I am writing this because in weird way I trust you fukers. I need to vent. I have come a long way since I joined 2008. I grew up on this site. Since 2008 I have become more spiritual and improved a lot ( partially thanks to this site). I have learned the meaning of love and how to be more chill and empathetic.
My father however has been an evil bastard since I was born. You wont believe the physical and mental abuse he put me and mother through. This is why I became obsessed with martial arts as an adult. I never want to be a victim again. In the last year or so my mother finally filed for divorce. He was planning on divorcing her and running off to Africa with his many women waiting for him ( we also find out that I have a sibling that I didnt know about for decades). He was planning on cleaning the accounts and leaving her penniless. She beat him to the punch and filed for divorce. Now he is out for blood.
My mother moved in with me and I am helping her pay her legal fees. It is very draining but its my mother and I have her back until the end. Divorces suck. He is making it a point to drag on the case as long as possible. This guy is doing everything to stall. He is refusing summons etc. He has a quite sizable nest egg that he does not want to split. Paid off house worth alot etc.
As a hippie I denied the presence of evil. I just thought that evil was just people misunderstood. I have no real conflicts with anyone else in my life. Most people can be reasoned with on some level. My father has made me realize that some people can not be reasoned with. No matter how much empathy you try to give them they will choose chaos. It is really shaking the foundations of my spiritual base. I thought hurt people hurt people. Now I see that some people just like to hurt people.
Have you guys encountered people like this?
My father however has been an evil bastard since I was born. You wont believe the physical and mental abuse he put me and mother through. This is why I became obsessed with martial arts as an adult. I never want to be a victim again. In the last year or so my mother finally filed for divorce. He was planning on divorcing her and running off to Africa with his many women waiting for him ( we also find out that I have a sibling that I didnt know about for decades). He was planning on cleaning the accounts and leaving her penniless. She beat him to the punch and filed for divorce. Now he is out for blood.
My mother moved in with me and I am helping her pay her legal fees. It is very draining but its my mother and I have her back until the end. Divorces suck. He is making it a point to drag on the case as long as possible. This guy is doing everything to stall. He is refusing summons etc. He has a quite sizable nest egg that he does not want to split. Paid off house worth alot etc.
As a hippie I denied the presence of evil. I just thought that evil was just people misunderstood. I have no real conflicts with anyone else in my life. Most people can be reasoned with on some level. My father has made me realize that some people can not be reasoned with. No matter how much empathy you try to give them they will choose chaos. It is really shaking the foundations of my spiritual base. I thought hurt people hurt people. Now I see that some people just like to hurt people.
Have you guys encountered people like this?