Female friend acting weird.

[NSX-R]

I have a female friend which she's good for social proof and we hang out very often.
I usually leave her back when i find a chick and she's quite fine with it,there are also some guys that pick her up and i don't give a sh!t. We just have great time and we have very common personalities.

Anyway i use some kino most of the times because my body moves automatically but i don't have any interest to have a relationship or even fck her. I just enjoy her company and i have announced her as a friend even though every time i mentioned it she was going always cold on me.She even asks occasionally if i have currently a gf .

Recently she started behaving weirdly than how i used to know her. She's more flirty ,every time i touch her she tries to hold more the contact and we hold very intense and long eye contact.

Meanwhile I'm aware of all these , my bros have also noticed her behavior and asking me if I'm aware of it and why I'm doing absolutely nothing with her.
To add something last, she's very cold during texts but i don't care.

What's the deal here? How should i proceed? How can i promote her into a fck buddy because i really enjoy her company ?

 

[TheSplat]

If you fvck her, you will probably ruin the friendship. It's GREAT to have sexual tension in a friendship with a girl. It adds to your game. Just keep doing what you're doing. Have fun. If you want to fvck her and can't control the urge anymore, know that these days of going out could quite possibly end.

But yes, it sounds like she likes you now. You're demonstrating social dominance and women like that. Keep it up.

 

[Glumix]

You can't be friend with a girl you want to fvck and with a girl who wants to fvck you neither. But in the latter, it's her problem.

You have to know what you want and do what you want. But you cannot have it all. So choose wisely.

 

[El Payaso]

If she's a good friend, then just keep it that way. On the other hand, she's probably only a good friend because she's attracted to you and wants to fvck you.

Forget about what she wants and act on what YOU want. If you want her only as a friend then keep it that way. If you want to fvck her, you know what to do.

 

[Sprayarc]

If you fvck her it'll change everything. She'll try so hard to game you into a relationship. But do what you like.

 

[Skyline]

Intense eye contact basically means she's head over heels for you.

You can do anything at this point.

 

[NSX-R]

If she's a good friend, then just keep it that way. On the other hand, she's probably only a good friend because she's attracted to you and wants to fvck you.

Forget about what she wants and act on what YOU want. If you want her only as a friend then keep it that way. If you want to fvck her, you know what to do.

Nah i don't think we became friends just because she wanted to fck me . I had a gf that time and she had also a bf. Since we both broke up with our partners long time ago we kept on having a friendly relation. We both share the same mentality over some topics and that's why i believe. I kept on spinning plates and she kept on get fcked by other guys. It was obvious she had no feelings and i was also the same.

Meanwhile she still gets fcked by other guys and I as well fck other chicks but still we both enjoy spending time together. I know her quite well and it's not like she wants to play a game with me, she has more than enough attention since she's a solid 8,5 in her good days .

If i move on and make her my gf , i know very well myself that i won't be able to be with her for more than 3 months and after it is bye bye.
It's quite obvious that she has feelings for me meanwhile i don't have any. I'm sure the next time we hang out , she'll get drunk and confess her feelings for me , that means i won't be able to resist and move automatically into the V. After it I'll dump her and bye bye. I don't want that.

The only solution i see is to become friends with benefits. No feelings and just sex . She will get sex and I'll have her company to enjoy, yet again it's too risky.


I still want to enjoy my time with her and fck other chicks at the same time.

Any idea?

If you fvck her it'll change everything. She'll try so hard to game you into a relationship. But do what you like.

 

[LiveFreeX]

A good way to solve these types of problems is simple, don't keep female friends. There is no such thing as a 'friend with benefits' when it comes to a woman.

 

[Desdinova]

I had a female friend like that. Then she changed just as you described. Then she came over with alcohol, got me drunk, climbed on top of me and fvcked me. Banged her a few times and then she wanted a relationship. I said no. Friendship and sex were both gone. Doesn't matter to me.

Friends come and go. Lovers come and go. You may not be able to maintain her as a friend since you're not a typical beta AFC. Prepare for things to get weirder.

 

[Igetit!]

Anyway i use some kino most of the times because my body moves automatically but i don't have any interest to have a relationship or even fck her.

You use kino on her. Well you know,"kino" is one of the things we suggest to help generate interest in a girl. Maybe using that on a chick you have NO INTEREST in isn't a wise decision.

What I'd like to know is HOW LONG you two have been friends. You said that just "recently",she started behaving weird.
Well....what's happened recently.....what's changed?

I just enjoy her company and i have announced her as a friend even though every time I mentioned it she was always going cold on me.

Huh. So EVERY TIME you announce her as a friend to someone,she ends up going "cold" on you. Well to me,I think she feels rejected. Whenever someone of the opposite sex uses the "friend" word,it makes you feel rejected sexually.....like a woman doesn't see you as a "man" when she uses it,and like a man doesn't see his female friend as a "woman" when he uses it towards her.

I think she wants both.....she wants to be your friend,but at the same time,wants to be see as an attractive woman,sexually desirable. That's kinda hard for her to get when you don't make passes at her,or regulate her to just being a "friend". But at the same time,if you did try to make something happen,she'd likely turn you down. She'd do that cause the instant you go sexual,her "need" to feel attractive or desired would be fulfilled,but then she'd risk losing the friendship.

I think she really does want to be friends with you,however,she has feminine "needs" (emotional) that a significant other/boyfriend should be filling,but that she sometimes tries to get fulfilled by you.

She even asks occasionally if i have currently a gf .

My guess is it's just ego. All the time,attention,and affection you'd be giving to your GF would be a threat to the time you give to your friendship with her.
She's not a bad person,she's just....well.....female.

Recently she started behaving weirdly than how i used to know her. She's more flirty ,every time i touch her she tries to hold more the contact and we hold very intense and long eye contact.

Huh. Well honestly,this would generate more suspicion in me than interest. You said this was a "recent" change in her behavior.

Don't know what it is,but she's using her feminine wiles to get something emotional for herself.

If you wanna make a play for her,to try to make something happen....have at it,but don't be surprised if she turns you down in guise of not wanting to ruin the friendship.

 

[YawataNoKami]

I don't know , maybe I am getting older or crankier ; who knows. I do not have any female friends, I date women ,I fvck women but friendship............nahhh. Tried it a couple times , did not worked out.

 

[NSX-R]

I had a female friend like that. Then she changed just as you described. Then she came over with alcohol, got me drunk, climbed on top of me and fvcked me. Banged her a few times and then she wanted a relationship. I said no. Friendship and sex were both gone. Doesn't matter to me.

Friends come and go. Lovers come and go. You may not be able to maintain her as a friend since you're not a typical beta AFC. Prepare for things to get weirder.

My only best solution is to just let it move on its own . If she wants me to fck her , I'll give it to her but I'll make it clear before it happens that i don't want any ralationship or feelings. If she wants to maintain our friendship ,she has to go on my rules otherwise i can't do this.

You use kino on her. Well you know,"kino" is one of the things we suggest to help generate interest in a girl. Maybe using that on a chick you have NO INTEREST in isn't a wise decision.

What I'd like to know is HOW LONG you two have been friends. You said that just "recently",she started behaving weird.
Well....what's happened recently.....what's changed?

I like to use kino every time i have an interaction with a woman. It's a good practise to become more natural at it and makes you feel each time more comfortable while aplying it, the chicks can feel it aswell. I usually use it on different levels like a bit more aggresive when i want to fck the chick or more inocent and subtle when i want her to feel more comfortable around me and make her trust me.
My experience till now proves that it make magical things and i never expected it to make so much difference.

I got to know her a little bit after i joined sosuave like a year ago . It was that time i got a gf for first time. Since then we have been hanging out once every 2-3 weeks but we were seeing ourselves at least one time every 10 days. This change happened for the last 1 and half months and she started to behave as i described. She was usually less touchy ,wouldn't act sexually , it was the same as with my male friends.

Huh. So EVERY TIME you announce her as a friend to someone,she ends up going "cold" on you. Well to me,I think she feels rejected. Whenever someone of the opposite sex uses the "friend" word,it makes you feel rejected sexually.....like a woman doesn't see you as a "man" when she uses it,and like a man doesn't see his female friend as a "woman" when he uses it towards her.

I think she wants both.....she wants to be your friend,but at the same time,wants to be see as an attractive woman,sexually desirable. That's kinda hard for her to get when you don't make passes at her,or regulate her to just being a "friend". But at the same time,if you did try to make something happen,she'd likely turn you down. She'd do that cause the instant you go sexual,her "need" to feel attractive or desired would be fulfilled,but then she'd risk losing the friendship.

I think she really does want to be friends with you,however,she has feminine "needs" (emotional) that a significant other/boyfriend should be filling,but that she sometimes tries to get fulfilled by you.

I agree. We are many times alone and since I'm a handsome guy and she's is an attractive female, it's easy for people to make assumptions that we are together and they make often such kind of comments. When they do i just respond that she's just a good friend for me.

That's why remaining neutral would be the best solution imo. I have seen many posters reporting chicks that went sexual on them and when they responded the same ,the chicks got turned off. It's like there is no challenge for them anymore.

My guess is it's just ego. All the time,attention,and affection you'd be giving to your GF would be a threat to the time you give to your friendship with her.
She's not a bad person,she's just....well.....female.

I agree again. What i like is that she don't care if i go and fck a chick in front of her but it's different when I'm in an exclusive relationship.

Huh. Well honestly,this would generate more suspicion in me than interest. You said this was a "recent" change in her behavior.

Don't know what it is,but she's using her feminine wiles to get something emotional for herself.

Absolutely. A female worships attention even if she has the most of it. My neutral stance against her might have triggered that kind of behavior from her. She might want more from it but i won't be doing anything different. I'll just keep on enjoy her current behavior and add it to my game.

 

[NSX-R]

A good way to solve these types of problems is simple, don't keep female friends. There is no such thing as a 'friend with benefits' when it comes to a woman.

I disagree. Having always a woman by your side ,it helps to increase your SMV and your status as a male among males.

 

[LiveFreeX]

I guess as you get older, you don't care about that sh1t anymore. When you get older, the thing that will impress other males is a WIFE you can CONTROL. Its like guys who have a really scary dog that walks alongside him and obeys his every command. A well trained dog is an impressive thing to behold.

Female friends do none of that, they feel no loyalty to you and are more likely to stab you in the back when you least suspect it. When you finally decide on female ownership, I'm sure you will agree.

 

[AttackFormation]

I'll keep it pretty simple. Ime, the #1 thing girls are out after in all situations is validation. If you give it to her, she got what she wanted and your use & value to her decreases significantly. Being your friend is no impediment to wanting validation from you and like any female the more value she perceives you to have the more valuable your validation becomes. So now your validation has become hot stuff to her and she wants it. Don't give it to her.

 

[NSX-R]

I guess as you get older, you don't care about that sh1t anymore. When you get older, the thing that will impress other males is a WIFE you can CONTROL. Its like guys who have a really scary dog that walks alongside him and obeys his every command. A well trained dog is an impressive thing to behold.

Female friends do none of that, they feel no loyalty to you and are more likely to stab you in the back when you least suspect it. When you finally decide on female ownership, I'm sure you will agree.

I agree.
I'm using them purely for the reason i said and to try things on them. They are a hobby for me .