I think I screwed up with this new girl I've been seeing. We've only been out a few times, but we've had a blast both times. While we've made plans on the phone, I haven't seen her in 2 weeks. I was trying to be a bit of a challenge and not make myself so available, but I think I overdid it. Plus I switched plans on her once when some friends of mine came to town. She's cancelled on me onetime. but she was legitimately sick. And another time I missed her phone call when I said I'd be there so it screwed up the nights plans.
This most recent time was on Saturday night. We had made plans to hang out since Thurs. She had a family function during the day so she said she'd call me at about 9:30 that night. Meanwhile on saturday I got a surprise visit from my mom and ended up giving her a ride back to her town about 3 hours round trip.
I ended up getting back at around 10pm and saw the message on my machine from the girl. Her sister and come by out of the blue(from out of town) so she had to put her up for the night, but she still wanted to get together with me. I wasn't happy about having to hang with the sister, but I called the girl anyway and told her we could do something. They were heading bowling so I said they could call me when they got back.
In the meantime, my neighbors came by(couple of girls) and invited me over for a drink. I set the call forwarding to ring at their place so I wouldn't miss the girl's call(or so I thought I did). Anyway, i ended up missing her call at 11pm and tried to call her back at 11:30pm but couldn't get ahold of them. Meanwhile my roomate came home with some of her friends and I hung out with them and called the girl back at 12:30 and got ahold of her. She sounded annoyed that I missed her call..I didn't get a chance to explain about the call forwarding thing, but I asked her to do something on Sunday to which she agreed. I felt bad so I planned a fun day for Sunday, but when i called her in the afternoon I got her machine and left a message. I tried her again in the evening and got her machine again and left one more message. And that was that.
It's Tuesday now and I never heard back from her. I feel soooo ****ty, because I really like this girl. I can understand her being pissed about my being unavailabl, but would her interest level just drop to zero like that? From calling me sometimes twice in a day to not returning my messages? I wanted to give her a day or two to cool down a bit and try her one last time. Is that ok? I know she has caller id, but should I try from my cell phone(she doesn't have that number)? I just want to talk to her. Don't know why it's got me so down. I'd normally have moved on to the next girl by this point, but she was the coolest girl I've met in awhile. What should I say to her? Need some advice BIG time.
M.
This most recent time was on Saturday night. We had made plans to hang out since Thurs. She had a family function during the day so she said she'd call me at about 9:30 that night. Meanwhile on saturday I got a surprise visit from my mom and ended up giving her a ride back to her town about 3 hours round trip.
I ended up getting back at around 10pm and saw the message on my machine from the girl. Her sister and come by out of the blue(from out of town) so she had to put her up for the night, but she still wanted to get together with me. I wasn't happy about having to hang with the sister, but I called the girl anyway and told her we could do something. They were heading bowling so I said they could call me when they got back.
In the meantime, my neighbors came by(couple of girls) and invited me over for a drink. I set the call forwarding to ring at their place so I wouldn't miss the girl's call(or so I thought I did). Anyway, i ended up missing her call at 11pm and tried to call her back at 11:30pm but couldn't get ahold of them. Meanwhile my roomate came home with some of her friends and I hung out with them and called the girl back at 12:30 and got ahold of her. She sounded annoyed that I missed her call..I didn't get a chance to explain about the call forwarding thing, but I asked her to do something on Sunday to which she agreed. I felt bad so I planned a fun day for Sunday, but when i called her in the afternoon I got her machine and left a message. I tried her again in the evening and got her machine again and left one more message. And that was that.
It's Tuesday now and I never heard back from her. I feel soooo ****ty, because I really like this girl. I can understand her being pissed about my being unavailabl, but would her interest level just drop to zero like that? From calling me sometimes twice in a day to not returning my messages? I wanted to give her a day or two to cool down a bit and try her one last time. Is that ok? I know she has caller id, but should I try from my cell phone(she doesn't have that number)? I just want to talk to her. Don't know why it's got me so down. I'd normally have moved on to the next girl by this point, but she was the coolest girl I've met in awhile. What should I say to her? Need some advice BIG time.
M.
