Fastest way to get laid? Do this. Easiest method and works the best

[Thebestthereeveris]

I should be getting paid for his but getting super fit dressing extremely well and being confident and cold approaching is the number one way tk get laid as much as posssible. Your selling your sexuality and body for the product and women are inherently drawn to guys who want to fvck them seriously. It’s in her dna. This in my opinion works so well. She thinks your high status and charming cause of your looks and you’ve done this tons of times. She doesn’t need to know your working in McDonald’s lmao though if you do this it’ll force you out your comfort zone and apply for a better job as well. Cold approach is amazing IMO for getting laid but do it dressed nice and while your fit

 

[soulforge]

I should be getting paid for his but getting super fit dressing extremely well and being confident and cold approaching is the number one way tk get laid as much as posssible. Your selling your sexuality and body for the product and women are inherently drawn to guys who want to fvck them seriously. It’s in her dna. This in my opinion works so well. She thinks your high status and charming cause of your looks and you’ve done this tons of times. She doesn’t need to know your working in McDonald’s lmao though if you do this it’ll force you out your comfort zone and apply for a better job as well. Cold approach is amazing IMO for getting laid but do it dressed nice and while your fit

Thanks for the bro tip.

 

[SW15]

That isn't the fastest way to get laid.

 

[Velasco]

Agreed. That along with where you go and timing.

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

Fitness and confidence is key, though cold approaching with good results is an artform in itself. Context and circumstance is everything. Walking up to a random woman in the grocery store to try to get a phone number can feel strange and forced, even if one looks attractive. You don't want her to suspect you of being a PUA. However, striking up a conversation while standing in line or asking a question about something and then asking for a phone number is likely going to have a better result.

With all that said, I have learned that if you look nice and dress nice, a cold approach is not even needed in many cases, since women will often find an excuse to talk to you on their own when they are in your proximity. I have a friend who worked in a grocery store, that had a hot babe stalk him on social media after reading his name tag. She had no other info to search with besides his first name and an idea of what he looked like, but was bound and determined to DM him, and she was successful in doing so. Their initial interaction in the grocery store was not any different than the way he interacted with every other customer, but yet he made her obsessed by merely being in her presence. This is an extreme example, though I have still witnessed several instances of females going out of their way to get intimate with attractive males that they met 5 minutes ago and don't even know the last name of.

 

[MatureDJ]

... I have still witnessed several instances of females going out of their way to get intimate with attractive males that they met 5 minutes ago and don't even know the last name of.

IOW, the way to get laid a lot is to be a Chad.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

IOW, the way to get laid a lot is to be a Chad.

being a chad is the only way. Fitness and money. They are stereotypes of what women go after for a reason. So why not just do those two?

 

[BadBoy89]

I should be getting paid for his but getting super fit dressing extremely well and being confident and cold approaching is the number one way tk get laid as much as posssible.

I always thought the fastest way was cash. Go to Amsterdam, flash some Euros in the Red Light District, and the girl is yours.

Apparently *that* is frowned upon on Sosuave. No idea why.

 

[SW15]

That isn't the fastest way to get laid.

I always thought the fastest way was cash.

Apparently *that* is frowned upon on Sosuave. No idea why.

I thought the fastest way to get laid was to pay for sex directly as well.

Most normies end up paying for sex, either directly or indirectly. Normies pay for sex indirectly by doing things like buying Rolexes and expensive cars. They may also buy expensive vacations, expensive jewelry as gifts, and make other indirect payments in order to get sex in more conventional ways.

It's rare that a top tier man pays for sex directly. Top tier men do pay for sex indirectly, but the price of that indirect sex is much lower than the price that a normie pays for indirect sex.

There is not much of an incentive for a top tier man (aka Chad) to pay directly for sex. Why would Chad pay for sex directly? He can easily get lower priced indirect sex from swipe apps, Instagram, or even bars. Some Chads might even bother to do daygame. There's not much an incentive for Chad to do daygame unless he's more relationship oriented and thinks he can find a better longer term from daygame.

I have a good example below about a Chad using sand volleyball as a daygame example to find a longer term relationship with an attractive woman.

For a 6'0"+ guy with a solid physique and decent volleyball skills, I'd recommend volleyball for pickup. I'd recommend sand over indoor For the 6'0"+ guy with a good physique (likely an 8.5+ on looks), I don't think that sand volleyball is any more efficient than swipe apps or random approaching at bars. That type of guy is going to have success in all formats. It's a matter of how much screen time he wants to put in on his smartphone vs. how much real life approaching he wants to do and what his goals are. Doing something like trying to meet a top level volleyball playing woman (likely to be a 7.5+ in looks) will take more attraction-seduction effort.

I think it would be more fun for a 6'0"+ guy with sand volleyball skill to pick up women through volleyball than to sit on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge and swipe. It'd be a better use of time for that guy to play volleyball in terms of getting longer term relationships. That'd be the use case where I'd recommend volleyball over the swipe apps. It's a realistic scenario for a 6'2" guy to a get a 5'9"-6'0" volleyball playing girlfriend and that scenario has a better chance of lasting longer than flings with Tinderellas, most of whom are 5'6" and under.

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

IOW, the way to get laid a lot is to be a Chad.

Being a Chad certainly helps, though Chads are not omnipotent , god-like beings that are present everywhere at once. This means that if you are the best looking guy at your local bar, grocery store, basket weaving convention or wherever, you effectively become the Chad. The grocery store guy I referenced earlier would probably not really be considered a Chad if most of you people saw him and actually talked to him; but he was the best looking guy in that small town grocery store, and therefore a "defacto chad."

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

I always thought the fastest way was cash. Go to Amsterdam, flash some Euros in the Red Light District, and the girl is yours.

Apparently *that* is frowned upon on Sosuave. No idea why.

I think most of the stigma against prostitution is that it bypasses the art of seduction and employment of game tactics. It is the extreme form of "negotiating desire." It will get someone laid, but it will not showcase any of your own personal ability while doing so. It is like buying the biggest redfish from the market, while everyone else is out casting their lines. You get your fish, but you do not get clout of being a master-fisherman.

 

[Gamisch]

I think most of the stigma against prostitution is that it bypasses the art of seduction and employment of game tactics. It is the extreme form of "negotiating desire." It will get someone laid, but it will not showcase any of your own personal ability while doing so. It is like buying the biggest redfish from the market, while everyone else is out casting their lines. You get your fish, but you do not get clout of being a master-fisherman.

I'd even say that visiting prostitutes will cost you more than it brings to you...

Its the ultimate form of recieving instant gratification.. Let's say word gets out you are a regular visitor. It will mess up your overall image ,especially with women but also other men will look down upon you.

 

[pipeman84]

Let's say word gets out you are a regular visitor. It will mess up your overall image ,especially with women but also other men will look down upon you.

But do you think that if word gets out a guy wastes hours at the mall doing cold approach he'll be seen any better by women?
Or if word gets out he's a Tinder user? I saw videos on YouTube where girls were shown Tinder profiles of guys and asked to rate them and they were making fun of those guys saying something like ... he looks good, but of course I wouldn't date him, he's on Tinder.

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

But do you think that if word gets out a guy wastes hours at the mall doing cold approach he'll be seen any better by women?
Or if word gets out he's a Tinder user? I saw videos on YouTube where girls were shown Tinder profiles of guys and asked to rate them and they were making fun of those guys saying something like ... he looks good, but of course I wouldn't date him, he's on Tinder.

I have thought about this too. Cold approaching can make you look like a desperate fool that has resorted to cheap PUA tactics, unless you have professional acting skills, and absolute killer looks. Dating apps are a strange dynamic. Attractive women rarely solely use such apps for actual dates, they mainly use them for ego feeding by looking at the number of likes they receive. There is also a lot of single mothers using them as step-daddy shopping malls (some as young as 18). Average and below average women will actually use a dating app for its intended purpose, but only when they run out of real-life options. The same can be said about average and below average men. That is why an attractive woman often automatically assumes a guy (good looking or not) to be either "damaged goods" or a complete sleaze when she finds out he has a tinder account.

 

[Gamisch]

But do you think that if word gets out a guy wastes hours at the mall doing cold approach he'll be seen any better by women?
Or if word gets out he's a Tinder user? I saw videos on YouTube where girls were shown Tinder profiles of guys and asked to rate them and they were making fun of those guys saying something like ... he looks good, but of course I wouldn't date him, he's on Tinder.

I agree.

Thats why personally prefer either "stealth mode approach "( can be at the mall or anywhere but you dont linger around, you are there with a "purpose " and just happen to bagg a woman if possible ) ,OR at places where approaching is allowed. Amd even with the latter you should be careful because there are eyes everywhere.


But to be clear, YOU do agree with MY statement, right?? Or...

 

[SW15]

That is why an attractive woman often automatically assumes a guy (good looking or not) to be either "damaged goods" or a complete sleaze when she finds out he has a tinder account.

If he a top tier man on looks, they won't care that he's on a swipe app. They might think he's a douche or a sleaze, but they'll think have sex with him.

Cold approaching can make you look like a desperate fool that has resorted to cheap PUA tactics, unless you have professional acting skills, and absolute killer looks.

I don't see it that way. I've been a cold approacher. I might have good acting skills. My looks are around a 7.

Dating apps are a strange dynamic.

That's true. It's also a major understatement.

Attractive women rarely solely use such apps for actual dates, they mainly use them for ego feeding by looking at the number of likes they receive.

It's rarer to see the top tier/near top tier (7.5+) on the swipe apps, but there are plenty of women in the 6-7.4 on the apps. Both the 6-7.4 range and 7.5+ will use it more for validation/ego feeding. Many will have sex with men 8.5+.

There is also a lot of single mothers using them as step-daddy shopping malls (some as young as 18).

True. When I used swipe apps, I didn't see a lot of single moms in the 18-25 range. That might have been related to swipe app radius limits.

Average and below average women will actually use a dating app for its intended purpose, but only when they run out of real-life options.

This is somewhat true. Some younger, Zoomer/Gen Z women are naturally attracted to dating apps. Among digital options, they'd rather set up dates in the DMs on Instagram.

But do you think that if word gets out a guy wastes hours at the mall doing cold approach he'll be seen any better by women?

It depends. I've had to do mall approaching and other daygame venue approaching because it's the best option among bad options I have.

Swipe apps are a worse option. I'm not in a position to do Instagram DM game. I have no social circle options.

 

[pipeman84]

But to be clear, YOU do agree with MY statement, right?? Or...

Yes, because even in the best case scenario, where one gets high class, IG 'models' type of prostitutes, if word gets out, it kills the mystery about the guy ... and being a challenge is 1/3 of the male attraction package, beside confidence and self control, according to Doc Love.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Being a Chad certainly helps, though Chads are not omnipotent , god-like beings that are present everywhere at once. This means that if you are the best looking guy at your local bar, grocery store, basket weaving convention or wherever, you effectively become the Chad. The grocery store guy I referenced earlier would probably not really be considered a Chad if most of you people saw him and actually talked to him; but he was the best looking guy in that small town grocery store, and therefore a "defacto chad."

 

[MatureDJ]

There is not much of an incentive for a top tier man (aka Chad) to pay directly for sex. Why would Chad pay for sex directly? He can easily get lower priced indirect sex from swipe apps, Instagram, or even bars. Some Chads might even bother to do daygame. There's not much an incentive for Chad to do daygame unless he's more relationship oriented and thinks he can find a better longer term from daygame.

Maybe he doesn't want some lesser chick have an "accident"? Maybe he has some cash and doesn't want "legal entanglements"?

I Pay Them to Leave - Freakonomics

A business exec told me that he thinks of consulting firms a bit like Charlie Sheen thinks about prostitutes. When I asked him to explain, he said that when Sheen was being sentenced for using a prostitute, the judge asked him why a man like him would have to pay for sex. And Sheen reportedly...

freakonomics.com

For a 6'0"+ guy with a solid physique and decent volleyball skills, I'd recommend volleyball for pickup. I'd recommend sand over indoor For the 6'0"+ guy with a good physique (likely an 8.5+ on looks), I don't think that sand volleyball is any more efficient than swipe apps or random approaching at bars. That type of guy is going to have success in all formats. It's a matter of how much screen time he wants to put in on his smartphone vs. how much real life approaching he wants to do and what his goals are. Doing something like trying to meet a top level volleyball playing woman (likely to be a 7.5+ in looks) will take more attraction-seduction effort.

I think it would be more fun for a 6'0"+ guy with sand volleyball skill to pick up women through volleyball than to sit on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge and swipe. It'd be a better use of time for that guy to play volleyball in terms of getting longer term relationships. That'd be the use case where I'd recommend volleyball over the swipe apps. It's a realistic scenario for a 6'2" guy to a get a 5'9"-6'0" volleyball playing girlfriend and that scenario has a better chance of lasting longer than flings with Tinderellas, most of whom are 5'6" and under.

Certainly for the time that the volleyball games are going on, a Chad should avail himself of it. And when between games, it's certainly better being there than at a regular bar.

And it is a key point that a PUA must be tall there, even moreso than at a regular bar. Being a short volleyball player is MogH3ll.

 

[MatureDJ]

It depends. I've had to do mall approaching and other daygame venue approaching because it's the best option among bad options I have.

It's OVER for BadOptionsCels.