Kev07 said:
I was fat at one point in my life, actually since I was born until sophomore year in high school.
I just said fvck it, I'm sick of being fat and weak and iw orked my ass off freshman year of high school, it worked
Yeah I've seen a couple pics you posted a while back. I wouldn't call you huge though, mainly my post was ranted for very fat people that require a LOT of hard work to lose weight and become reasonably thin. The harder it is to lose weight the less likely you are going to lose it, unless you do some kind of surgery.
Francisco I actually wrote you a long reply last night but accidentally shut the window before I could get a chance to submit. I'm still pretty pissed about it and don't feel like writing it again; but for the record I never said fat people should sit home in front of the TV with a box of M&Ms doing nothing to help their situation.
The way I see it like I said is more of a mental issue than a physical. Sure there are fat people who don't give a crap whether they're fat or not, or care about their life, they just sit home and eat waiting for the time they pass out for good, but I know people who do try but get depressed, disappointed eventually. Let's face that being fat is not easy to all of a sudden change your life style and hit the gym. I have a friend who is fat and recently I told him to hit the gym with me and I'd give him a hand and guide him a bit, yet he didn't want to come reason being that he'd be "different" than the bodybuilders in the gym, and that he couldn't take it with people "looking at him" while trying to lift a weight. Ok I'm not saying he has a point, but that alone just goes to show you how insecure fat people are.
To lose all the desired weight off your body you need will power and self discipline, which is something most fat people lack. Most fat people have mental issues for not having many friends, not having a gf, people who criticize them harshly (ehem..) or even injuries from the past when their childhood friends would make fun of them.
My point is...in order to lose weight you need a STRONG PERSONALITY that is willing to stick to his program, not caring what other people think. Well that is where the biggest problem lies!! It takes a stronger character to hit the gym and eat healthier when all of his life he did the exact opposite than to open the fridge. And
most fat people aren't strong enough mentally to have the will power. Which is why they became like this in the first place.
I'm not defending them, I know they did a lot of mistakes in the past, but as far as I'm concerned you cant get into a time machine and change the past...whats done is done. What matters is the future and what they're about to do about their problem from now on. And unless they start to improve their inner self issues they probably will never become thin. But don't anyone think that fat people don't care. I can assure you that the majority of fat people is very depressed with their body behind closed doors, and unfortunately for them they don't have enough strength to do what's necessary. On top of that, people keep criticizing them and making threads on online forums of how annoying they are. Believe me, it doesn't help nor improves their situation.