Feel like I'm not good enough for girls until I buy my Bentley

[RichardTheFrog]

I was going to buy an old BMW Z4 convertible but when I saw it, it just wasn't enough for me. I need a really cool car to show off my "rich guy" persona. I might even get it in some peacocked color like blue, green, or burnt orange.

What does this say about me, by the way?

I feel like I'm not living up to my full potential without this and that it will drastically increase my success with women.

 

[Billtx49]

What does this say about me, by the way?

Sounds like you have zero confidence in yourself and your abilities.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Sounds like you have zero confidence in yourself and your abilities.

How's that? I have confidence in certain things like my ability in the bedroom. Are you saying confident guys don't drive cool cars? I lack confidence that I could start or maintain a decent conversation. I have confidence in my ability to purchase, rehab, and sell houses for profit.

I don't want to start another debate about some guys wanting to rely on money while others say it doesn't matter.

 

[Billtx49]

Troll

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Troll

Maybe you're just not as cool as me and/or don't have enough life experience to have answers to my questions.

Are you a college kid living in a dorm or something similar? (PS: I don't actually care. You don't have to answer the question.)

 

[BeExcellent]

What are you hoping to accomplish and what are your goals with women?

Serious question.

I'm a real estate investor among other things. If you are flipping a house you have a well defined target market and you know not to over improve for the price point.

Dating is not all that different. However I will say this: higher value women who are accustomed to high value men will see through a "persona" in about a half second. If you are not congruent across the board you'll accomplish little more than looking ridiculous.

You need to feel "good enough" without all the fluff. Otherwise the fluff is an obvious band aid for insecurity. Women smell it a mile away and the sincere ones are put off by it.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

One guy was sitting on the park bench, waiting for his buddy, who was late. Finally the guy shows up wearing a tuxedo.

First guy asks him what the deal is. Why he's wearing the tux.

"I'm going to get a vasectomy" he says.

What the f??? other guy asks.

"If I'm gonna be impotent, I'm gonna look impotent..."

</joke>

carry on...

 

[RichardTheFrog]

What are you hoping to accomplish and what are your goals with women?

Serious question.

I'm a real estate investor among other things. If you are flipping a house you have a well defined target market and you know not to over improve for the price point.

Dating is not all that different. However I will say this: higher value women who are accustomed to high value men will see through a "persona" in about a half second. If you are not congruent across the board you'll accomplish little more than looking ridiculous.

You need to feel "good enough" without all the fluff. Otherwise the fluff is an obvious band aid for insecurity. Women smell it a mile away and the sincere ones are put off by it.

Honestly, I'm pretty sure I want to have children. However, I'm not sure that many girls these days are worth having children with.

I'm not sure what you mean by "higher value women." I have seen a lot of girls who ASSUME that they are high value, but in my eyes, they don't have a lot of substance to back that up. If they "look good" and make a living by walking 3 feet and filling up people's drinks, that is not enough for me to consider them high value.

In my eyes, it's like a majority of girls have a mental disorder where they think they are worth more than all the gold in the world despite very little to back this up.

I think the Bentley is just to put me over the top. Notice I went for the bottom-of-the-barrel $40,000 used Bentley (as far as luxury cars go) as opposed to a $150,000+ Lamborghini or Ferrari or something even more ridiculous like a McLaren or Bugatti.

I wouldn't be worried about people think I'm covering up insecurities by driving a Bentley. My d!ck works just fine (I have an implant, actually) and I can **** for as long as I want to. I've had enough sex that I'm not desperate to go home with anyone and everyone. I'd be more worried about safety. Other guys don't like me enough for me to be peacocking like that.

I am fully aware that I'm going to die someday and there is no getting around the fact that the purpose of life is to pass on your genes.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

To each his own. If that's what it takes for you to go out there and be somebody knock yourself out. Gotta remember though they are selling it for a reason, hope you stacked some chips for the maintenance it's about to need like timing chain, brakes, tires etc. Cars are like women the only real winner is the first owner after that its headache and heartache unless it's a classic and a passion.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

To each his own. If that's what it takes for you to go out there and be somebody knock yourself out. Gotta remember though they are selling it for a reason, hope you stacked some chips for the maintenance it's about to need like timing chain, brakes, tires etc. Cars are like women the only real winner is the first owner after that its headache and heartache unless it's a classic and a passion.

I don't know what else would put me over the top besides showing off wealth that I'm making from flipping houses.

It's certainly not my conversational skills and I'm definitely not gonna get them by being a thug.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

I don't know what else would put me over the top besides showing off wealth that I'm making from flipping houses.

It's certainly not my conversational skills and I'm definitely not gonna get them by being a thug.

If your credits on par and it should be since your flipping reality and your paper is as deep as you say just go lease a 2017 Bentley for 2 years turn it back in in 2019 .Use the payments as a tax cost of doing business write off. And save the headache of maintenance. Check with your CPA first

 

[BeExcellent]

Higher value women are the ones every man wants. The ones with the most choices. When you have endless choice you have the luxury of sorting based on values, since appearance based criteria is a given. So if a woman who is very sought after picks the richest man available that tells you about her values, if a very sought after woman picks a man based on compatibility that tells you something about her values.

If you jazz it up with a car that says you are the richest (nobody ever assumes you got your Bently used & only paid 40K *which is silly in my mind because maintanence is going to cost you 12-15K annually...never mind your insurance costs*) then you are filtering for women whose values align with wanting the richest man...and they will bail when they find out you bought it used and can't really afford it new.

Gold diggers might be Ok if like the high end car, you can afford one.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If your credits on par and it should be since your flipping reality and your paper is as deep as you say just go lease a 2017 Bentley for 2 years turn it back in in 2019 .Use the payments as a tax cost of doing business write off. And save the headache of maintenance. Check with your CPA first

Higher value women are the ones every man wants. The ones with the most choices. When you have endless choice you have the luxury of sorting based on values, since appearance based criteria is a given. So if a woman who is very sought after picks the richest man available that tells you about her values, if a very sought after woman picks a man based on compatibility that tells you something about her values.

If you jazz it up with a car that says you are the richest (nobody ever assumes you got your Bently used & only paid 40K *which is silly in my mind because maintanence is going to cost you 12-15K annually...never mind your insurance costs*) then you are filtering for women whose values align with wanting the richest man...and they will bail when they find out you bought it used and can't really afford it new.

Gold diggers might be Ok if like the high end car, you can afford one.

Just because a lot of guys like a girl doesn't mean she has value. Any dumb slut can put on a tight dress and be sought after by hundreds of guys.

I'm struggling to see the value in any female. But there's enough guys that will inflate their egos that it's impossible to get them back down to reality that they're the weaker gender and not really worth that much.

 

[SmooveMooves]

You are gonna be so hurt when you cop that Bentley and you are still lonely.

Bítches won't just start falling from trees cause' you got a new car.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You are gonna be so hurt when you cop that Bentley and you are still lonely.

Bítches won't just start falling from trees cause' you got a new car.

Have you ever noticed that the girl in your picture isn't even hot? I can only imagine what the ogres you talk to in real life look like.

 

[bigneil]

...And that's just the typical mechanical aspects of an older car.

Older luxury vehicles are far worse because all of the things that make them luxurious will constantly have to be fixed as well. If you're not capable of dropping a minimum of $500-1000+ to fix each and every one of these things as they fail, then it will feel no different than driving around in a 15 year old Chevy.

I bought a brand new BMW in 1997 and drove it until 2014. It cost $700 per month on average to keep it. That's average. That's with my putting countless hours in (I had to become a car mechanic to keep it - they charge you $350 to change a bulb at the shop, and will break two other things and change the wrong bulb half the time - cars are supposed to be made by machines, not men. Men mess them up when they have to tinker with them). So every 4 months you'd need to do a $3000 repair job. I got a Hyundai lease and it cost $300 or $400 per month. They never broke down and had to go to Hyundai - once - in 40 months. The BMW had all sorts of issues and it was a nightmare being a the repair shop. It's bunch of other pretentious ass-holes pissed off that their car broke down too.

Then I got arrested for racing on the highway and was actually on Cops, and my boss saw it and fired me on account of it, and I had to face a year in jail, and had to wear an orange jumpsuit and do community service in the small town where my boss lived and my work was, and go to a meeting during rush hour that if I missed meant I would go to jail, and my new job kept me late on my first day and it was the worst experience of my life.

Meanwhile, women stopped liking my car by 1999. They know what Kelley Blue Book is. They want you to drive a car worth a lot to be impressed, not a car that used to be worth a lot. Plus, it only impresses them if they think you are hot and then that only lasts until you get to your house. The type of girl who would date a guy for his car is the type that will dump you once they see your crappy apartment.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Have you ever noticed that the girl in your picture isn't even hot? I can only imagine what the ogres you talk to in real life look like.

Bahaha. You just explained to everyone how you believe the only way you can get women is certainly not with your conversation skills but a Bentley. You have absolutely no confidence in yourself and I'd bet money that the only way you get that insecure díck wet is when chop out $300-400 on prostitutes. Men like you DESTINED to pay for pūssy. Whether that be with a bentley or cash.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I bought a brand new BMW in 1997 and drove it until 2014. It cost $700 per month on average to keep it. That's average. That's with my putting countless hours in (I had to become a car mechanic to keep it - they charge you $350 to change a bulb at the shop, and will break two other things and change the wrong bulb half the time - cars are supposed to be made by machines, not men. Men mess them up when they have to tinker with them). So every 4 months you'd need to do a $3000 repair job. I got a Hyundai lease and it cost $300 or $400 per month. They never broke down and had to go to Hyundai - once - in 40 months. The BMW had all sorts of issues and it was a nightmare being a the repair shop. It's bunch of other pretentious ass-holes pissed off that their car broke down too.

Meanwhile, women stopped liking my car by 1999. They know what Kelley Blue Book is. They want you to drive a car worth a lot to be impressed, not a car that used to be worth a lot. Plus, it only impresses them if they think you are hot and then that only lasts until you get to your house. The type of girl who would date a guy for his car is the type that will dump you once they see your crappy apartment.

Okay but I have a house, not an apartment. I'm not wanting someone to "date" me because of a car. I'm just trying to maximize my personality. What good is making a decent amount of money if I'm driving a 20 year old pickup with no a/c? I have to think of SOMETHING so that I don't just blend in with the crowd.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Bahaha. You just explained to everyone how you believe the only way you can get women is certainly not with your conversation skills but a Bentley. You have absolutely no confidence in yourself and I'd bet money that the only way you get that insecure díck wet is when chop out $300-400 on prostitutes. Men like you DESTINED to pay for pūssy. Whether that be with a bentley or cash.

I have a long distance girlfriend who is coming to stay with me for 2 weeks beginning on the 13th of this month.

And you must have missed my thread about hot girls approaching me.

I'm pretty sure you're a broke college kid or something similar so I'm not too worried about your opinions based on virtually zero life experience.

 

[bigneil]

Okay but I have a house, not an apartment. I'm not wanting someone to "date" me because of a car. I'm just trying to maximize my personality. What good is making a decent amount of money if I'm driving a 20 year old pickup with no a/c? I have to think of SOMETHING so that I don't just blend in with the crowd.

Do note that a nice apartment trumps a crappy house, but I'm sure yours is nice, and you get the point.

Well, if you are the type who likes to crawl under the car on hot asphalt and change the transmission fluid yourself, women do indeed love men who can fix cars. It's a great hobby. I kept my car all stock and it had every upgrade. Vader seats, in dash CD (it came with cassette originally), threaded steering wheel, carbon fiber trim, metal pedals. I loved that car like a family member for 18 seasons. It saw 33 states (all with the same gray cat).


Her name was Emily.