F&*^in Glad I've Got Away From This Chick...

rben69

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But she won't leave me alone...

She broke up with me once and nearly straight away started emailing me and called me and asked if we could work it out, I said ok let's try (BAD IDEA!).

She was insanely jealous - not a good thing! Broke up with me again last week and predictably rang up saying she was just calling me because she wanted to give something back I left but I challenged her and said "that's not why you really rang was it?" she said "of course" and I said "oh no it wasn't" so she goes "ok, I was hoping you would say you wanted to sort things out"

Ok the insanely jealous bit - she didn't want me to go out with my friends got pissed that I went out with them and wasn't with her absolutely all the time basically, and thought I was out chatting up other girls and rooting other girls, like 1 night I went out crusing with a few friends and one brought a girl along and I was sitting in the back with her, and that automatically means I was rooting her my gf thought.

She was going off saying I wasn't really out with my friends and rooting all these other girls and **** like that and she was home by herself, but wouldn't beleive me when I said I wasn't, oh well.

I had enough of the **** so said there was no way we could work it out because I've had enough of trying and don't feel the same anymore and that I'm gonna move on, she got extremely pissed and told me she really cared and gave a **** about me and thought that I didn't care about her, and she hopes we never see each other again...

But I knew this wouldn't be the end... Since then I've got a few emails from her a totally psycho one... to me it is just her getting pissed because I said we couldn't work it out and trying to make me feel bad for it... I rejected her so she says totally the opposite as on the phone to try to make me feel like crap..
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"you will be in receipt of the truth, you were fun to be around but maturity goes along way, and you know that.
Surprisingly I never wanted to be with you as a 19 yo YOU wouldn't cut it. Anyone that knows me knows my intentions for going 1/2 way with you and you don't, actually I don't think that you need to know that, you'll figure it out someday MAYBE LOL.
I didn't and don't want to be with you, guess I just went along with it. So what's happened hasn't made a damn difference to me, If I wanted a guy I could get one in a flash, like you thought you were my GF. Anyway Ben looks like I wasn't the looser and you weren't in control. Satanist recognise " be slow to believe anything and everything for belief in one false principal is the beginning of all unwisdom. that's what u should've done with me. Taken in what I told of my past and more so taken it on board.
But if you wanna think you were always in control and things worked out your way no problems there.

Do wish you all the luck for your future prospects, its not how many gfs/bfs you can get but how you respect them.

Hear from you when the truth sinks in LOL :)
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I was gonna send one back telling her that shes totally predictable and I knew she was gonna email me and she's just pissed I rejected her, but she will just talk more crap and I'll never hear the end of it, I would of rathered communication be totally cut of and then she rings out of nowhere and brings **** like this up, makes me feel kinda bad about what I said to her but she f^&^in deserved it and is just lashing out. Though I know that it still makes me feel like ****.

And so much for not wanting to see me or talk to me again, another email just before.
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"Did you get the job at ..., I think about everything and just laugh LOL, you might too someday, no hard feelings , no loss no gain
Email me n tell me if you NEVER wannna here from me again and it will we DONE , easy as that."
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If any of you come across someone like this, do yourselves a favor and cut the strings immediately! Anyone else had an experience like this. Looking for some feedback guys..

-Ben
 

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watch the movie SWIMFAN....... the chick in dat movie is crazy to.
anyways I think you would just be better off telling her you don't want to talk to her anymore. And if she dosn't want that then drop the BS and find her somebody else.
 

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Damn man that is mad psycho.

If i were you i woudlnt even respond to her emails or anything, i think she would get the idea.
 

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More.....

So, a bit after I posted that she rings me up and wants to take me somewhere, I think what the hell.. but promised myself there would be nothing else between us like before.. just as friends.

Took me to a beach and told me it was a special place for her and she used to go there for hours and hours and just sit and think and look out to sea.

So much for hating me and never wanting to see me again, she pulled out everything short of saying "I want you back". Telling me I looked nice today, flirting tons, lots of kino and playing around, even was trying to hold my hand at one stage when I was sitting in my car about to leave but I just held my hand limp and removed it.

Proves that all that bull**** was just because I rejected her..

Another email today saying she enjoyed yesterday.. the fresh air and me..

I so would of rathered there be no contact from her after the breakup then it doesn't make me think "oh i'd still like to be with her" I kind of feel that, but don't worry, there's no chance in hell because I know there will be too much bull**** and psychoness (is that a word?)

I'm already getting back into things again.. and am excited about meeting someone new and being with them, whomever it may be - Psychos need not apply! :)

I did learn something good from this yesterday, she said "when I said I wanted you to take me out (when we were together) I didn't necessarily mean an establishment, I would of liked some place like this just as much.." or something along those lines.

Made me go "aha", youd reakon it'd be obvious, but now I know of somehwere to take future dates, not necesarrily that exact same place but a nice isolated place where I can just be with that person, though not for really early in the relation****. I was always thinking of places to go in the town, which there isn't many of and needed other ideas.

-Ben
 
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