I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a month (she started as one of 7 women I was dating before we became exclusive), she’s hot, nice body, and things are good, but I’m not really feeling any emotional connection. However, her best friend and I have been spending time together, tickling, playfighting and while drunk, we kissed. She excused it as a drunk mistake and we both agreed to forget it happened, but the truth is I haven’t stopped thinking about her. She is so affectionate, fun, smart, innocent and exactly what I look for in a woman. She came round my house earlier tonight and we ended up falling asleep snuggled up together on the couch. I realised then that I really want to be with her despite any backlash.
We’re both in the wrong and I know that, but a girl like this and the feelings I have for her are so rare I would be spiting myself if I didn’t seize this opportunity. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t some helpless AFC oneitis; I’m 95% sure she feels the same and if anything, I feel so naturally confident and comfortable with her.
However, I’m faced with two problems. First, getting this girl to break her loyalties to her best friend/my girlfriend and secondly, actually breaking up with my girlfriend and either telling her why or keeping it a big secret. To be honest, I don’t think she’d be heart broken by me breaking up with her, but her pride is sure to be wounded and the betrayal of me and her friend will be pretty lousy.
Anyone dealt with this before and got any advice to share?
We’re both in the wrong and I know that, but a girl like this and the feelings I have for her are so rare I would be spiting myself if I didn’t seize this opportunity. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t some helpless AFC oneitis; I’m 95% sure she feels the same and if anything, I feel so naturally confident and comfortable with her.
However, I’m faced with two problems. First, getting this girl to break her loyalties to her best friend/my girlfriend and secondly, actually breaking up with my girlfriend and either telling her why or keeping it a big secret. To be honest, I don’t think she’d be heart broken by me breaking up with her, but her pride is sure to be wounded and the betrayal of me and her friend will be pretty lousy.
Anyone dealt with this before and got any advice to share?