DasaniWater
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Hey guys .. i need your help. Well today at school, my girl friend got angry at me before it was lunch, because me and the deans assistant were joking around about having lunch together because it was her lunch break too, and we decided to go to red lobsters but it was just joke. my girl friend took it seriously i guess, and she just said ok have fun, and walked off. Well i waited about 30 seconds until i went and chased after her. I got outside and she was about 40 feet away from here near the lunch room , she had no idea i was behind her. Well this guy was there up against the wall and she was walking and he put his arms out to give him a hug and so she did. Well i really dont mind it when she hugs guys. Ok. so this is what happends. As they were hugging i get closer and i get there and now im about 5 feet away from her, with her back turned to me. she has no idea im standing behind her. The guy knows though, the guy was also with this one other chick. So it wasnt a big deal at all to me, i was just standing there waiting cus it was just a hug, nothing more. So i expected this hug to be over in about 4 seconds but no... they were hugging VERY close, her head was leaned up against his chest on the side of her face, and her eyes were even closed. I started to get really pissed off because their hug was lasting FOREVER. it probably went for about 30 seconds, i was shocked.. i was pissed as fck too. The only reason it ended then was because the girl that was there said, "her boy friend is right there" and then when my girl friend heard her say that, she began to "tap" his back (like she always taps my back when we hug and it makes me mad and i tell her) so then hes still huggin and finally lets go about 3 seconds later after she taps his back. So then thats it. i didnt make a big deal about it guys, i didnt make it to seem like i was jelous i played it cool. i started joking around with her afterwards, but the more i think about it, the more it just pisses me off adn i cant get over it so now we're fighting. I feel like i cant trust her and i also dont want to take her to the prom anymore... i just dont know what to do, is it right for me to feel this way?? i called her on the phone to ry to talk to her i told her i wanted to let her know how it made me feel and apparently it just made her mad and led her to hang up on me. so now we're having problems.. and now i feel kind of mad and feel a little heart broken from it. because the hug was just not right, its like he was her boy friend. it made me think how she use to have a crush on him last year, it made me think about how she never hugged me that good, because when she hugs me she always taps my back when i want a real hug like i try to hug her affectionately and she use to try to get me off her, or she taps my back, she stopped it thought after i complained so much. but still, she doesnt hug me as good as she hugged him..........even if its just a hug, we've been together for 6 months, this just made me feel really bad and angry at her, is it right for me to feel this way??........... so let me know plz.... what should i do?
