fat chicks hard to get with

[legolas]

He's black!!

Seriously though, I think that the reason is exactly that misconception of fat == easy. But again, it's a matter of preference. I like a girl with some meat on her bones, I'd rather not date a sceleton.

 

[SoCalMike]

same here

i love girls with some meat on them. not obese and pear shaped, but chubby girls where most of the weight is on the chest and butt and it gives em nice curves. kinda like j-lo only with much bigger tits. that's hot IMO.

 

[So Many Ways]

He's black!!

Seriously though, I think that the reason is exactly that misconception of fat == easy. But again, it's a matter of preference. I like a girl with some meat on her bones, I'd rather not date a sceleton.

Heh heh

I'm black and I'm definitely not attracted to overweight women. I have dated overweight women in the past and it was because at the time I didn't think I could do better and I was desperate. The sad thing about it was that I was in the best shape of my life at the time.

It's funny though, when I'm kicking it with black folks, they'll point out a chick and they'll say "hey she looks good" and I'm thinking "she's fat" and I see a chick that looks good to me and they're thinking "she's too skinny". It has to do with the environment you grew up in.

 

[legolas]

When I was really fat, this I had the mentality of the "FAT CHICK"

If a really hot chick was trying to talk to me, In my head I would be like

"what could a hot chick like this possibly want from me, I have nothing to offer her.. I don't look good, im fat, etc etc, there are better guys than me, she's just gona hurt me later on, or maybe she just wants to use me for something (definitely not sex) and just dump me later on when she's done with me. Well, I aint gona help her, fvck her"

This is really important IMO because if a fat chick sees an obviously hot guy giving her some attention she's deffinitely aware of the difference in the scale (if guya are aware, then girls are 10 times more aware) and she's definitely thinking "if this hot guy is talking to me, I know I have nothing to offer him and he probably wants to use me for sex and dump me later, f*ck him he ain't getting any from me)

This is probably what happened in this case. I think the only way to do it is to act down-to-earth especially if you know the difference in looks is evident. Acting down-to-earth, and genuine will earn you points and balance the looks differential.

 

[OrioleMagic]

I'm not black, but my girl has to have an @ss. I gotta admit that is the first thing I check out on a woman. I'm talking more about the J.Lo/pornstar type body than the total fat ass. An interesting fact is that skinny women didn't even really exist before the 20th century. If you were skinny you were probably starving. So for the whole of human existence until about 50 years ago, women with womanly curves and a voluptous (aka thick) figure were seen as the most beautiful. Then someone in Fashion industry decided 5'8" women should weigh 115 pounds and every woman nationwide went on a perpetual diet. I would much rather be with an emotionally stable women with a few extra pounds (not 50, so don't put words in my mouth), than a skinny, little neurotic woman with no @ss. The first black woman I ever dated was sort of fat, lol, but she had just massive amounts of men approaching her all day long. And most of these men were black, but a lot of white men were approaching her too, so don't think every overweight woman is sitting home alone. Probably this woman was so popular because she always dressed very professional, was funny, and just a cool person to be around, while most overweight women are bitter at the world.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Man, this discussion of "thick" chicks takes me back to an old girfriend I used to have. I'm no good with height/weight numbers, but she was not overly fat, not even plump, but not skinny either. She had a nice figure, very curvy, nice ass, nice tiits. Comparing her to a subsequent GF that was a lot thinner, I have to say that the first girl was a much more "comfortable" lay than the second (better kisser too, but I digress). Although I prefer tall thin girls (I'm 6'5"), I won't overlook a curvy figure with a pretty face and a 'fvck me' attitude.......

 

[juanita]

those were some revelations for me. so J-Lo is chubby. so how would u define to me an athletic body? with breasts size b, with firm round butt and toned muscles? and also if muscles are toned body acquires curvy shapes. (well, actually i described the same shape as J-Lo or Britney before pregnancy) is this chubby?

 

[vincent40]

well for me J-Lo and Britney have perfect bodies. i go to gym regularly and have perfect toned body so i always look that a woman works on her body too.