myfriendblu
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Re: Update: Back to the original subject of the thread.
This is why Im so against dating people you work with. Your stuck with being in contact with them long after the breakup. Im guessing you see her in some sort of activity like a bowling league or work right? Yep, this is why.
As far as getting your stuff, this is when its gonna get a little hairy. I have seen this situation before. She won't come get her stuff right away until she is totally over you. Thats the problem. She will leave it there, in a way to still be connected to you and into your life on purpose. Decieving bitc hes. No biggie, this is what you do. Go rent a pick-up truck or a small U-haul from your local u - haul store. There cheap, less than 30 bucks. Find out when she is gonna be home first. Then, pack her sh it up your dam self and move it over there. Unpack it. Ask for your key back. If she acts like she doesn't wanna give it back or "Lost It", LOL, call up the locksmith and cough up the 75 bucks for new locks. You DO NOT want her stuff at your house or a workable key in her possession. She will use them as a leverage to stay in your life like a leach. Sucks eh? Thats why you don't let them move in in the first place
Mmmkay,Originally posted by ZeeOwl
So here's the problem now. I can't avoid all contact with her as we're involved in a few common activities. Also, when she moved out from my place, it was into a temporary dwelling (just a room) with little space, so she still has a lot of her stuff at my house. She still has a key to my place (access to her stuff), so I was thinking of asking for it back, though I don't want to go over there just for that as I feel that would make me look like an a$$hole. I do want to keep contact to a minimum however. Also, if it's possible keep the door open to her changing her mind and really holding to our original agreement (I doubt she's capable of it, but you never know, I've seen stranger things happen), I rather would.
This is why Im so against dating people you work with. Your stuck with being in contact with them long after the breakup. Im guessing you see her in some sort of activity like a bowling league or work right? Yep, this is why.
As far as getting your stuff, this is when its gonna get a little hairy. I have seen this situation before. She won't come get her stuff right away until she is totally over you. Thats the problem. She will leave it there, in a way to still be connected to you and into your life on purpose. Decieving bitc hes. No biggie, this is what you do. Go rent a pick-up truck or a small U-haul from your local u - haul store. There cheap, less than 30 bucks. Find out when she is gonna be home first. Then, pack her sh it up your dam self and move it over there. Unpack it. Ask for your key back. If she acts like she doesn't wanna give it back or "Lost It", LOL, call up the locksmith and cough up the 75 bucks for new locks. You DO NOT want her stuff at your house or a workable key in her possession. She will use them as a leverage to stay in your life like a leach. Sucks eh? Thats why you don't let them move in in the first place