What up all? I'm new here, but I'm pretty good with girls. Before I became a player, I fell for a girl younger than me by about 2 years. I thought it would be easy, but I ended burned in the end (She lied about not having a boyfriend, her age, and just about everything. I only found out about the boyfriend because I saw her walking down the street one day with her arm in his). After that, I became a player, and I've been one for a few months now (Not the typical player. I'm very picky, and only go for a girl's number that meets my standards and personality. - I.E. I have to feel a connection before I even ask for her number. This results in maybe a few pulls a month, but I'd rather consider myself a flirt).
Ok, now here's a problem that's pissing me off. This same girl that caused me to change into a player, makes me doubt why I'm one. She's still with her boyfriend, but I have a really good chance of splitting them up (Which I would feel aweful about). Now I was wondering if I should tell this girl goodbye, or try to get her to be my queen. I'm remembering feelings that I only had before I became a player (I.E. - I feel like an empty shell, going from girl to girl with no real serious feelings). I'm trying to distance myself from her so I don't end up believing in love again, and I have my feelings under control, but I want to free them.
She's legit now, and is pretty much honest with me now (Maybe because I picked up knowledge on the body language of liars and used it on her). Also, I can see that we both feel the same way about relationships, as we've both been burned one too many times, and are reluctant to believe in love.) She gave me her number about 2 days ago, but I have yet to call her because I don't want to fall into the LJBF land. Now, can you guys also help me out on another problem?
If I choose to stay with her instead of saying good-bye for good, I thought I would do a few things. Should I tell her that she reminds me of too many things that I don't want to remember, and it's hard being around her? Should I tell her she is one person I've tried to get over but never have? I know that revealing feelings is a sign of a wuss, but I'm not sure if the above would fall into the "feelings" category.
Also, if I choose to make her my queen, she wouldn't cheat on me. She didn't cheat on her boyfriend when I was trying to get her. She never kissed me (though again, I never tried to kiss her). When I told her she should break up with him, she said no because of the feelings (Feelings? What are these f-e-e-l-i-n-g-s?
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There. Sorry if it was a bit long, but it's been bugging me for a bit now. I couldn't really get anyone input, so I might as well put it here. Thanks in advace.
Ok, now here's a problem that's pissing me off. This same girl that caused me to change into a player, makes me doubt why I'm one. She's still with her boyfriend, but I have a really good chance of splitting them up (Which I would feel aweful about). Now I was wondering if I should tell this girl goodbye, or try to get her to be my queen. I'm remembering feelings that I only had before I became a player (I.E. - I feel like an empty shell, going from girl to girl with no real serious feelings). I'm trying to distance myself from her so I don't end up believing in love again, and I have my feelings under control, but I want to free them.
She's legit now, and is pretty much honest with me now (Maybe because I picked up knowledge on the body language of liars and used it on her). Also, I can see that we both feel the same way about relationships, as we've both been burned one too many times, and are reluctant to believe in love.) She gave me her number about 2 days ago, but I have yet to call her because I don't want to fall into the LJBF land. Now, can you guys also help me out on another problem?
If I choose to stay with her instead of saying good-bye for good, I thought I would do a few things. Should I tell her that she reminds me of too many things that I don't want to remember, and it's hard being around her? Should I tell her she is one person I've tried to get over but never have? I know that revealing feelings is a sign of a wuss, but I'm not sure if the above would fall into the "feelings" category.
Also, if I choose to make her my queen, she wouldn't cheat on me. She didn't cheat on her boyfriend when I was trying to get her. She never kissed me (though again, I never tried to kiss her). When I told her she should break up with him, she said no because of the feelings (Feelings? What are these f-e-e-l-i-n-g-s?
.There. Sorry if it was a bit long, but it's been bugging me for a bit now. I couldn't really get anyone input, so I might as well put it here. Thanks in advace.
