Feelings about a girl friend of mine, how to get over her?

anatomiczero

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I have a friend that I have feelings for. She got J (a friend of ours, has a gf and baby) a lot of stuff for his b-day last year and put a lot of thought into it. On her b-day he didn't give her anything, I was the only one who did. Last week she was asking us what we wanted and she told me she didn't know what I liked which kind of upsetted me since we've known eachother for 3 years so she should have an idea of what I like. Then she kept asking J what he wanted.

Yesterday was my birthday, and she didn't e-mail me, call me or anything. Then me and J we're talking and we brought up e-mail and he was saying they'd email eachother like 5 times a day when he had interent. Well I emailed her quit a bit but never get a response and when I asked her about it she didn't say anything, then she turned to J and asked him if he got her e-mails right in front of me. I was sad and mad at the same time.

For some reason I really like this girl, my friends say it because of the "chase" Anyway, I've told her I liked her and asked how she felt and she wouldn't say anything. I'd flirt with her in a jokingly way and she laughs with me, atleast I think she's not laughing at me. Kino is very difficult with her, She would push me away most of the time and say she's not a touchy person but then she always leans on J or pokes him, stuff like that and I get jealous.


I can't seem to get over her, I'd stop flirting with her for about a week but start again, how do I get over her? I'm tired of making myself look like an ass but I keep thinking the next time I flirt with her she'll flirt back.
 

Lafarge

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Stop thinking and you will be fine:)

What you need to do is pull yourself together, gather up some self esteem, and move onto looking for and chasing other girls.

You aren't the first to go through this and most certainly not the last.

Come on rationally you can't tell me she is the only girl left in this world.

Cut contact with her and move on.
 

DJmonster

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First thing, realize that you really need help. Read the DJ Bible!

At first, when you start reading it and building your confidence you might make the mistake of thinking about how you can use what you learn to win this girl over. Keep reading and practicing what you learn, and you will soon forget about this girl. She's nothing special!
 

loverboy2003

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hmmm well i agree you gotta CUT contact with her for a while if she starts to go outta her way to see, be around or talk to you then you know she has some intrest in you how much is to be determined thats your job after that to find out how much but if she DOESN'T try to talk to you or see you then she really doesn't care to be around you simple as that
 
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