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yankees13

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I feel so fn bad. Went to my college class today, after class i went to talk to this chic for little bit,...

Problem is at the end, i didnt ask her for her # or anything, and it was last day of class... Who knows if i will see her again.... And i had a feeling that she liked me too because she kept staring at me in class.

It feels so f'n bad hopefully this wont ever happen again, and i will ask girls for their # no matter of the outcome/or what might they say.. I just feel so fn bad now dont know how to get over it? Lol any tips?
 

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Just bottle the pain up and use the next time around. You might not ever have this problem again- which will completely turn this situation into a positive instead of a negative.
 

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Trying to, trying to... Its just terrible knowing its the last day of class, knowing that she may like me, knowing that i may not see her again till september, or never in the hall.. Had the nerve to talk to her but didnt have the nerve to ask her for # TERRIBLE
 

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It has been said that regret is a worse feeling than rejection.
 

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Kinda ironic, isn't it? You didn't go for the number in fear of the pain of rejection. Yet the pain of regret is worse than the pain of rejection could ever be.

-Blitz
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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There be other ships on the seas. You lived and now you learn.
 

WatchMeWalk

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Originally posted by yankees13
I feel so fn bad. Went to my college class today, after class i went to talk to this chic for little bit,...

Problem is at the end, i didnt ask her for her # or anything, and it was last day of class... Who knows if i will see her again.... And i had a feeling that she liked me too because she kept staring at me in class.

It feels so f'n bad hopefully this wont ever happen again, and i will ask girls for their # no matter of the outcome/or what might they say.. I just feel so fn bad now dont know how to get over it? Lol any tips?
You are pathetic. Not as a result of your actions but just the way you express your mindset.
You feel bad just because you didn't #close ONE GIRL on the last day of school? ****! I can think of at LEAST 3 GIRLS, with high IL, I could have closed before the school year ended. I just didn't feel like it at the time and I don't care. I'm already working on a couple of prospects I saved for the vacation. And if I want more, I'll just go sarging at the mall, the clubs, or Coney Island.
If you're the type to eat yourself up over one single missed opportunity, get some therapy before pursuing the DJ lifestyle.
 

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I think that WatchMeWalk is just putting it nicely :p

pick your head up and go get some other hotties...they out there in a hardcore way. try again G~
 

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Exactly! There are girls everywhere, opportunities all over the place but you have to make them (it sucks waiting for something to drop in your lap anyway (no pun intended;)).

So don't feel bad that you messed up, cos you can make up for it right now this minute (I'm guessing at this point such a notion brings the fear right back, but ya gotta plug through that!).
 

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I think you shouldve tae kwan do kick yourself in the head. Futhermore, if you did have the courage, it wouldve sounded so jumbled due to nervousness, she wouldnt understand what you said.

o well there is still plenty of girls out there. just remember this fark up to know never to repeat it again. yeah uni semester is over for me too, which means less chicks to talk too. :(
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
Kinda ironic, isn't it? You didn't go for the number in fear of the pain of rejection. Yet the pain of regret is worse than the pain of rejection could ever be.

-Blitz

Absolutely.

It hurts way more to ask "what if," than it hurts for her to say no.


-- Zero-
 

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Yankees Suck...:)

Seriously though, its just more motivation for the next time...
 
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