Fashion and Style are two completely different things.
Fashion = what everybody is wearing, what media/marketing thinks everybody should wear, what people wear when they have low confidence and "want to fit in"
Style = what YOU wear, what you wear because YOU want to wear it, what you wear because that's "just what I wear, it's what I do, it's who I am"
To me, fashion sucks. It's too extreme. The "look that's in" now is dumpy and scrubby looking to me. How is it okay to buy new clothes that are ripped up and worn out? Silly. That sh!t makes you look like a scumbag right off the shelf? And you pay huge amounts of cash for it? Oooh, I know! Let's look like a scumbag with a blazer and aviator sunglasses on... yeah! Fashion sucks. It's a media game. And, it costs far too much to bother keeping up with it.
I'm pretty "metro" and I am frequently accused of being either metro or straight up gay. I wear the nice colognes, I keep clean-shaven, groom my fingernails, and I wear "smart" clothes. Overall, I look ultra-clean. However, my "style" and my "metroness" clash hard. And that's MY style.
For example, I'll wear spit-shined combat boots with all-black BDU pants tucked into them (wo0t! Army Style!) with a button-down shirt and a flex-fit cap without logos to the club. How does this work? Baggy and militant, yet, clean? Dumpy and sharp? If the boots were cruddy looking, it wouldn't work. If the hat had a baseball logo, it wouldn't work. If the pants were camo... well... that would still work, but, you gotta color coodinate the shirt and the hat... hmm... I gotta go shopping.
Truth be told, my combat boots are the most comfortable pair of shoes I have ever owned.
I wear clothes for comfort. I wear clothes because I can't run around naked. I wear clothes because I think they look cool, and I feel a certain way in them.
So the point is, there isn't a fashion and style forum here because a Don Juan's mindset isn't one of "Let me wear what everyone else does to impress people".
:nono:
Instead, a Don Juan wears clothes HE likes. He wears clothes that he wants because he feels good wearing them, or feels goofy wearing them, or feels naughty wearing them... a Don Juan doesn't need to discuss what's "hot and what's not". A Don Juan didn't become a Don Juan by slapping on designer threads, he became a Don Juan by changing his attitudes and becoming confident in himself. Any DJ will tell you: "Clothes don't make the Man. Look. I'm already a man, I could be in the club naked - I'd still be a man, and proud of it."
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that fashion and style are not an important part of one's "game". I'm saying that it far too often gets more importance associated with it than it should.