metamorphose
Don Juan
Hi guys, long time lurker, only beginning to actually post and be proactive.
I am learning, trying my best, but still clueless with women (look at my posts for proof haha).
This time I don’t know what to think, and don’t want to screw it up, so here is situation:
First day of university for the fall semester, first class, I recognize a gorgeous girl who has been in a class of mine before. Being the super AFC I was/am, I didn’t get past a surface level, small talk relationship previously. Previous semester, I had caught her starting a few times, but she is a 10/10, actually a professional model, worked as a UFC ring girl, so I figured no chance… She has guys hitting on her all the time, everywhere she goes, every time I see her she is with some different afc she clearly has friendzoned. Figuring I had no chance with her, I always was aloof, would really neg her, which was probably a 180 from every guy telling her how beautiful she is.
After class today, she ran up to me to say hi, asking me if I saw her in the class. I obviously had, but I made a joke about still being asleep and that I didn’t. I had to run to make it to a diff class, but she clearly showed interest in our convo even though I cut it short to leave.
Later today, I ran into her again at the gym (this is where I shine, I am a gym rat and it shows). We had a great convo and as I was leaving she was like hey do you have facebook? Before I could even respond, she was like actually I have it pretty locked down due to stalkers and am hard to find, here take my number. She put all her info in my phone and then was like text me when you are bored we should hang out. After a bit of small talk, she then asked me where I was parked, and after finding out I was in a far away lot, insisted on giving me a ride to my car.
So the way I see it, is pretty much every hint possible has been given, and she has been the aggressor which is new to me, but I am still unsure due to the fact she has a ton of guy friends, and is the most friendly, outgoing girl possible. Being the first week of classes, there is a ton of stuff going on nightly from tomm-sun. Asking her to come with me to a uni bar would be a bad idea IMO cus she will know too many people there, including her army of friendzoned afcs. But on the other hand, grab her hand, start dancing close, music and alcohol will take care of the rest?
How do I handle this? Back of my mind is worrying she is just super nice and looking for more friends, and she is the touchy feely type with everyone, but to quote my buddy “dude, only way she could be more obvious is if she put her hands down your pants”.
thanks again
I am learning, trying my best, but still clueless with women (look at my posts for proof haha).
This time I don’t know what to think, and don’t want to screw it up, so here is situation:
First day of university for the fall semester, first class, I recognize a gorgeous girl who has been in a class of mine before. Being the super AFC I was/am, I didn’t get past a surface level, small talk relationship previously. Previous semester, I had caught her starting a few times, but she is a 10/10, actually a professional model, worked as a UFC ring girl, so I figured no chance… She has guys hitting on her all the time, everywhere she goes, every time I see her she is with some different afc she clearly has friendzoned. Figuring I had no chance with her, I always was aloof, would really neg her, which was probably a 180 from every guy telling her how beautiful she is.
After class today, she ran up to me to say hi, asking me if I saw her in the class. I obviously had, but I made a joke about still being asleep and that I didn’t. I had to run to make it to a diff class, but she clearly showed interest in our convo even though I cut it short to leave.
Later today, I ran into her again at the gym (this is where I shine, I am a gym rat and it shows). We had a great convo and as I was leaving she was like hey do you have facebook? Before I could even respond, she was like actually I have it pretty locked down due to stalkers and am hard to find, here take my number. She put all her info in my phone and then was like text me when you are bored we should hang out. After a bit of small talk, she then asked me where I was parked, and after finding out I was in a far away lot, insisted on giving me a ride to my car.
So the way I see it, is pretty much every hint possible has been given, and she has been the aggressor which is new to me, but I am still unsure due to the fact she has a ton of guy friends, and is the most friendly, outgoing girl possible. Being the first week of classes, there is a ton of stuff going on nightly from tomm-sun. Asking her to come with me to a uni bar would be a bad idea IMO cus she will know too many people there, including her army of friendzoned afcs. But on the other hand, grab her hand, start dancing close, music and alcohol will take care of the rest?
How do I handle this? Back of my mind is worrying she is just super nice and looking for more friends, and she is the touchy feely type with everyone, but to quote my buddy “dude, only way she could be more obvious is if she put her hands down your pants”.
thanks again
”. Bringing up another problem, my ****ty fb account with no pictures up and that’s pretty much locked down. In the past I always make some joke about how I hate fb and use it only for messenger, but I know shes thinking she will be able to creep my profile.
