Feeling kinda fooled. Need advice from SoSuave on GF falling asleep during sex.

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Which is why the whole thing makes my Spider Sense tingle. If PM feels the need to be constantly packing, his gut is trying to tell him there's something seriously wrong with this setup.
 

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SecondHalf said:
Nothing good will become of this.
This. ^

If there's one seemingly simple piece of advise I could give anyone, towards achieving a life of happiness, peace, and fulfillment...

Is to remove the bad people from one's life, and allow the good one's in.

A meth gal, playing two guys like that, one who may or may not wants to attempt suicide...is poison.

Rollo's shocking post about the casino worker is eye-opening, to say the least.

Poonani, at best, if you keep this going you'll end up with some sort of STD, at best.

Suggest you cut this one loose, no contact. Check in on her in a year or two. A year or two of meth use, and you'll see what this gal will look like then and you'll be thankful you decided to not travel down that road with her.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
I got to thinking about POONANI's situation last night, and it hit me that his predicament is eerily similar to one I watched from the sidelines. The woman essentially played one well paid provider-type guy off another "hot" guy who worked on the floor with her. Both eventually came to know about the other by her design. She even enjoyed the tension between the two because it made her feel valuable.

In the end, last I heard, the provider guy is serving life in prison in Carson City, and the "hot guy" is now buried with two gunshot wounds to the head. And the girl has moved on to marry some new rich contractor beta-provider husband. Any sense of remorse or guilt was rationalized away by her as the whole incident being 'anger issues' between two typical men.
Probably a Cluster B nutcase. She loves playing one man against the other to feed her ego, in the end she stays with none of them. Some guy may say "No big deal! I´m emotionally detached, I can handle her"...but the question is, is this girl and the other guy emotionally detached too?? Probably not, so something nasty could happen, and you´re in the middle of the shoot-out!

Then this law came to mind:
Law 10 - Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
In the same chapter (law), It´s narrated the life of Lola Montez. All the guys involved with her ended up dead!! :nervous:
 

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Poonani, at best, if you keep this going you'll end up with some sort of STD, at best.
She doesn't have any STDs. I've inspected every nook and cranny of her body. She does have bad lungs and snores loudly.

I took pause when reading Rollo's post about the casino couple. I've thought about whether to call her tonight or tomorrow all day today at work. It has consumed me. Practically All day my mind was made up NOT to call her at all this weekend and see other girls, but now that I've gotten home from a hard fvckin day, I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooo tempted to be lazy and just call her to see if we can hookup tonight. She Is my girlfriend too. I'm still sooo torn apart about what to do. Logic, or what you guys say, says don't call. My emotions and what my d!ck says, "Call motherfvcker, call. She'll fvck you like she always fvcked you. Last week was just a slipup on her part (and mine, I guess)."

I'm going to call some plates, but if those don't pan out, I'm calling her. Later
 

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Eject. I agree with the comment someone made about your gut telling you something is wrong. Believe it. Your gut bypasses all of the surface feelings and logic and gets to the truth. This chick is no good... By pitting this other guy against you, telling you about him, she is disrespecting you over and over again.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I still refrained from contacting her, mainly cause I was tired. No sense talking, when I'm not going to try to get together. I woke up this morning thinking that I will fight it hard all day not to contact her. None of the other women I've put on hold sort of, all this time are responding or warm to me. I had one last night I probably could have met late, but I was so fvckin tired AND I'm not all that attracted to her mind even though she's younger than the meth girl above.

I've texted a few this morning, and one that I know will not be fvckable, maybe making out, MAYbe feeling her up a bit, but I can tell that fvcking her reserved as5 soon would be quite the chore. I can just tell. I'm going to keep trying for most of the day to find a replacement so that I'm not tempted to call this one who's playing me off her low-life boyfriend, and him off of me. Next weekend, I already have something solidified with another plate - blonde, younger, and fvckin awesome bod, though a little saggy t!ts for her age, great attitude though. So if I can just hold out this weekend, then the Ice will be at least 2 weekends. THEN the ice will get easier and easier the further and further I experience more girls. Then, I have gum surgery, which will put me out a couple of weeks. Then, I have family visiting from out of town. So, I need a replacement BAD for tonight. That's the only buffer I don't have at the moment.
 

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This is the same guy who posts lay reports about banging different girls every other day?
 

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This is the same guy who posts lay reports about banging different girls every other day?
Yeah, but most girls ain't sh!t compared to the one I'm discussing here. She's almost manish in her ability to fvck long and hard. A lot of those I've been with every week are throwbacks. This one is a keeper based purely on her sexual stamina. Too bad she's a druggie, but at least I found her. None compare to her sex that I've come across. Even the few bpd chicks I've had within the past year can't compare. I can stick my fingers up her as5 while fvcking. I can do it all almost. None have come close. Plus she's young, petite, and moans perfect (I can't get her moaning out of my head, ringing in my head all week while I'm at work). Pure addiction.
 

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Whipped, whipped bad.
Might as well fall for a hooker with a trick beavie.

Jocks have pretty good stamina too.
Plus they're healthy.
Can have careers ...
Might even be content with one man...


Good luck with this Poonani.
 

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Yeah, but most girls ain't sh!t compared to the one I'm discussing here. She's almost manish in her ability to fvck long and hard.

What do you expect? She is on the most strongest stimulant known to man. She is a meth addict and she will chop off your balls and sell them for more meth.

Can't believe you are still seeing this trash.
 

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Sue Madre said:
What do you expect? She is on the most strongest stimulant known to man. She is a meth addict and she will chop off your balls and sell them for more meth.

Can't believe you are still seeing this trash.
So true, man, I ain't calling her. You guys help me control myself. While I have nothing for tonight, yet, I can still have my balls. She IS being disrespectful now. Just a couple of weeks ago, I had the frame. I was the prize. Something's transpired since then, I don't know what, but she's taken a dimmer view of me. Whereas before she worshiped me, now, in just 2 weeks, she treats me like "get away from me" or is really thinking of me as sh!t. Thanks, but I would not be surprised if she tries to contact me in a few hours. I don't know what I'd do. I'd probably be friendly with her and see about hooking up, but I sure as H3ll ain't contacting her first. I'm tired of her SAYING something that she thinks I want to hear, but her body turns the other direction. The further I move from her, the happier she is now. It used to be the exact opposite. Something's changed in less than 2 weeks. I've been fvcking her for since June 18th I think according to timestamps on phone/email.
 

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Sue Madre said:
Just wait until she tweaks on meth so much her teeth start rotting out and her breath smells like death.

At least post a pic of this chic? So we can see why you are putting up with all of this.
I don't want people copying our pic. I can assure you that she is a little cutie. I'm sooo tempted to call her in a few minutes, because I've got nothing. ALL the women I've contacted today are either taken, have plans, or are simply not responding/answering because they've done forgotten about me, and because I haven't been actively pursuing others in a while like I used to. This sux, man. I can't even get 35 yr olds to go with me atm because I got so serious with this one.
 

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Sue Madre said:
blah blah, I don't want to post her pic blah blah.

Give me a break dude?

I posted a pic of my wife and I took criticism. Post the pic. Nobody cares enough about you to do anything with it.
She's brunette, cute, straight hair to her shoulders, pale-skinned, sweet pvssy, little as5, little over b-cup firm tatas with moderate-sized nips, thin waist, tone arms/legs. Trust me, she's still looks like she could be in her teens, and I can imagine what she looked like back then.

I just got off the phone with her. Her life is a grade-A fing mess. She had to go to court this week. She was cursing to me about the whole thing. I asked, "Did you curse in front of the judge like that?" and she says that her public defender spoke for her. This was concerning her baby and CPS.

She's on the rag this weekend, so I couldn't have done anything with her this weekend anyway, but she's all up for next weekend, but I just fvckin forgot that I have plans with another on Friday evening. Fvck. I told her that we could get together Friday. Oh well. I can't cancel plans with this new plate I've started up again with. She's just gonna have to wait until Saturday. I won't even call her though about it, I'll just let Friday pass, and she'll without a doubt be wondering why I didn't call. She apologized again for last Saturday (falling asleep while I was kissing her body, rubbing her pvssy and then eating it - I don't know exactly when she fell asleep). I told her just to forget about it. She seemed to want to make issue of it, but I wanted it to just pass over. She probably wanted me to say something funny about it, but I don't even really remember that night, really, I don't give a fvck about it. She seems to still be thinking about it. She holds on to a lot of things. She needs to just let it go.

I had another gal that I called tonight who wanted to meet me, but she's kinda chubby, and I don't really like her really. She still thinks I'm going to be at a college bar I said I'd meet her at, but I ain't going. I'm too lazy to text her to tell her I'm not too.

Anyway, so I'm fvckless for the first time since June.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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We really need to see her pictures to tell you if she's worth so much trouble.


I say, if shes so hot and sexy, and horny, keep on fvcking her. But dont let her know any details about your life such as where you live and work and all. Thats what i would do just keep banging her for a while... And of course keep looking for a replacement.
 

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Jesus christ and I thought I had some AFC issues -- look fux this picture talk! Are you all crazy?

1. She does meth.
2. She has a baby.
3. You are 1/2 others providing for her mentally/physically.

Just because you can't get laid for 1 fvcking day or 1 fvcking week doesn't mean you should spoil your dignity like this man -- it might even be worse than AFCism because at least chumps are in "love" and their little beating hearts is what keeps them throwing themselves into the fire again and again -- but man wtf are you doing? Don't you see this will be a bomb of an explosion when it does explode, and that is a certain when .

She may be a good fvck, but surely there has to be more to your standards than 100% physical...look at the mental-case you're getting yourself involved with. [and I hope you don't take this as being overly harsh...man I wish someone would have slapped some sense into me at times too!]
 

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Jesus christ and I thought I had some AFC issues -- look fux this picture talk! Are you all crazy?

1. She does meth.
2. She has a baby.
3. You are 1/2 others providing for her mentally/physically.

Just because you can't get laid for 1 fvcking day or 1 fvcking week doesn't mean you should spoil your dignity like this man -- it might even be worse than AFCism because at least chumps are in "love" and their little beating hearts is what keeps them throwing themselves into the fire again and again -- but man wtf are you doing? Don't you see this will be a bomb of an explosion when it does explode, and that is a certain when .

She may be a good fvck, but surely there has to be more to your standards than 100% physical...look at the mental-case you're getting yourself involved with. [and I hope you don't take this as being overly harsh...man I wish someone would have slapped some sense into me at times too!]
I understand man. If there was a quick way that I could flash her pic and you not be about to copy it, I'd let you get a glimpse on-line. I could even show you pvssy pics and vids of us fvcking. I have a new iphone4. Also, I think that she suspected that I was videoing us recently because in the video she popped up her head to look over at my phone which I had stood upright. But you know what? I don't think she minded. The video is dark though so, it's really worthless for porn purposes. We mostly do it with the lights off w/ always candles all over her place. Meth heads like it dark, I guess.

I hear what you're saying. And her life Is a mess. She has health problems (thick blood) because of the meth. I've given her apple cider vinegar to help thin her blood. She's Never let me down, man. ALL other women let me down after a couple of weeks it seems. They're too tied to their phones. They're tooo fvckin demanding. She's NOT demanding, like a guy she can relate. I told her last night (probably shouldn't have fvcking said it) that I like her the most because she gives me no bullsh!t. I shouldn't have fvckin said that even though it's true. You just don't Say anything about why you like a woman, and Certainly you don't say anything about why you Love a woman, as a DJ. I need to reign in my direct expression of her value to me. She doesn't need to know that, cause she'll just stick that in her hip pocket and USE that against me in the future, no matter the explanation of why I value her. I fvcked up by saying that last night. FOOL, I was.

Anyway, I'm getting with another on Friday for sure. Blonde, petite, same age as her, not a druggie as far as I can tell, and more normal by far. As far as sex goes, who knows? I intend to find out.

Saturday, I'm sure I'll try to get with the chick this post is based on. I know she wants to come to my place. It ain't happening. I wouldn't love her unless she tamed her wild side. She is Way wilder than I obviously, and way younger and careless, a fiery little flame, snake raptor. She blows my mind sexually. I've had none other.
 

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I understand man. If there was a quick way that I could flash her pic and you not be about to copy it, I'd let you get a glimpse on-line. I could even show you pvssy pics and vids of us fvcking. I have a new iphone4. Also, I think that she suspected that I was videoing us recently because in the video she popped up her head to look over at my phone which I had stood upright. But you know what? I don't think she minded. The video is dark though so, it's really worthless for porn purposes. We mostly do it with the lights off w/ always candles all over her place. Meth heads like it dark, I guess.

I hear what you're saying. And her life Is a mess. She has health problems (thick blood) because of the meth. I've given her apple cider vinegar to help thin her blood. She's Never let me down, man. ALL other women let me down after a couple of weeks it seems. They're too tied to their phones. They're tooo fvckin demanding. She's NOT demanding, like a guy she can relate. I told her last night (probably shouldn't have fvcking said it) that I like her the most because she gives me no bullsh!t. I shouldn't have fvckin said that even though it's true. You just don't Say anything about why you like a woman, and Certainly you don't say anything about why you Love a woman, as a DJ. I need to reign in my direct expression of her value to me. She doesn't need to know that, cause she'll just stick that in her hip pocket and USE that against me in the future, no matter the explanation of why I value her. I fvcked up by saying that last night. FOOL, I was.

Anyway, I'm getting with another on Friday for sure. Blonde, petite, same age as her, not a druggie as far as I can tell, and more normal by far. As far as sex goes, who knows? I intend to find out.

Saturday, I'm sure I'll try to get with the chick this post is based on. I know she wants to come to my place. It ain't happening. I wouldn't love her unless she tamed her wild side. She is Way wilder than I obviously, and way younger and careless, a fiery little flame, snake raptor. She blows my mind sexually. I've had none other.

Just post the pic please. I refuse to read anymore of your long winded posts until I see a pic.
 

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Sue Madre said:
Just post the pic please. I refuse to read anymore of your long winded posts until I see a pic.
He doesn't need to post a pic on some internet forum to prove himself.

I'd never post a pic of any gal I've dated on this forum. Some things, are good to keep to ourselves.

IE...this forum is not about proving ourselves to others...it's about us, building ourselves to be better men. We should be working together, in my opinion.
 
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