Female Aging

[The Duke]

Hell no...women take full advantage of their youth, over value their pu$$y, soak up All the free attention they can get, make demands, and then are mad when they hit 50 plus and their value is not what it was. You can't have it both ways. I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

The Double Standard of Aging for Women

There is a societal tendency to associate aging with decline for women, while for men, it’s often seen as a sign of wisdom and success.

www.psychologytoday.com

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It would nice if we could breed this behavior out of existence, but we can't.

Maybe there's an ET species out there with compatible dna and with better women. Lol.

 

[Gamisch]

It would nice if we could breed this behavior out of existence, but we can't.

Maybe there's an ET species out there with compatible dna and with better women. Lol.

Do they wear a hijab?

 

[justaroundthecorner]

I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

I think the desire is possible, but it happens mostly in old-fashioned, traditional relationships i.e.
- you have met the female when she was young
- you have lived together a lot of years, during which you have dealt together with a lot of external issues or dangers and fought them off successfully
- in the end in your eyes she is not really that old person other ppl might see but your best friend that was there for you when you needed her the most
- I think I read it in some book, it went like that "if female captures man when her looks is still young and fresh, the man that loves a woman does not see her like other men do when years pass, if the relationship is successful he looks at her as if she was still that young female he fell for years ago, not the (old) woman she might be now" - I think that part was a bit exaggerated, but I think it's true to the core i.e. we are well capable of looking past looks only but it is usually connected with looks factor being satisfied by this female at some point for a longer period of time and overall positive experience with a female in everyday life. In every man with values there's this almost primal need for winning the princess heart. If we have won it (when she was still a "princess" in our eyes) we tend to cherish this prize and hold on to it. This is something that progressive society would like to overwrite. Except it's impossible, this need is more than "traditional values" it seems to be connected with man's basic psychological needs (not only sexual needs)

Therefore, I'm afraid there's no reason to look past looks if there is no chance that your psychological needs will be satisfied as well and for me female over 35/36 years old would have unlikely chance to make any lasting, valuable impression due to aging connected with long history of sexual experience with other men connected at least partially with unsuccessful relationships with other men which she would try to hide or "wipe out" or stress out her disregard and overall lack of luck (playing "wounded dove" card) in order to try to imprint herself in my mind as unlucky princess (but still a princess ). I think that's what differ smart men and stupid men. If you are smart, you will not be fooled by such a woman.

Therefore I'm sure it's possible to desire female over 50 years old but such a female is most probably your first high school/college/early-career work love you have married, have children with, she hold your back during the worst time of your life - not surgically refreshed 48+ year old you have picked up out of loneliness and sadness that had rather sad life because there's little of Mother Nature's magic of young, fresh female in it. That's why I do understand why some men are all about that Magic even if their own Magic slowly fades away - to the point of social stigma of progressive society (I'm looking at you Leonardo Di Caprio).

 

[BeExcellent]

I dunno. It doesn't really bug me. As a woman in my 50s I'm cool with aging. I mean what choice do we have? I do think what happens with many women is they do not adjust their habits & lifestyle as they age. Then they complain loudly and bitterly about the results, which were predictable.

If a woman stays fit, minds her diet and remains height/weight proportioned that is half the battle. Proper diet and sun avoidance are also important. But those things are all long term lifestyle choices borne out of discipline.

Many women get bitter and complain and blame like the article says. However the beauty industry makes billions selling various quick fixes.....because the fantasy of the quick fix is much easier to swallow or to blame than the discipline it takes to develop healthy long term lifestyle habits.

Men like hot women. Duh. There are more hot women in the younger age brackets. Double duh. It is what it is. Embrace/accept and move on.

I don't go around looking for reasons to be upset or disappointed like the author does. And she apparently has a male partner of some sort so she's not lacking there.

All sorts of groups experience all sorts of discrimination on age,sex,race, religion all the protected classes were deemed protected for a reason. But to me you have to exist and go do life to the best of your ability anyway.

 

[Westminster]

Hell no...women take full advantage of their youth, over value their pu$$y, soak up All the free attention they can get, make demands, and then are mad when they hit 50 plus and their value is not what it was. You can't have it both ways. I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

The Double Standard of Aging for Women

There is a societal tendency to associate aging with decline for women, while for men, it’s often seen as a sign of wisdom and success.

www.psychologytoday.com

I've just read that article and there's something in it, because nobody likes getting old if we're honest - and aging can often have a worse effect for women because of menopause.

But, nowadays I think aging disadvantages men more than women in the world of work. 50+ men are the first to be thrown on the scrapheap and there's often no way back.

In contrast, women (of all ages) are more protected by employment law and often get a free pass. It also seems easier for older women to get work again, especially in many parts of the service sector and public sector jobs, where they benefit from so-called positive discrimination.

 

[Westminster]

I dunno. It doesn't really bug me. As a woman in my 50s I'm cool with aging. I mean what choice do we have? I do think what happens with many women is they do not adjust their habits & lifestyle as they age. Then they complain loudly and bitterly about the results, which were predictable.

If a woman stays fit, minds her diet and remains height/weight proportioned that is half the battle. Proper diet and sun avoidance are also important. But those things are all long term lifestyle choices borne out of discipline.

Many women get bitter and complain and blame like the article says. However the beauty industry makes billions selling various quick fixes.....because the fantasy of the quick fix is much easier to swallow or to blame than the discipline it takes to develop healthy long term lifestyle habits.

Men like hot women. Duh. There are more hot women in the younger age brackets. Double duh. It is what it is. Embrace/accept and move on.

I don't go around looking for reasons to be upset or disappointed like the author does. And she apparently has a male partner of some sort so she's not lacking there.

All sorts of groups experience all sorts of discrimination on age,sex,race, religion all the protected classes were deemed protected for a reason. But to me you have to exist and go do life to the best of your ability anyway.

A very sensible and well-observed response. Unfortunately, so many women see such things very differently.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Hell no...women take full advantage of their youth, over value their pu$$y, soak up All the free attention they can get, make demands, and then are mad when they hit 50 plus and their value is not what it was. You can't have it both ways. I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

The Double Standard of Aging for Women

There is a societal tendency to associate aging with decline for women, while for men, it’s often seen as a sign of wisdom and success.

www.psychologytoday.com

Their arguments get tiresome because men are not as demanding as women say. The majority of the beauty, fashion, and cosmetic industry is comprised of women and gay men. If no women wore makeup or did botox etc. they would all be back at square one with each other and men would sort out the ones they want just as we do now. Nobody forces a woman to try to look younger than her peers.

Funny these articles never mention how women are more prone to check each other out than men gaze at women. They are constantly sizing each other up.

It would be like men bytching about having to have a job and earn money. If men decided en masse to only provide the bare minimum for our own survival and happiness, women would simply deal with it. But nature doesn't work that way.

 

[mikedee]

Hell no...women take full advantage of their youth, over value their pu$$y, soak up All the free attention they can get, make demands, and then are mad when they hit 50 plus and their value is not what it was. You can't have it both ways. I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

The Double Standard of Aging for Women

There is a societal tendency to associate aging with decline for women, while for men, it’s often seen as a sign of wisdom and success.

www.psychologytoday.com

I have no desire for women over 30.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I dunno. It doesn't really bug me. As a woman in my 50s I'm cool with aging. I mean what choice do we have? I do think what happens with many women is they do not adjust their habits & lifestyle as they age. Then they complain loudly and bitterly about the results, which were predictable.

If a woman stays fit, minds her diet and remains height/weight proportioned that is half the battle. Proper diet and sun avoidance are also important. But those things are all long term lifestyle choices borne out of discipline.

Many women get bitter and complain and blame like the article says. However the beauty industry makes billions selling various quick fixes.....because the fantasy of the quick fix is much easier to swallow or to blame than the discipline it takes to develop healthy long term lifestyle habits.

Men like hot women. Duh. There are more hot women in the younger age brackets. Double duh. It is what it is. Embrace/accept and move on.

I don't go around looking for reasons to be upset or disappointed like the author does. And she apparently has a male partner of some sort so she's not lacking there.

All sorts of groups experience all sorts of discrimination on age,sex,race, religion all the protected classes were deemed protected for a reason. But to me you have to exist and go do life to the best of your ability anyway.

Sunlight is good for your health…it gives vitamin d. a mood booster and a host of other proteins.

 

[SW15]

Hell no...women take full advantage of their youth, over value their pu$$y, soak up All the free attention they can get, make demands, and then are mad when they hit 50 plus and their value is not what it was. You can't have it both ways. I have no desire for a woman over 50, and I'm rolling up on that age myself. They simply don't understand.

There's a lot of privilege in being female.

When females hit 13-15, they start getting a lot of attention and soak in the privilege of being attractive and having something desired. Starting around 9th/10th grade or so. females are using their looks on fellow high school boys. I remember being in high school and going wild for fellow high school girls.

As women reach adulthood, they use their looks for attention and other privileges. While this peaks from 18-25, this is still something that women 26-35 can play off reasonably well too. At 36, this might start to fade a little bit but it's mild for a lot of women until the 45-50. In total, women do enjoy 3 decades of life where they take full advantage of being youthful looking, make demands, and have a lot of privilege. I have very little sympathy for older women losing their privilege when they had it for so long.

It's difficult for a lot of men to desire for women 45-50+. There are a lot of men in their 50s/60s out there in relationships with women in their 50s/60s. Some of these relationships are multiple decades long and the men feel good about the fact that they got to be with this woman when she was younger. They have built a life together. It's a bit more awkward when a 50+ man starts dating a woman 50+. They didn't grow their lives together. A lot of 50+ men can only get sex conventionally from 50+ women so they take that rather than going without it.

If a woman stays fit, minds her diet and remains height/weight proportioned that is half the battle. Proper diet and sun avoidance are also important. But those things are all long term lifestyle choices borne out of discipline.

Those things do help. It's not enough. Aging is tough. There are not many women 50+ who are objectively attractive.

When I was in high school and college, I would see women in their 30s-40s and think that the women were objectively attractive. That wasn't my preferred age range at the time, but I did see how attractive some were and I was interested.

she apparently has a male partner of some sort so she's not lacking there.

It's not difficult for a woman to get a partner. There are far more men lacking partners.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The Double Standard of Aging for Women

There is a societal tendency to associate aging with decline for women, while for men, it’s often seen as a sign of wisdom and success.

www.psychologytoday.com

News flash PT and, for that matter, the rest of The US: Life is filled with an infinite number of double standards, the likes of which very little can be done

Ex: If you're young/youngish, male, and look even remotely Near Eastern or Hispanic, be prepared to be stopped for suspicion of being terrorist-connected or active in narco trafficking of some sort by TSA. No amount of protesting will change this

 

[BaronOfHair]

It would nice if we could breed this behavior out of existence, but we can't

https://www.newsweek.com/culture-poverty-173046 Quote: "The Banfield theory ignited outrage, because it meant that, beyond some point, the effort to end poverty would fail. In the prevailing climate(The 1970s)--all problems were then deemed solvable--this was heresy"

That same mindset has experienced a resurrection from '17-today, on all sides of the sociocultural continuum. The Men's Rights Movement, for example, refuses to get serious about agitating for concrete policy reforms like making shared parenting legislation the law of the land, their rationale being: "Even after this is achieved, fathers will likely still have to work harder than mothers to demonstrate that they're fit to be in the lives of their children. We have to close The Empathy Gap first"

It'd be nice if we could create a utopia, where we humans(family court judges included) no longer sympathize more readily with all creatures who APPEAR cute and cuddly, be they koala bears or attractive young women. No one has created technology which can rewire our species into anything fundamentally different than we are though, and the assertion that we must do so, BEFORE we make progress is a uniquely modern phenomena

No civil rights movement prior to 1968 entertained such delusions