Female Disrespect - "Hey, Watch It"

JustDoItAlways · Jul 8, 2002

This is a little tip for those times when a woman is giving you a little bit too much disrespect. It works on girlfriends, friends, family and co-workers.

When she's giving you a little more disrespect than you like, just say "Hey, watch it!" with a slight serious face, slight serious tone and with a lowered voice. You have to return to normal after a few seconds.

I don't know why it is but women seem to really respond to it. Its almost like a little short-circuit goes off in their brains and they know they crossed the line. I think daddy talked to them like this when they were eight years old. But they don't hold it against you and their respect for you quadruples.

I started using this a few years ago and it really works. Sometimes you need to do it a couple of times to get your point across but it doesn't take long for the sh1t to stop.

Try it out. See if it works for you.

Just a girl · Jul 8, 2002

Do you have a point or is this just pointless banter? Maybe their giving you attitude because you are a d*ck. And by the way "Hey watch it" doesn't exactly make me quiver in my shoes with fear.

I_Eat_Playdough · Jul 8, 2002

I'ma slap you woman!

*raise the back of my hand up high*

*then I put both hands behind my back as the police escort me to jail*

Soshyopathe · Jul 8, 2002

Don't listen to that femme. If a guy pulled that on her, she'd be speachless.

Good tip.

Guitar_Whizz · Jul 8, 2002

That tip is cool man. Shame some woman has to try and belittle it lol. I wish they'd stop invading this site!!

JustDoItAlways · Jul 9, 2002

Just A Girl, women always react the way you did when they see something that will work against them. This has been proved time and time again.

I didn't post this as "pointless banter."

I posted it because it is a little unusual and I have found that it really works for me. That's what the tips forum is all about.

In fact, I hope it doesn't make you "quiver in your shoes with fear." That is exactly opposite to what I want to happen. I just want you to think to yourself "Okay I just crossed the line but he was pretty cool about it. Hmm ..."

Now you want to argue some more? Both barrels will be coming because you are not in my league.

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Jester · Jul 9, 2002

those b1tches always try to discredit the stuff that actually works.

dumb wh0re. lol

bob2007 · Jul 9, 2002

Originally posted by JustDoItAlways:
Just A Girl, women always react the way you did when they see something that will work against them. This has been proved time and time again.

I didn't post this as "pointless banter."

I posted it because it is a little unusual and I have found that it really works for me. That's what the tips forum is all about.

In fact, I hope it doesn't make you "quiver in your shoes with fear." That is exactly opposite to what I want to happen. I just want you to think to yourself "Okay I just crossed the line but he was pretty cool about it. Hmm ..."

Now you want to argue some more? Both barrels will be coming because you are not in my league.

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good tip.

she sounds like one of those girls from the other website who were trying to infultrate our forum a few weeks ago.

dead_romeo · Jul 9, 2002

Would giving her a prolonged, unblinking cold-ass stare (like your gonna tear her head off) work too? I've done that before, and it makes em STFU real quick.

I beleive this tip works, because womans nature is cowardice, while they may feel unbridled rage sometimes, her cowardly nature would never permit her to express her anger with physical blows.

Unless you're dealing with a 300-pound bull dyke. Then again they don't count as women do they?

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"It is the responsibility of the strong to help the weak become strong" - Harlan Ellison

JustDoItAlways · Jul 9, 2002

No, dead_romeo, the point is not to come off as cold.

In a way, it's just a friendly little reminder that you won't put up with sh1t. You don't want to act like it really got to you. You should go back to what the two of you were doing after about two seconds at most.

She should almost walk away after with a little smile on her face.

This is just for a small amount of disrespect and you're just nipping it in the bud before it gets to a higher level. Remember, chicks are always testing you. This way, she knows she doesn't have to test you anymore and you didn't have to expend a bunch of rapport that you might have had with her, proving yourself.

If she is disrespecting you at a higher level than this, you have to step it up as well.

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VeryBadGirl · Jul 9, 2002

Maybe you should start hanging out with women that don't disrespect you. It works wonders.

Nobody has ever said "Hey, watch it!" to me, because I don't disrespect people. And if people disrespect me, I just walk away.

JustDoItAlways · Jul 9, 2002

Well, I don't just walk away.

And I wish I had a dollar for every girl who says she's different than all the other girls.

VBG, I think you're pretty cool. But there are lots of women who aren't. There's no way I'm going to go through life avoiding half the women I run into.

Besides, there has to be a first time for everything and we can't know if the woman is like you until after we have dealt with her over a long period of time. Sometimes they turn out to be very unlike you.

dead_romeo · Jul 9, 2002

If she is disrespecting you at a higher level than this, you have to step it up as well.

That's what I meant and that's why I asked what I asked; I tend to get extreme reactions from women, they're either really AFC-ish nice or complete devil-biatch harpies.

And yeah I agree, women are all too aware of their differences, specially minute ones, but completely unaware of their fundamnetal sameness.
Oooh I'm not like that, I'm different, every woman on this board has spewed that out in one form or another. Every single one.

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"Conclusions arrived at through reasoning have very little or no influence in altering the course of our lives. Hence, the countless examples of people who have the clearest convictions and yet act diametrically against them time and time again; and have as the only explanation for their behavior the idea that to err is human." Carlos Castaneda - The Fire From Within

"It is the responsibility of the strong to help the weak become strong" - Harlan Ellison

VeryBadGirl · Jul 9, 2002

Have you ever considered that some of us might actually BE different?

Yes, it doesn't happen that often, but good women really do exist.

JustDoItAlways · Jul 9, 2002

Actually VBG, last time we talked, I think I asked you to marry me.

Rabbit Rugby Chick · Jul 9, 2002

Hmmm. Not trying to infiltrate (hands raised, palms forward).

Just find this interesting. Have to be honest, if a man said "Hey, watch it" (or whatever version of the same concept he chose to use) to me in the way Just Do It described, I would stop whatever it was I was doing. Just Do It Guy was just pointing out he finds this as a way to communicate that he doesn't like what's going on. It works for him, could work for you.

Having said that, I'm not sure what my response would be after I stopped whatever it is that I was doing to provoke the "Hey, watch it"...it's situational. I might giggle (more disrespect..hehe), I might say you're right (only if you are right!), or I might get annoyed.

So be prepared for different reactions and use sparingly!

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Soshyopathe · Jul 9, 2002

I like using, "That's enough" in a solemn voice with a stare. Any vernacular will do.

gotnone · Jul 9, 2002

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KnightErrant · Jul 10, 2002

There is this girl at work that basically runs rings round me,

She is very attractive
She has a very sharp tounge
Is supremely confident.
I'm 100% certain she's a player
We are talking Ulimate female DJ here.
She the sort that can say 7 words to you and you think your in love, the kicker is I know what she's doing but she's so good I've gone along with it before I realise what's shes said.

Honestly she's not that physically attractive, but she has that DJ Aura, that presence that just fills the entire room.

She is testing me that much I know...

I'm going to give your tip a go and see what her reaction is.
(plus a few other DJ techniques...)

Aztec · Jul 10, 2002

Originally posted by Just a girl:
Do you have a point or is this just pointless banter? Maybe their giving you attitude because you are a d*ck. And by the way "Hey watch it" doesn't exactly make me quiver in my shoes with fear.

It doesn't really suppose to make you sht in your pants. But just to tell the chick to keep the btch shield down for a moment.

Good tip JustDoItAlways!

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