AbsolutBeirut
Don Juan
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- May 22, 2006
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Now I only want to hear responses from those that believe in online dating and have actually gotten results. Otherwise bugger off. About me, I actually go out whenever I can but dont do as well as Id like. Nevertheless, its less sad than my results with online dating sites. Started out trying my luck with MySpace, friending girls here and there but most were on it just to connect with their friends. After discovering the amount of hot girls on Match, decided to sign up. Have read about what to do and not to do and even attended a free seminar on it. My profile is the revision of 35 drafts, so it is at least better than all the ones before it. The pics I put up at least get a 8 rating on hotornot. OK, so that got me 2 winks in 2 months that have passed. None of them were pretty enough for me to pursue further. As for the ones I liked, I sent them an email commenting about something in their profiles. Id say that at least 50% would respond back, others would just ignore. As for the ones that respond, I always get my material from that response. It goes on and on and somewhere along the way I got to leverage the interaction. I've tried suggesting meeting up without AIMing first, never heard back. AIM I hate cuz its all talk that would have been better said face to face. I never got anywhere there either. The only common denominator is that sometime they'll stop responding to my emails or messages. Pathetically I would send a 2nd email to save face, it more often than not backfires. What I hate about it is that I hear about a lot of guys gaining so much from online dating which I nothing. It has gotten me so obsessive lately, constantly checking my email to check if the girl responded or not. Im doing it as we speak. What the hell am I doing wrong? is there a remedy to this?