Nis786
Don Juan
Hi,
I recently had a big fight with my best friend. I met her when i had a break up with my ex-girlfriend couple of years back. She really helped me in coming out of that emotional thing.
We became good friends really fast. At the beginning we both used to care for each other a lot. She used to tell me that his colleague proposed him but she can't accept as religion is different. I used to tell her about my girlfriend.
Then i got engaged with my girlfriend. She was so happy for me. But my fiancée & she don't like each other much.
To be honest i always had infatuation towards her because she is one of the most beautiful girl i ever met & she is a nice person.
I continued caring about her & fulfilled all her wishes,doesn't matter how expensive it was. Her family is very conservative. She hardly got permission to do job. they are lower middle class.
To see smile on her face & for her happiness i did everything possible without blink of an eye. I met with her sisters too,they are like my second family.
but here how things started to change. She invited me to her office & said we will leave for lunch from there itself. I went & we had fun. Some of his colleagues misunderstood me as his boyfriend. She didn't liked it. So when i went again some other day, she asked me to leave from office & shouted on me infront of her colleagues. I know i was wrong in going to her office again but to insult me infront of others was very hurtful for me. anyway i let it go.
The thing is when she get angry,she don't have any control over her tongue. She use any word that comes in her mind that moment.
Then she asked me to call in her sister number because she don't want to give me her new number as she thinks i irritate her & possessive. i found out her number but she blocked me. She use Whatsapp but don't add me. She said i interfere too much & my fiancee will not like if we chat or talk much. that was her excuse anyway.
I told her you are my best friend. i get along well with your sister but she is not my friend. I will talk in your number.
I just never took a stand. She knew i will always return to her no matter how bad she treat me.
Her sister told me she care a lot about me but don't show her emotion to anyone. She don't want to cause problem between me & my fiancee.
I said my fiancee know everything & she is fine. She has her own friend circle too. People with gf have also right to have female best friends.
She gives me lot of time when i visit her city,it's my home town too. but I work in other city.
I just told her that you chat whole night with other friends in your number but you have problem doing that with your best friend.
She said you came to my office,i felt bad & insecure that my colleagues made fun that my boyfriend is possessive & came to check on me. She said you will leave,but i will live in same city,so i don't want to compromise with my respect.
anyway i understood. But yesterday we had a fight because i visited her city & asked for her time to meet to discuss about my wedding plan. Her office training was near my home,so i saw her & said HI. She said me to leave & got angry. She didn't met & told in phone that I am not your personal property. My family don't keep check on me like that. Why you came to training?. I said you never care about my happiness. You get time to ask other friends & your colleagues well being but not a single reply to my text or call. From last 1 month, we only talked if i call in her sister mobile or she called from her sister number.
We broke up last night,It happens most times that we fight & shout & end it. She told me not to show my face to her if we ever bump in road. She is very proud of her beauty & has a very big ego. But overall she is nice.
I took lot of crap & i feel after caring so much,do i deserve such treatment? Name any expensive gift which i have not given her. Mobiles, scooty , Expensive dresses,boots,clutches,jackets & Perfumes.
I am just mentioning this to make my point that i did all which will make her happy. I wanted to give her life which she wishes for.
I am very self-centred guy but first time in my life i got emotionally attached with anyone & i am doomed.
Please tell me what she think of me. One thing is sure she know if she call me after few weeks or months,she hope i will return to her like lost puppy. but now i want her to realise that my self respect is also important. She never cared about my happiness.
What i Should do now,because it's tough for me to keep her out of my mind. Should i move on? If she ever call,what i should do? Will she miss me when i am gone? In today's world most ppl will not do this much for their gf,best friend is far thing.
Sorry for long story,but this is my first post here & wanted to explain in detail.
I recently had a big fight with my best friend. I met her when i had a break up with my ex-girlfriend couple of years back. She really helped me in coming out of that emotional thing.
We became good friends really fast. At the beginning we both used to care for each other a lot. She used to tell me that his colleague proposed him but she can't accept as religion is different. I used to tell her about my girlfriend.
Then i got engaged with my girlfriend. She was so happy for me. But my fiancée & she don't like each other much.
To be honest i always had infatuation towards her because she is one of the most beautiful girl i ever met & she is a nice person.
I continued caring about her & fulfilled all her wishes,doesn't matter how expensive it was. Her family is very conservative. She hardly got permission to do job. they are lower middle class.
To see smile on her face & for her happiness i did everything possible without blink of an eye. I met with her sisters too,they are like my second family.
but here how things started to change. She invited me to her office & said we will leave for lunch from there itself. I went & we had fun. Some of his colleagues misunderstood me as his boyfriend. She didn't liked it. So when i went again some other day, she asked me to leave from office & shouted on me infront of her colleagues. I know i was wrong in going to her office again but to insult me infront of others was very hurtful for me. anyway i let it go.
The thing is when she get angry,she don't have any control over her tongue. She use any word that comes in her mind that moment.
Then she asked me to call in her sister number because she don't want to give me her new number as she thinks i irritate her & possessive. i found out her number but she blocked me. She use Whatsapp but don't add me. She said i interfere too much & my fiancee will not like if we chat or talk much. that was her excuse anyway.
I told her you are my best friend. i get along well with your sister but she is not my friend. I will talk in your number.
I just never took a stand. She knew i will always return to her no matter how bad she treat me.
Her sister told me she care a lot about me but don't show her emotion to anyone. She don't want to cause problem between me & my fiancee.
I said my fiancee know everything & she is fine. She has her own friend circle too. People with gf have also right to have female best friends.
She gives me lot of time when i visit her city,it's my home town too. but I work in other city.
I just told her that you chat whole night with other friends in your number but you have problem doing that with your best friend.
She said you came to my office,i felt bad & insecure that my colleagues made fun that my boyfriend is possessive & came to check on me. She said you will leave,but i will live in same city,so i don't want to compromise with my respect.
anyway i understood. But yesterday we had a fight because i visited her city & asked for her time to meet to discuss about my wedding plan. Her office training was near my home,so i saw her & said HI. She said me to leave & got angry. She didn't met & told in phone that I am not your personal property. My family don't keep check on me like that. Why you came to training?. I said you never care about my happiness. You get time to ask other friends & your colleagues well being but not a single reply to my text or call. From last 1 month, we only talked if i call in her sister mobile or she called from her sister number.
We broke up last night,It happens most times that we fight & shout & end it. She told me not to show my face to her if we ever bump in road. She is very proud of her beauty & has a very big ego. But overall she is nice.
I took lot of crap & i feel after caring so much,do i deserve such treatment? Name any expensive gift which i have not given her. Mobiles, scooty , Expensive dresses,boots,clutches,jackets & Perfumes.
I am just mentioning this to make my point that i did all which will make her happy. I wanted to give her life which she wishes for.
I am very self-centred guy but first time in my life i got emotionally attached with anyone & i am doomed.
Please tell me what she think of me. One thing is sure she know if she call me after few weeks or months,she hope i will return to her like lost puppy. but now i want her to realise that my self respect is also important. She never cared about my happiness.
What i Should do now,because it's tough for me to keep her out of my mind. Should i move on? If she ever call,what i should do? Will she miss me when i am gone? In today's world most ppl will not do this much for their gf,best friend is far thing.
Sorry for long story,but this is my first post here & wanted to explain in detail.
