

You're doing a good thing.

 

[wifehunter]

Obviously, guys these days, do not fall into the "catch" category.

Girls have to settle because they are not presented with better options.

Again, it's economics. Supply and Demand.

 

[TheFixer14]

Why is it that we all have to talk so much **** about these guys? Why are women so special that they are the ones that have to settle? Because they are hot? The power of looks fade over exposure.

I used to think this way. An old friend of mine who I considered a loser got married recently. I never understood how he was able to get her (it's not like he's been with a lot of women though, I've been with more women than him).

But I suppose there is someone out there for everyone. We are not women, we don't know what goes on in their minds. Perhaps these lesser guys have qualities that a more high status guy doesn't have.

 

[JohnChops]

They want to fvck the buff, tan, bad boy. They want to take the betas home to meet the family, and then bail on them sometime down the line...

Spot on and can confirm. They will try to settle down and tame the bad boy but when they realize they can't, they settle for someone "lesser" than them.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Maybe they just like the guy and the guy loves them. Same sense of humour, love of bischon frize. **** knows what.
Maybe women can love a man without him being six pack alpha male.
Maybe they were tired of all the bs and wanted someone they believe will love and truly care for them without being a **** head.

I wish each and every one of them a life full of love and affection. You go guys.

 

[bigneil]

If a woman is with a man, he had what it took to get her.

One guy lives with his mom but is really hot.

One guy is a multimillionaire but is 79.

Who is better off? Neither. She isn't faithful to either.

 

[wifehunter]

Why is it that we all have to talk so much **** about these guys? Why are women so special that they are the ones that have to settle? Because they are hot? The power of looks fade over exposure.

I used to think this way. An old friend of mine who I considered a loser got married recently. I never understood how he was able to get her (it's not like he's been with a lot of women though, I've been with more women than him).

But I suppose there is someone out there for everyone. We are not women, we don't know what goes on in their minds. Perhaps these lesser guys have qualities that a more high status guy doesn't have.

My mother (bpd/npd aka evil hag) is one of these settlers...my beta dad was nice and she could control him. Dysfunction ensued....

She was only happy with him because he was "cute".

He was an idiot when it came to things other than fixing stuff. She was constantly unhappy with his decisions, and always had to be in control.

Feminism at it's finest. (Verbal irony)

It's taken years to deprogram this sh!t out of my system.