Fat dudes/ugly guys DON'T get attractive women

[Belmar2009]

Unless.......they have money/and or status.

Some people on this board and the "dating experts" claim looks don't matter.

This is easily refuted when out in public when you see fat guys with GUESS WHAT?

.....Other Ugly Fat women!!

Honestly how often do you see an out of shape guy with an attractive women. VERY RARELY!!

They are usually with the mediocre and good looking guys.

All you FAT DJ'S, quit kidding yourself you will get a cute/hot chick on confidence and game alone.....IT WON'T HAPPEN until you get yourself to the gym and change your diet to lose that lard.

 

[Kal0051]

"dating experts" claim that guys like that can get girl because that's how they sell their "dating advice". It's a business plain and simple and some guys are willing to pay for it.

 

[FairShake]

Lose weight, get money/status then.

Who cares what a bunch of random douchebags on the internetz think? Go out and find your own path.

 

[Cinamon]

Fat ugly guys do get hot chicks. Its a combination of having confidence, attitude, social status and money. Just depends on the moral and social quality of woman you get. If your fat, ugly and rich you can pull a gold digging hot chick, if you stand out for your ethics, morals, etc you can get a hippy hot chick. It depends on what the woman is looking for.... just never forget..... you always have to smell nice. No one wants to be with the smelly guy, whether he's hot or not.

 

[She_feelin_Me]

Hell wrong with the thread starter...I have seen plenty of dudes overweight or ugly as you say pull the baddest broads because they had a mouthpiece on them...

 

[scrouds]

As a "Fat DJ" as you put it, I have something to say.

I've gotten hot women on confidence and game alone.
I've also been shut out by hot women on looks alone.

But, seriously, keep generalizing all hot women, it always works out right.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I'm still waiting for someone to link me to an online dating site that specifically caters to smoking hot women seeking BBM (big beautiful men). Hot women seeking rich executives, yes, hot women who are "chubby chasers" not so much,..

Your bulletproof game and charming personality wont make you look any better with your shirt off.

 

[Duffdog]

I'm still waiting for someone to link me to an online dating site that specifically caters to smoking hot women seeking BBM (big beautiful men). Hot women seeking rich executives, yes, hot women who are "chubby chasers" not so much,..

Your bulletproof game and charming personality wont make you look any better with your shirt off.

Thats cuz there aren't any. How about this. Whomever claims that they "hookup with hot chics" while being disgustingly obese needs to post pictures. I for one have never seen a fat dude date a hot chick in MY ENTIRE LIFE...AND I AM A F$%KING PHOTOGRAPHER!! What I have seen is hot girls "with" disgusting guys who are their "friends"... standing next to a hot girl does not equal dating her. I have NO problems with flat out asking people what their status is when I am out taking pictures. And I have asked several times, trust me. Although it comes across as super shallow, you will often see me straight up asking the girl is she is dating the chump guy next to her. At no time in my life did the girl ever enthusiastically say "Yeah! He's my boyfriend!"

It hasn't ever happened. Most likely because it doesn't exist in real life-- if it does, please just show me one candid non-staged photo to back up the claims that "it happens all the time." I would really like to see some examples of it.

 

[eaglez1177]

I agree with the OP, i've never seen a fat/ugly guy (who isnt extremely rich or of very high social status) dating a hot woman in my entire life.

 

[Kal0051]

well, I did see one really fat guy in a club with a hot chick. But I'm fairly certain she was a prostitute.

 

[ElGuapo]

I agree, if you're extremely ugly or very overweight, it will be tougher to get girls. But a lot of the guys on this forum aren't actually fat or very ugly. Many of them are average or above average looking.

Most guys aren't particularly good looking and most aren't really ugly either. Obviously, there are some guys out there will six pack abs and a million dollar smile who do very well with the ladies. A friend of mine always has girls hit on him. But then there are other guys who don't stand out as good looking (maybe above average) who pull lots of tail because of other traits that set them apart.

 

[ElGuapo]

double post

 

[cola]

Well, my opinion is if you have a cute face and maybe just a little belly pudge then it may not be a big setback. But ofcourse no 5'6 350 lb guy is getting a ten. I am on the thick side but i also have broad shoulders and could pass for a workout guy.. Something like a heavyweight boxer or ufc heavyweight.. I think sloppy guys dont get hot girls obese is a broad term.. You can be 250lb of solid rock muscle and still be obese according to bmi. But im more curious as to your motivation for posting this.. Why do u care so much?

 

[IKO69]

Of course. Conversely fat women can often get guys. Check out the internet there is a fetish for that sort of thing. Further proof of the limited options the average guy has.

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

Have you seen the size of Sean Kingston? You don't think he's banging 10's?

 

[Ganondorf]

My manager at the store i work at is a Fat guy, and i've seen his wife

She is smokin hot.

He has not "status" (really, lol a grocery store manager?) and no money or fame, yet still got her. They bang every night i'm told

so your argument is wrong

some women do have a fetish for fat guys. Said managers wife even wants him to get Bigger lol

 

[bukowski_merit]

By and large - you are correct. I don't think "most" attractive women actively pursue or dream of fat men... Unless we're talking the fat biker gang types, but that's more about their bayboyness....

However, it can happen.

I know 2 really fat guys who seem to do alright though...

1 covered in tattoos who's a DJ (music) ... dude probably is close to 400 lbs... and everytime i see him HE HAS THE HOTTEST GIRL IN THE CLUB WITH HIM.... he's not a known DJ, and i have other DJ friends who suck at pulling women... But i think it gives him a way in the door, and he KNOWs how to take advantage of his look and his position... his game is remarkable (i've never heard him say anything corny to a woman he was gaming)...

The other guy, i can't figure out... he lives in a small house, doesn't have much of a job... hangs out with a bunch of gamers who sit around all day and play video games... and yet, he always has a hot woman with him... they tend to not stick around long, once they see how he is all the time... but he's pretty solid at pulling them...


but besides these 2 guys - i know about 20 fat guys who suck at life and women...


looks matter more when you're in a club/bar and approaching a woman who's in a group setting... it also matters a lot online... just about everywhere else - it's not really an issue....

all your personality needs is a chance to get through... looks make that chance come a lot easier...

 

[Mofongo]

Real story:
Back in 1990 when I was in high school I met this guy who was about 5 foot 9 and about 300 lbs, ugly face and obese, he used to wear special undershirts because of his breasts. He was the first one too hook up with a girl from all of the guys that where hanging out in that group, she was petite, shy and church going, I would rate her a 6, not bad for my friend, not bad for any of us in the group. I kept my eyes and ears on alert to all that he was talking about to the girls, he had many girlfriends during the first few months of high school, all of the girls liked him, soon he started getting 7's and 8's as friends. Back then almost no one in my area had computers or money to order seduction techniques books so this guy knew alot of stuff and ways to talk to the girls and he had all the confidence, Some times he would tell us that he was going to be right back, that he was going to talk to that girl over there (an 8 or 9) and we would giggle and look at each other thinking "is this guy crazy?" And sure thing, he would come back with a date for the next day. After a while we never saw him because he was always with women.
After all of these years I found him in face book and all of his hundreds of female friends and photos of him with 10's and photos of the kids he has had with a few of them. I have admired this guy since I met him because he could be trying to sell you a bucket of poop and you would buy it and be happy about it. He doesn't remember me but I have sent him a few messages and hopefully he will tell me how he was doing it . One thing I remember was when someone made fun of him for being fat or ugly he never acknowledge the person, not even look in the direction of the person teasing him and he would keep on talking to the girl and she wouldnt even look at the teaser as well. Once I get the info that I need I will post it here.

 

[Soprano]

is there a point to this thread? you should always be at least making somewhat of an effort to be healthy in the interest of living a long life, but that doesn't mean you should stop hitting on hot girls in the meantime if you are out of shape lol. im a big dude and i just find ways to use it to my advantage. adapt to what you've got. in the case of being overweight, you only have to adapt to it until you drop it.

the threadstarter is obviously pissed off or disgruntled about something that happened to him lol dont pay him any mind. but having said that it is definitely a good idea to work out.

 

[Prodigy746]

Real story:
Back in 1990 when I was in high school I met this guy who was about 5 foot 9 and about 300 lbs, ugly face and obese, he used to wear special undershirts because of his breasts. He was the first one too hook up with a girl from all of the guys that where hanging out in that group, she was petite, shy and church going, I would rate her a 6, not bad for my friend, not bad for any of us in the group. I kept my eyes and ears on alert to all that he was talking about to the girls, he had many girlfriends during the first few months of high school, all of the girls liked him, soon he started getting 7's and 8's as friends. Back then almost no one in my area had computers or money to order seduction techniques books so this guy knew alot of stuff and ways to talk to the girls and he had all the confidence, Some times he would tell us that he was going to be right back, that he was going to talk to that girl over there (an 8 or 9) and we would giggle and look at each other thinking "is this guy crazy?" And sure thing, he would come back with a date for the next day. After a while we never saw him because he was always with women.
After all of these years I found him in face book and all of his hundreds of female friends and photos of him with 10's and photos of the kids he has had with a few of them. I have admired this guy since I met him because he could be trying to sell you a bucket of poop and you would buy it and be happy about it. He doesn't remember me but I have sent him a few messages and hopefully he will tell me how he was doing it . One thing I remember was when someone made fun of him for being fat or ugly he never acknowledge the person, not even look in the direction of the person teasing him and he would keep on talking to the girl and she wouldnt even look at the teaser as well. Once I get the info that I need I will post it here.

wow thats pretty sick... i would love to see his facebook and please share what he says about girls if he does reply back to you.