SandHawk said:
So, you're saying you can get a BJ from this girl, but yet you've failed to get laid in a long time? I doubt you'd be getting anything out of her, because your game is crap.
Exactly what I was thinking when I first read his post. Girls, online or off-line don't give blow jobs to guys with no game or guys they're not attracted to.
An average looking broad online can afford to be somewhat selective online and offline. Just check out things at a club or bar. This broad can afford to be picky, as she gets messaged online, and gets enough guys interested in her offline, just because she is a woman.
SandHawk said:
Drop POF dating, drop the whale and work on your game, personality and starting working out. Go out in real life,
Right, for the most part. OP, you will need to work on all those things to get women anywhere. Just because you are online does not mean you get to be picky and selective, if you have no game. I suggest you do not try online until you get the ball rolling on the stuff SandHawk mentioned.
SandHawk said:
online dating is for 45+ year olds or losers.
Wrong. I know plenty of loosers who don't do online dating. There are as many loosers offline trying to get dates/laid; case in point, the people who start threads here with this type of stuff. Loosers don't succeed at online dating, or any kind of dating, for that matter. I know because plenty of attractive women I've met online and offline, always tell me about the countless loosers they've meat online, and how bad they are, yet there was a reason why they tried online dating to begin with. They were tired of the loosers offline too. If you have game and know how to take it online, you will have your pick online too.