donjuanapprentice01
Senior Don Juan
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- Sep 22, 2005
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Alright guys, here's the deal. I've been starting to feel alot more confident about myself lately and have started going to the bars again, by myself I might add. Anyways, here's the scenario:
I went out Thursday night, to this patio bar on the waterfront of my city as there was firework displays going and figured it would be packed. Got served by this stunning babe, I'd say an HB9 in my books. Thought nothing of it, tipped her as I would normally with any other server.
Friday night, I head out to this classy bar in town as they have a band playing (btw, love going here as I feel it's not as intimidating going alone to a club as a live band is playing, so you can chill by yourself listening to the band. If you want to go solo, might want to find a place with a live band playing) Anyways, back on track here, I'm sitting at the bar making convos with as many people I can and guess who shows up? Yep, the chick that served me at the patio. She remembers me. She is there with her friends, but we strike up a short convo, we introduce ourselves and then she goes back to her friends. She comes back again and orders more drinks later, we talk a bit more... she goes back to her friends. I don't go for the digits, for whatever reason. Anyways, I go and try to find her after the band has finished up but she must have left.
Fast forward to today, I'm at the patio bar, she is there but she doesn't serve me today. We say hi, but that's about it. As I pay my bill and leave, I say "see you later Kate (that's her name) and again I strike up another convo with her. For whatever reason, I can't ask for her digits, I don't know why I can't, because I like her. Anyways, she finishes up the convo by saying "well, I'm sure we'll see each other again, you know where I am".
Alright, I want to ask her out. I felt intimidated asking her out today because she was at work, there were other people there and the manager was there also. I guess I need to get more liquid courage for me to ask her out. Anyways, I feel like a douchebag.
So finally my question. Do you think I've wasted all my chances here? I had 2 solid chances to ask her out, and I've failed to do so. I plan on going back midweek to this patio bar and am determined to ask her out, but I'm worried the window of opportunity may have closed.
Thanks as always fellas
I went out Thursday night, to this patio bar on the waterfront of my city as there was firework displays going and figured it would be packed. Got served by this stunning babe, I'd say an HB9 in my books. Thought nothing of it, tipped her as I would normally with any other server.
Friday night, I head out to this classy bar in town as they have a band playing (btw, love going here as I feel it's not as intimidating going alone to a club as a live band is playing, so you can chill by yourself listening to the band. If you want to go solo, might want to find a place with a live band playing) Anyways, back on track here, I'm sitting at the bar making convos with as many people I can and guess who shows up? Yep, the chick that served me at the patio. She remembers me. She is there with her friends, but we strike up a short convo, we introduce ourselves and then she goes back to her friends. She comes back again and orders more drinks later, we talk a bit more... she goes back to her friends. I don't go for the digits, for whatever reason. Anyways, I go and try to find her after the band has finished up but she must have left.
Fast forward to today, I'm at the patio bar, she is there but she doesn't serve me today. We say hi, but that's about it. As I pay my bill and leave, I say "see you later Kate (that's her name) and again I strike up another convo with her. For whatever reason, I can't ask for her digits, I don't know why I can't, because I like her. Anyways, she finishes up the convo by saying "well, I'm sure we'll see each other again, you know where I am".
Alright, I want to ask her out. I felt intimidated asking her out today because she was at work, there were other people there and the manager was there also. I guess I need to get more liquid courage for me to ask her out. Anyways, I feel like a douchebag.
So finally my question. Do you think I've wasted all my chances here? I had 2 solid chances to ask her out, and I've failed to do so. I plan on going back midweek to this patio bar and am determined to ask her out, but I'm worried the window of opportunity may have closed.
Thanks as always fellas
" mindset if you can't ask for the number otherwise.