Feeling pretty down right now...

[Last Man Standing]

first of all, this board ought to be a damn shamed of itself.. this guy has been with this girl for 5 fvcking years, ovbiously his heart is torn apart right now, and you guys are telling him "y ou got pimped dawg!!!!"

my condolences man...seriously

Even though logically it makes sense what happened.. it happened to you, and it's never easy. when I was 18 my GF of a year, mad at me for some readon, I still dont' know why, went to a party and got gangbanged.. then tried to come back to me in tears 3 weeks later when the one guy who turned her out tried to fck her best friend.

however this isn't a women's site.. it's not for feelings it's for improvment. If you need someone tot alk to about what's going on, my PM box is open.

first of all.. you need to keep yourself busy. Keep yourself occupied.

don't think that because she sucked him off she likes him more than you. She likes the newness of him more than the oldness of you.

Read my post Ijust so happened to make, this applies 150% to you.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128576


right now, I wouldn't be conerened about women if I were you. you were in a relationship so long you neglected yourself. you probably took advice here half hearted becuase you "had a girl" already so it didn't matter what you did. get hobbies, work out, read books.. better yourself.

everything happens for a reason, what doesnt' kill you makes you stronger.

look at it this way.. now you have no weights.. you can enjoy life. there is good in every situtation. this is no different

I've said it once, I've said it a million times.. a woman in lust, rationality and logic is like trying to throw a cat in water, you can forget it. that emotional roller coaster you are having now is what women kill for.

BB, He got pimped because he thought his hor- friend was loyal to him!!!!!! Hors don't care about how long men have been loyal to her - they care about themselves!!!! He thought he was "special" - as many of you fools think!!!! He was just the next pimp in line - the sooner you young fools realize this the sooner you will be in sync with the rhythm of truth!!!!

Quit trusting and loving hors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He is the millioneth hor lover to tell us this story - when will you learn!!!!! I have never been wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wake the fvck up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Obsidian]

don't think that because she sucked him off she likes him more than you. She likes the newness of him more than the oldness of you.

Quite profound. Backbreaker has described the unnatural order of the Hor rather perfectly. Altho I suspect that you are on this site because you have many weaknesses as a man (which you should improve upon), the truth is that a hor's leaving you means very little about your masculinity. You could be the greatest man ever, but most hors would still get bored with you.

BB, He got pimped because he thought his hor- friend was loyal to him!!!!!!

I doubt that she was a hor when he met her at fifteen. Of course, this is the 21st century where kids have sex at age 11, so I could be wrong.

 

[backbreaker]

i had a jr high classmate that had 2 kids by the time she was 13

 

[Street_Fighter]

first of all, this board ought to be a damn shamed of itself.. this guy has been with this girl for 5 fvcking years, ovbiously his heart is torn apart right now, and you guys are telling him "y ou got pimped dawg!!!!"

well exccuuuuussee us Ellen

 

[Last Man Standing]

first of all, this board ought to be a damn shamed of itself.. this guy has been with this girl for 5 fvcking years, ovbiously his heart is torn apart right now, and you guys are telling him "y ou got pimped dawg!!!!"

I said this because his name is "Night Time Pimp" - if he had the pimp mindset he would never get emotionally involved with these types of women who are not his wife!

The best way to overcome the loss of five years with one girl is to be of the mindset that you will never be loyal to one girl again - except if she is your wife!! I am not being harsh - I am being real!

 

[Night Time Pimp]

Well there is definitely a varying mix of opinions floating around here. Thank you to those of you like backbreaker and djDamage who provided solid input, and to everyone else, well your opinions and viewpoints do matter as well, and I can appreciate the "she's just a hor!!!!?!?!/111" mentality.

In most cases, I'd totally agree. They say you go through the trash until you find the golden nugget. Well despite being young at the time, I had spent about a year bouncing from relationship to relationship until I met this girl, and she was what I was looking for, the so called "good girlfriend". It's just too bad things worked out how they did in the long run.

Who I truly feel sorry for is her, as she has just turned her back on the values she fully took pride in for years, and the people she used to look down upon, she is now just as bad. I am who I am, but it is her living a lie now, or even worse, has been living a lie for five years.

And no, I didn't treat her like a princess. I had my own life, my own hobbies, I kept busy without her. And that is her excuse now. That I didn't treat her good enough. Well whatever. I guess she needs to grow up a lot more and realize what a real man is, with his own life, not sink her claws into some punk who will worship her and suck him off to keep him doing it. Good luck buddy, your jizz isn't the only thing she'll suck you dry of.

I am beginning to come out of this rut however. My mates and I are going on a road trip overnight tomorrow to party with some girls out of province. I set up a date for next week with a girl I know who used to have a thing for me. I'm taking extra hours at work. I've been playing a lot of basketball and football to keep active. Anything to keep busy so my mind isn't on that trash's lips wrapped around some guys wang.

Damn, I actually feel a lot better after getting all of that out.

 

[backbreaker]

And no, I didn't treat her like a princess. I had my own life, my own hobbies, I kept busy without her. And that is her excuse now. That I didn't treat her good enough. Well whatever. I guess she needs to grow up a lot more and realize what a real man is, with his own life, not sink her claws into some punk who will worship her and suck him off to keep him doing it. Good luck buddy, your jizz isn't the only thing she'll suck you dry of.

nail on the freakin head. you have nothing to be down about. on the contary, you just weeded out a potential lowlife.

I am beginning to come out of this rut however. My mates and I are going on a road trip overnight tomorrow to party with some girls out of province. I set up a date for next week with a girl I know who used to have a thing for me. I'm taking extra hours at work. I've been playing a lot of basketball and football to keep active. Anything to keep busy so my mind isn't on that trash's lips wrapped around some guys wang.

more guys need to read this.. this is how you get over a woman

 

[ChapStick]

My God man..

I know what it's like to go through a rough breakup, but I can only imagine your situation being harder than what most of us have been through! 5 years!

In all sincerity, my condolences bro!

It will take time to heal your pain, but I'm sure it will never go away completely! I wish you a swift recovery!

Like backbreaker said! Take this as an opportunity for self improvement! Having a girlfriend for 5 years from such an early age has probably destroyed your game in more ways than you know!

Take this as an opportunity to grow!

Work out, read, buy some nicer clothing, build yourself a new circle of friends! Just get busy focusing on yourself and take advantage of all the potential you have!

I truly feel for you man!

If you ever need someone to talk to in private or whatever, I'm free to help! Just send me a PM! While I'm no relationship expert, I am willing to offer any support I can!

You will get through this!!

- Chapstick