Facebook pickups technique. must read

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I just wanted to post this technique that I've used and am trying to finetune to pick up women on facebook. I look at other peoples friends list and message any girl who may be attractive saying whats up or whats good. I send this out to maybe like 50 girls or so. Then I just wait for the replies and let the interested girls reply and take it from there. Any good ideas on how to finetune this or take the next steps? Normally, I wind up meeting the real interested girls because they make it easy. One thing that may work is this new line I used this morning to get this cute girls number by saying "that she looks like she'd be cool to chill with and we should get together during the break. Give me your number and I'll let you know whatsup". I've been able to meet around 25 girls so far, but I want to perfect this. Lets make this into a good facebook pickup thread.
 

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dont do this, i did when firstbook first came out, pretty much backfired on me...it came across as creepy , and needy, and gave the girls the wrong impression of me....... a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
 

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Hockey Playa said:
dont do this, i did when firstbook first came out, pretty much backfired on me...it came across as creepy , and needy, and gave the girls the wrong impression of me....... a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
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well it works. i know I need to learn to approach, but i've been able to meet close to 100 women online. Its all a numbers game
 

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seriously, this works, only in other countries

i just got back from south america. i met tons of girls like this there on myspace. i just tell them i am traveling alone and ask them if they want to meet up. a white guy in south america=mucho vagina. it was great, i highly recommedn doing something like this if you visit brazil, iceland, south africa or anywhere. just message them just to say hi and if they want to hang out, and most likely, every girl will coz you are from a different country
 

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I've actually met a few cool people on facebook poker, it's pretty chill and you see their picture already. When you log on, you can see what friends are playing and join their table. And, it's not as creepy as sending out a hundred messages to random people.
 

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Hockey Playa said:
dont do this, i did when firstbook first came out, pretty much backfired on me...it came across as creepy , and needy, and gave the girls the wrong impression of me....... a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
You have the right idea.

Now seeded correctly, a random message may work. But REMEMBER Facebook is all about closed networks, these people actually know each other in person. Send to too many girls and they will expose you. I've seen it happen and it wasn't pretty.

Just be cool and always DHV, which is the rule of thumb online.

Ask yourself "Would a guy laying a bunch of chicks do this?" before you do anything.
 

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Send pickup lines wherever you want. That's not going to improve yourself in any way possible.

Ah! and...
a white guy in south america=mucho vagina
Have fun with the AIDS. You will only get it from hookers if you think like that.
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
 

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The 'technique' that works best for me is to actually meet girls in person through friends or at work or school and THEN hit them up on facebook/myspace. It's a pretty good way to filter out the flakey ones too.
 

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facebook is the internet. unless you can travel dont use it. depends on what you want, ltr or ons. its 100 times better if you ask in person, not online. the way you look into a girls eyes when you ask her for a number will beat facebook approaches.
 

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Nygard said:
Send pickup lines wherever you want. That's not going to improve yourself in any way possible.

Ah! and...

Have fun with the AIDS. You will only get it from hookers if you think like that.
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
agreed. guys who get laid everyday wont be liking it in 40 yrs from now (unless stds are cured). i personally go for ltrs.
 

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several forum participants said:
a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
In some ways this is true, but in reality, you could easily say the same thing about cold approaches. A guy with options doesn't go out of his way to pick up chicks at all. So I'm not really sure why sending out mass facebook greetings is such a bad idea. You really think the girls are going to gossip about you and give you a reputation as a "creepy" guy :rolleyes: just because you said "what's up" to a bunch of them? I mean, so what if they do? Girls are always stupid with that kind of nonsense anyway. If you hit on girls and they don't reciprocate the attraction for whatever reason, you are "creepy." :yawn:

There is something to be said for the closed environment effect, however. Pook says that it's not a good idea to hit on girls at work or at school because you are part of a small population and you will come across as either 1) desperate or 2) a player. Neither one of those is ideal. So your facebook strategy will probably work best at large state schools, where the girls don't all know each other. That way they'll think you don't routinely hit on girls.
 

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Just wanted to add that facebook is way better than myspace for this. This summer i met about 5 or 6 girls in about a month doing this while myspace I dont even get many responses. The facebook pickup works good for me because I have the looks but lack the approaching skills. But hey its a numbers game the more girls you message the more girls u'll get
 

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Nygard said:
Send pickup lines wherever you want. That's not going to improve yourself in any way possible.

Ah! and...

Have fun with the AIDS. You will only get it from hookers if you think like that.
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
what the hell is wrong with you? you are in Colombia and not getting laid? that is nearly impossible, even for deformed, mongloid one-toothed men. they dont have to be hookers, either.
 

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Cash37 said:
I respect this forum too much to flame this ignoramus.
go ahead, "flame" this ignoramus!!!
 

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Did this with myspace didn't work at all for me, well I got AIMs from some chicks but it was weird they were catious and ****, you better have one hell of a picture for this to work.
 

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If you go to UMass, awesome.
If you go to Indiana Uni, great

If you go to some college with 1-2 thousand people in it: DONT DO THIS!
 
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