Feeling after 3-some

[joekerr31]

And those men are in the minority because evolution has selected against such stupid behavior. That's also why most men find such behavior disgusting: Nature has beaten into us just how important ensuring paternaty is.

which goes back to my original explanation as to why these behaviors occur. men have desensitized themselves to regular sex through overexposure to porn. the same can be said about women as well.

as a result regular sex starts to seem boring. the 'rush' just isn't what it use to be. so people start getting in to fetishes, because they are novel. they start out with some light fetishes, but they too become boring after a while.

to get that 'rush', that 'high', they have to move on to more hardcore fetishes. and before you know it a couple is picking up a total stranger in a bar, taking him back to their hotel room, and having a three some.

just like a drug, some people habituate to sex too easily and they have to up the dosage. but with sex the human body can only up the dosage so much (you can only have so much sex) - so instead they have to try new forms of sex (like taking new forms of drugs).

to be honest, as 'fun' as people engaging in this behavior like to make it sound, i just see it as an addict searching for their next high.

and just like drug addicts take crazy risks chasing after that high, people take crazy risks searching for that sexual high.

some guys see no big deal about this story of a threesome. personally, a LOT could have gone wrong. this guy did not know this couple and vice versa. he could have gotten drugged or beaten up and his money stolen. he could have exposed himself to all kinds of STDs (lets face it, these people were in to risky sexual behavior and he was likely NOT the first stranger they have been with).

but as always, its a personal choice. if people get a high out of playing russian roullette, who am i to tell them they can't.

 

[logic1]

some guys see no big deal about this story of a threesome. personally, a LOT could have gone wrong. this guy did not know this couple and vice versa. he could have gotten drugged or beaten up and his money stolen. he could have exposed himself to all kinds of STDs (lets face it, these people were in to risky sexual behavior and he was likely NOT the first stranger they have been with).

Joeker31, I think the statement above is what is bothering me. I know deep down inside it was stupid to do what I did. I allowed a piece of *ss to cloud my judgment. I thought I had more disipline about myself than to take the risk I did. I believe now it was more than stupid and was most likely the reasons I had reservations about it. My gut was talking but I was not listening.

I know I learned a valuble lesson.

Thanks for your advice.

 

[MacAvoy]

some guys see no big deal about this story of a threesome. personally, a LOT could have gone wrong. this guy did not know this couple and vice versa. he could have gotten drugged or beaten up and his money stolen. he could have exposed himself to all kinds of STDs (lets face it, these people were in to risky sexual behavior and he was likely NOT the first stranger they have been with).

The exact same thing is true of ANY one night stand. Let's not start spewing catholism propoganda about the dangers of inappropriate sexual behaviour and that people who live that lifestyle are demented on the verge of falling into the hands of the devil.

 

[joekerr31]

The exact same thing is true of ANY one night stand. Let's not start spewing catholism propoganda about the dangers of inappropriate sexual behaviour and that people who live that lifestyle are demented on the verge of falling into the hands of the devil.

haha who said anything about the devil.

like i say, if someone wants to play russian roullette, who am i to say they can't.

BUT if someone comes to me saying 'should i play russian roullette?" or "how come it feels strange to play russian roullette?" i'll try my best to enlighten them based on my perspective.

its all fun and games until it burns to pee.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I miss being a manipulated 20 year old boy toy.

I'm not going to miss it at all. Trust me!

 

[MacAvoy]

Joker, so are you tellin me that picking up women at a bar is akin to playing russian roulette?

 

[STR8UP]

its all fun and games until it burns to pee.

Hahaha....never experienced that burning sensation myself, knock on wood.

I understand that certain people are at higher risk for STD's and such, but I think a lot of people from our generation still have the AIDS scare BS in the back of their minds that prevents them from having fun.

It just seems like a lot of guys think that they can spot a girl that is "safe" compared to one that's gonna give them cooties. People DON'T have built in STD scanners that allow them to look at a chick or talk to her for a few minutes and determine whether or not she is safe.

I would be willing to bet that if you REALLY KNEW the kinds of behaviors most "good" girls engage in behind closed doors, you would be reluctant to stick your willy in there too. Some people just put on a better front than others.

Now if you're gonna engage in unprotected sexual activity with a heroin junkie prostitute, you DESERE to have your d!ck fall off. But really, are you guys THAT scared of having sex?

 

[Bible_Belt]

My std theory is that std likelihood varies most directly in proportion to attractiveness, because attractiveness leads to sex, and sex leads to STDs.