Feel like calling.. need advice

[Warpal]

if ego stands between you and whatever you want to do , then is a stupid ego .

there is nothing wrong in doing whatever it is possible , without giving the vibe of a needy guy , and failing.

actually the reason that you fail is because most likely you will do mistakes that will be corrected when dealing with future women.

when you want to get good with girls , for sure you will also do some things that are not ok , but you will learn from them . There is no easy way if you go on the path of the master

Dont you think the perception is different for women. Especially everything is almost digital. No body language or frame

 

[Bigpapa]

Dont you think the perception is different for women. Especially everything is almost digital. No body language or frame

not really mate

ylu might like it or not , but it is your job to command the ship through **** weather , as she is just a follower . Women just want to follow , and are super happy when they only Do that

 

[Warpal]

lol. i responded with: make it up with me and bring my stuff. come friday im free. She answerd: im not availebe on friday. I say: then pick a date tell me and i say if i can. She responded with: What do you want to do then?

 

[bcude]

You're chasing her. She doesn't desire you, that's all you need to know.
Stop communicating with her and move on before you lose all your dignity.

 

[flowtheory]

lol. i responded with: make it up with me and bring my stuff. come friday im free. She answerd: im not availebe on friday. I say: then pick a date tell me and i say if i can. She responded with: What do you want to do then?

She’s not complying with anything you’re saying or making anything easy and smooth. No alternate date.

She doesn’t have interest in you.

Any more chasing I think you’ll just regret it and feel bad about yourself. Strongest thing you can do now is walk away.

 

[Warpal]

i dont feel anything about it.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

You're coming off really desperate there bro. Shouldn't have contacted her. But since you did that you should've stopped and vanished forever after she said she wasn't available but you also didn't do that. You're one of those people who we can advice forever but you'll always do what you want because you're lying to yourself.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

i dont feel anything about it.

Neither does she. That's the whole point.

 

[Bigpapa]

lol. i responded with: make it up with me and bring my stuff. come friday im free. She answerd: im not availebe on friday. I say: then pick a date tell me and i say if i can. She responded with: What do you want to do then?

man , you are playing games with her , and she plays it back to you .

Playing games with girls leads no where

 

[Warpal]

im not lying to myself. i know there is no interrest. i know im playing a game. just wanted to see what happens for experience

 

[Bigpapa]

im not lying to myself. i know there is no interrest. i know im playing a game. just wanted to see what happens for experience

here is where you get it wrong .In order to actually get experience , you need to learn to be manly and not playing games . To seduce a woman is different than playing games with her .

to be frank I do not see any lack of interest from her side , I just see a woman who just sits in stand by and wait for you to take charge

You only get to see it she is interested or not by talking a little bit with her , and then you make plans to see each other

I see a lot of guys saying that she is not interested , which might or might not be legit in your case , but in the same time it is a little bit to early based on your interaction to be certain about it .

if you see a girl and tell her to see each other out of the bloom , unless she is madly attracted to you ( which is rarely the case ) , she will be just washy washy with you , as it is the case with this girl

 

[Warpal]

here is where you get it wrong .In order to actually get experience , you need to learn to be manly and not playing games . To seduce a woman is different than playing games with her .

to be frank I do not see any lack of interest from her side , I just see a woman who just sits in stand by and wait for you to take charge

You only get to see it she is interested or not by talking a little bit with her , and then you make plans to see each other

I see a lot of guys saying that she is not interested , which might or might not be legit in your case , but in the same time it is a little bit to early based on your interaction to be certain about it .

if you see a girl and tell her to see each other out of the bloom , unless she is madly attracted to you ( which is rarely the case ) , she will be just washy washy with you , as it is the case with this girl

oke, i understand. I just responded with her: bring my stuff and we will get a drink at my place. She responed back: if i can borrow a car i will come.

i find it funny to see, when im giving decisive "orders" she budges more. it's still an if but yeah.

i saw this happening more with women i quited. when i'm being decisive, they just budge and do eventually what i want.

One time i dated a girl. In the end she doesnt want to see me anymore. couple of months past and i just go for it again, being decisive. eventually she just wanted me again.

apologies for my bad english. just wanted to share experiences.

 

[Bigpapa]

oke, i understand. I just responded with her: bring my stuff and we will get a drink at my place. She responed back: if i can borrow a car i will come.

i find it funny to see, when im giving decisive "orders" she budges more. it's still an if but yeah.

i saw this happening more with women i quited. when i'm being decisive, they just budge and do eventually what i want.

One time i dated a girl. In the end she doesnt want to see me anymore. couple of months past and i just go for it again, being decisive. eventually she just wanted me again.

apologies for my bad english. just wanted to share experiences.

well your past experience is telling you the same thing I am telling you , so it might just be something there that might be worth exploring more

 

[King Lion]

Let the man figure things out for himself. Stop telling him what to think or do.
He knows the risks, just like any intelligent man does.

Let men evaluate life and things for themselves. If there’s mistakes to be made...let them be made. You are not saving anyone from anything.

True, but some muhfuggas need all the help they can get.

 

[King Lion]

True but those things are said within the first ten posts. Trying to micro manage it and analyze every single little thing doesn’t really help. It hinders the flow of thinking.

I hear ya.

 

[Exil]

like showing unannounced at her door? Hug/ kiss her saying I want you. ?

Definitely don't do this. My advice to you is never go back but if you're absolutely certain you can't kick your oneitis for this girl then this is what you must do;

1) No contact - this isn't the 30 day no contact b's you see on YouTube. This is indefinite no contact initiated by you. No texting, emailing, calling, stalking (online or otherwise).

2) level yourself up - work out, eat better, become wealthier. Read, write, learn.

3) date other women - essential. This builds confidence and self-esteem. Don't be a d1ck about it and post this all over social media as it'll just make you look weak and like you're trying to get to her.

4) find a way to showcase how much you've grown in a covert way. Never directly tell her anything about your life but if a mutual friend were to drop it in conversation that you're smashing it at the moment, that would more than likely do the trick.

5) if she's still your mental point of origin, this needs to change or you'll get her back but on her terms and in her frame. Not a place you want to be.

Note - This can't just be an act. This must be genuine change and the bonus is, once you do the steps above, you'll most likely realise that she was the one punching anyway and you won't even want her back anymore then you go and find someone better/hotter/more fun anyway.

But personally, I'd disregard all the blue pill "advice" I just wrote and move on.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Perhaps the most important truth of all...

“women will NEVER become better women through any form of legislation or enforcement. They need to be rejected as woman and human beings within the context of relationships. Government is incapable of fixing anything. Only men can fix the world and this includes women.”

Makes sense