Get your sh1t together and they will flock after you. I'm more concerned with learning marketing and making big bucks within the first two years of graduating college. My current perspective is, I'm busy with my life getting it together and building towards a good future, is this girl worthy of my time? Should I invest my most valuable commodity into her? What will it bring me, is it worth it?
I disagree with needing spinning plates to get women to chase. I want a girlfriend who would help me better as a person. Who can bring out the best in me. As long as you can maintain your frame (whatever it is, the alpha,beta crap is BS. Find your own frame and stick to it) then they'll keep chasing. The point is to be indifferent. Plates simply help with that. I'd be much happier in a healthy relationship building towards a strong successful future than wasting my time running after chicks to look cool to a bunch of people who don't give a sh1t about me.
The only problem is I'm yet to find her, so in the mean time I am spinning plates just to have my sexual desires fulfilled.
Regardless, I'm happy with my life.