Good, solid advise and that was the gameplan. I had planned to stop the walks and severly reduce the phone calls. And for future sexual encounters, cunnilingus was off the table. However, on Monday morning India time, while planning for the Tuesday rendezvous for sex , I decided to do some **** test myself and asked her to wear a skirt I like. She promptly responded with 'not possible' and on asking why , said she had laundered it and kept it on a high shelf. I asked her how long would it take to reach for it and bring it down , to ehich she gave a lame , " I'll wear it next time we go". Something snapped inside me and I told her that the relationship was dead in the water and I am breaking it off. Wished her well and said I didn't bear her any ill will. Thanked her for all the good memories and fun times.
After that , she's been burning my phone, apologizing and asking for a meeting at least. I have not responded yet.