Because i haven't been in your situation yet i would like you to follow Atom Smasher's advice and set those boundaries. Take some form of action and let us know what happened because i think i can learn a valuable lesson out of your situation.49au said:So far she's called twice and sent 8 texts over the next hour.
She still pretends to have no idea why I'm turned off.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
A woman can say that all she wants, that doesn't mean I have to accept wh0rish behavior. She has the right to walk, but I have the right to reject bullsh!t like the above.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:No point in calling her out, all you will get is "we weren't exclusive" and "stop being so insecure"
Regardless, I'd been fvcking her and hanging out with her for 3 months. Does that give me the right to complete dominion over her? Hardly. But if she wants to spin other plates, it needs to be done discreetly and with respect.That being said - I made a joke last night about getting an island girl pregnant on my recent trip, and she said, "You cheated! You know I'll slice your balls off."
I smiled and told her that I'd like to see her try.
But what's significant about her use of the word "cheated" (even though she knew it was a joke), is it tells me that in her mind, we are exclusive. And if we're exclusive in her view, then she should not act that way.
OK, I misunderstood you then. I did keep my "breakup" voicemail very short, and ignored her calls/texts trying to get details (and argue points, I'm sure). All I really said was that she knows how I feel about respect, she openly disrespected me, and that is not something I'll tolerate. Then the usual crap about how I'm not mad, and we can still be friends, but the romantic part is done.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:I'm not saying you're wrong. You're not. That's just what the slvt will tell you if you call her out, so dont bother.
49au said:I've been seeing a girl for about 3 months now.
Then why are you getting all bent out of shape? She is just your fvck buddy.....so she should be treated as such!!49au said:She is not my girlfriend, as I said, I've avoided putting a label on it.