plate's_empty said:
Think you played it well. Who knows what this chick was up to, she could have been texting him on the sly. Ever see the movie "In Bruges"? Great independent film. A girl sets the main character up (Colin Farrell), and her boyfriend tries to rob his ass. Anyway, not going to ruin how the situation turns out but great movie. But yeah, I would have been paranoid too. **** her, she chose him, her bad.
Only thing I can critique you on: you seemed very upset an perturbed by the whole thing. It's just another crazy chick doing her crazy things. Don't worry about it.
The incongruence on her part was when the other dude walked into the shop. She seemed to try to avoid being noticed by him. As we left the shop she is like: "I can get a ride home with this guy", I am like: "ok...", then she is like: "No Just kidding! I don't know him!"(I was totally confused at this point because of her body language when he entered the shop indicated she did know him), so she walks over to the car, I just slow down my pace a little bit. I figured she was just going to greet him or something. Then she turns around, legs crossed, head tilted 45 degrees to the side, big smile from ear to ear: "Wanna come with?!
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", and I give a noob answer.
I still don't think it was some kind of set-up. I know black people, they take rides with each other. It's no biggie.
I really was pretty damn upset though. I was angry with myself that I just walked away from some free pvssy. It made me feel like an idiot. Last night I said hi, but I couldn't IOI her or initiate anything. Eventually she started rubbing up her legs nervously and stuff, and moving around nervously.
Only thing is - and this can't be a big thing imho - when a friend of mine approached I gave him a handshake but with my palm facing slightly upwards. He came and sat across from me and the chick, starts talking. I was just watching TV, but my heart started to beat like crazy. I almost wanted to get up and leave because of the tension.
I figured maybe the tension was because I gave him my hand palm-up. On the other hand maybe she was just afraid that I would gossip about her to him.
Her IL should still be about 6.5/10, so we will see where it goes from here.