Facebook: subliminals from ex's mutuals.

[HeyPachuco!]

Okay, I know Facebook is the bearer of all things STRANGE

But I thought this was rather odd. I recently had 2 of my ex's MUTUAL FRIENDS add me out of the blue.

1) About a month ago, I added one of her best friends and she ACCEPTED. (This girl has/had over 1,000 friends). Then a about a week later, she REMOVED me off her friends and a number of other people.

2) I attempted to add her other friend, who is also mutual friends with above. But she DIDNT ACCEPT.

3) As I was dating my ex a few months ago, I hooked up one of my buds with one of her closest friends (NEITHER OF THE ABOVE). Now, they're talking and thinking about seeing eachother possibly.

4) Yesterday, I added this girl (above), and its still AWAITING friend reply. Now, before when ever I would click and be nosy to see what these two (My buddy and her) where talking about, I would check to see whose shes added. Now, she has REMOVED "view friends" ?

5) Contary to this. Me and my ex are not FRIENDS on Facebook, we haven't added eachother. She hasn't re-added me and vice versa. TONIGHT, I've noticed both of the first two friends (1 & 2) wanted to ADD ME AS FRIENDS, same time ??

6) I acceptd the girl that I previously added (who added me and then deleted me) and she hasn't got a WALL. Its just "info" , "links" and "pictures"(but not all, when I previously added her, there was more pics).

7) I typed in my ex's name and found that SHE IS NOT THERE? But for some unknown reason her two (above) friends have RE-ADDED ME? Either she has deactivated it or something fishy is going on... ? I'm still awaiting reply onthe add on her friend my buddy is potentially seeing.

Before anyone thinks "why are you even caring.." I'm defintley NOT, I'm just curious as to why the sudden re-add and what kind of SUBLIMINAL OR INDIRECT things might be occuring here?

The first two friends DO NOT GET ALONG with the friend my buddy is supposed to be seeing, so could this be something to do with it? some sought of Girl-friend-politics thingy???

ABOUT A WEEK AGO, me and my ex had an arguement on the phone, due to my instigated alchohol abuse. I know I effed up and should've stayed away from the phone once consuming alchohol, anyway, nothing transpired after this, except 'till now? on FB?....

 

[Julian]

this is so important

 

[HeyPachuco!]

HELL YEAH its important. I'm in another relationship and it clearly states that on my FB. Her friends are creatures of HABIT and are like leeches with war reports to give back to my ex.

I just want to know what it is I'M NOT SEEING here, that someone else might be able to?

 

[prairiedog24]

I want to know why you spend so much time on facebook. You should go volenteer at a local soup kitchen while planning your next alpine adventure.

 

[Ice882]

YOU should purchase FLAPJACK MIX. That way you can cook yourselves a DELICIOUS BREAKFAST That is rich in amino acids, RIBOFLAVIN and COUNT CHOCULA CHOCLATE FLAVORING.

RIMJOB.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

THANKS Fellas,

AREN'T you a VIRGIN Prairiedog24yroldvirgin?

 

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

Two things:

She either searched and BLOCKED you, which I doubt she'll go through all that trouble to do (when you're blocked, that means you cant see the profile atall) if you haven't tried to add her yourself and she ignored you multiple times?

or

Deactivated her account and/or possible Facebook technical problems.

Her friends re-adding you sounds abit suspect, but I wouldn't worry about it too much unless they start posting unwanted speeches on your wall or message your girlfriend.

 

[prairiedog24]

THANKS Fellas,

AREN'T you a VIRGIN Prairiedog24yroldvirgin?

Hey good memory! Seriously. But don't worry bro, I don't take it as an insult since it's by choice and not lack of opportunity.

My most recent chance was actually a good lesson in DJness as far as being your own man eventually getting results. We've were "just friends" but not in a failure way, since I was the one setting the tone. Shows how even "just friends" can be done in a DJ style if you're not being disingenuous about it. Anyway we were out traveling together and got caught in a blizzard and had to stop at like 3am. Ordered a room with two beds (i'm to cheap to be conservative enough to get separate rooms), and she quietly said "no, just one" to the clerk. Anyway, I didn't sleep with her, but it was flattering. She's a straight 10.

I'm here to learn, not to teach, but those moments do build confidence for life, women or otherwise.

 

[CaptainJ]

Hey good memory! Seriously. But don't worry bro, I don't take it as an insult since it's by choice and not lack of opportunity.

Don't lie to yourself, a man is always truthful with himself. No one is a virgin out of choice, unless they are a monk.

 

[prairiedog24]

Don't lie to yourself, a man is always truthful with himself. No one is a virgin out of choice, unless they are a monk.

Well I don't know what to tell you. But if I was inclined to untruthfulness, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be admitting to THIS FORUM that I've never had sex.

The girl I'm interested in now wasn't raised like I was. Her family is pretty wacked. She's had a very fair bit more experience than I do. When we first started hanging out, she straight up told me several times she was not happy about my unwillingness to have sex with her. She wanted VERY much to have a real and physical relationship. But our backgrounds and our cultures are very different, and I didn't see the point in compromising who I am just for a few moments of pleasure with a beautiful girl. I don't see why it's that hard to believe.

Not having sex isn't hard. A lifelong habit is easy to keep. What's hard is all the in between stuff that you know will make it harder and harder not to have sex, but stuff that is perfectly permissible and healthy in a relationship, like making out, etc. That's the area I struggle in. If I decided it was 100% ok to have sex, I'd go get some TONIGHT. LOL, it's seriously not that hard. When you spend your life trying not too, I guess the opportunities just come.

Not that different from the guys who go to the bar with the intention of just being a guy and not picking up chicks and end up attracting all sorts of women.

 

[muscleman]

Not having sex is a lot easier when you've never done it. Bookmark this page so when you do get laid, you can come back here and realize "oh sh!t, that was the sh!t, I can't wait to hit that sh!t again and again and again and again like a rabbit".

Everyone's family is wacked in someone's eyes. Being a virgin at 24 is wacked in my eyes cause then you make paranoid posts about some facebook conspiracy.

 

[prairiedog24]

Not having sex is a lot easier when you've never done it. Bookmark this page so when you do get laid, you can come back here and realize "oh sh!t, that was the sh!t, I can't wait to hit that sh!t again and again and again and again like a rabbit".

Everyone's family is wacked in someone's eyes. Being a virgin at 24 is wacked in my eyes.

Yeah yeah fair enough. I know it will be that way too. I'm a dude afterall, same as the rest of you.

I'm not here to criticize anyone else's choices, but I can defend my own certainly. My parents relationship kicks ass, as does every single other one in my entire extended family, on both sides. We haven't even had a case of divorce yet in any of the grandparents, cousins, etc. And no relatives slept around before marriage. Run those stats against the culture at large. So I figure if it works, why screw with it.

Yeah, sometimes it sucks to think of what I'm missing out on, but then again, I often look at my friends rather miserable lives and broken families and think it sucks that they're missing out on my happy and secure one. I'm not just sitting around waiting for some chick to drop into my life either. I graduated College at 20, and did a Masters and some other crap, and now I'm halfway through law school with a nice ranking. Don't worry about me, I'll have my chances when I decide to take em.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Yeah just found out "Somebody" has HACKED her FB, so I'm wondering why her friends have added me?

I had her details way back when we together but I'm sure she changed them, unless they think its me?

Anyway, it said on one of her friends status's. "Some SILLY BOY has hacked XYZ's FB, if there talking sh!t to you its not XYZ.."

LOL Hilarious. Anyway, I know now.