Eyes dilated.. my first tip on eye contact..sorta..(be gentle)

[oreo_renegade]

I read on here that good eye contact is key, and to let her do most of the talking during a conversation, but there is that part, where you are going to have to say something, and when you do, *DILATE* your pupils.


I read this on this website, about closing, and it said to defocus your eyes, because this causes your pupils to dilate, and in turn hers.

Your eyes naturally dilates when its stimulated by something it likes, if you like her, you eyes will dilate by themself naturally, and if you lose focus, your eyes will dilate as well, causeing hers to.

So why do i care about looking like im smoking MJ?

When your eyes are dilated, you look more attractive(no joke man), and her eyes tend to dilate as well, this causes her to feel in a trance like state, almost hypnotized, and causes her to feel infatuation as well.

and you want her to in a trance, so she will be more likely to follow ur insructions (call me), and you want her to feel infatuated with you, for obvious reasons.

i know there has literally been a MILLION posts on this, but ive been experimenting with this for quite some time, and ive liked the results

hell, what could another post on a good tip hurt?

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

[This message has been edited by oreo_renegade (edited 10-16-2002).]

 

[SlyDonJuan]

This has been discussed many times. But how on earth are you going to tell if the eye pupil dilates? Some people have dark brown eyes so it is difficult to tell.

 

[oreo_renegade]

you wont be able to tell unles your within a range of about 2ft from their eyes, but the again, if you farther then that, i dont really see how you can put them in a sexually charged atmosphere, and b a charming stud.

you will b able to tell, seriously,me and this one chick stared into each otehr eyes about a week ago or so, and her pupils were so dilaed, you could hardly see the green outline of her regular eye color. people from a table over were like "omg look at her eyes, its like she been eating mushrooms"

lol, u can tell


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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[SlyDonJuan]

It is possible to tell whether her eyes dilate if she is not having a dark brown eyes.

But if she has dark brown eyes, how r u going to tell if her eyes have dilated? Even if ur near to her, I still find it difficult to gauge it. Any other ways to determining dilated pupils?

Frankly speaking, many people would feel that eye pupil dilating is some kinda nonsense but I am willing to find out more on it

 

[Doyle98]

yea ur eyes dilate depending on how much light is in the room. a lot of times if ur indoors or in a dark/tinted place then theyll be dilated. but i agree on that u can really attract a girl with eye contact.

 

[oreo_renegade]

yeah sometimes your eyes will be dilated indoors in dim lighting, ever wonder why therapists and hypnosis specialist never turn floodlighs on and aim them at your eyes? ever wonder why candleligh dinners are so romantic?

if her eyes get dilated by the environment, then take advantage of it! shes in a dreamy, love like, trance state, very influencial.

on another note, you cant rely everything on how her eyes dilate, hence no need for a gauge, some peoples eyes change the size of pupil a lot, while in others they barely move, lighting has a lot to do with it, and she might be high, you should in no way rely on her eyes solely. Seeing how dilated her eyes are just is another hint to how much shes interested, or what kind of a mood shes in. there are a lot of others.

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[MattB]

how can you control the dilation?
like, how do you make it dilate at will?

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by oreo_renegade:

if her eyes get dilated by the environment, then take advantage of it! shes in a dreamy, love like, trance state, very influencial.

how do you come up with this bull****?

thats the most retarded thing ive ever heard in my life.

and dont defocus your eyes people, thats not eye contact, thes just making yourself look like an idiot.

with eye contact focus on one of her eyes at a time, dont switch back and forth from eye to eye because it will look like youre nervous.

oreo, dont post something thats already availible in the bible, especially with incorrect info. if you do have real life experience, post something from that.

 

[oreo_renegade]

i posted this BECAUSE of my real life experience.

because i read a couple of post and bible, and article on other websites, and then i combined it into this.

and YES getting her eyes to dilate by the environment does creat a romantic, comfortable, dreamy state.

and NO, DO lose focus of your eyes slightly, this will make ur pupils dilate, im not saying cross ur eyes, im saying slightly lose focus in them.

IVE TRIED THIS! YES it does work.

mayb ur losing TOO much focus and crossing your eyes? try not to do that, practise in front of a mirror, you should still see ur eyes rahter clearly in the mirror, clearly enuff to see em dilate a bit, but not so clear as you would c fine lines in them.

and yes, DO look at only one eye, dont switch back and forth, and DONT look near her eye.

look DIRECTLY in her eyes(eye lol), NOT between her eyes, or her eyebrow or ne of that.

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[Jester]

your exact words were "trance state"

could you tell me how being in slightly dark room puts someone in a trance?

 

[oreo_renegade]

go buy sum pink and red candle (about 15),

light a fireplace, ad place the 15 or so candles around the room making bigger and bigger circles aornd the room with them

then make a recording of urself talkin is a soft and charming(but deep) voice

maybe say a pattern from layguide if u want,

then light all the candles, light the fireplace, play the tape, and sit there and stare into the firplace flame, or into th flame of a candle, while having ur knees bent up and ur arms around them, with ur chin resting on ur knees

then after about 5 minutes of doings so, tell us how u feel

no a dark room wont create a trance like state, but thats what ur there for, u provide the "candle flame" and ur voice provides the "tape"

the dark room alone doesnt create it, but its easier, to prove this

go buy a whole lot of florecent light bulbs, plug them in all over the room, so its extremely bright, and then play hte same tape, will it have the same effect? no? hmm i wonder why

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Don't think it works with brown eyes. I've got brown eyes and when I look deep closely, its still hard to see whether my eyes are dialated or not.

Plus its just hard work.

 

[ELITE_WOMANIZER]

that was the dumbest statment i have evr heard in my life "dialated pupils make you more attractive to women, no joke"

lol, that is some real bull sh!t

how the fvck is having bigger pupils gonna make you more atttractive. its not like women say "oohhh, hes so fine when his pupils dialate" you fvcking idiot

 

[SexPDX]

Originally posted by ELITE_WOMANIZER:

how the fvck is having bigger pupils gonna make you more atttractive. its not like women say "oohhh, hes so fine when his pupils dialate" you fvcking idiot

Forigive me for getting a little bit off topic here and I am not expressing my agreement or disagreement with oreo, at least not at this time.

ELITE_WOMANIZER, I have seen several posts from you that all seem to indicate that you think only in terms of a woman's conscious mind and what they CONSCIOUSLY are aware of that attracts them. Just because a woman would not point out eye movement or pupil as something that she is consciously paying attention to does not mean that it does not register at a subconscious level.

Attraction is mostly about the subconscious. Many of the girls I have had sex with have told me "I don't know why you make me so horny".

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- The performer known as Nick

[This message has been edited by SexPDX (edited 10-27-2002).]

 

[oreo_renegade]

righhhhhhht, im the idiot

do u just sit at home, and only talk about clothes and rumors at skool?

do u no watch educational programs, only mtv?

do u only look up porn and this website on the internet?

dude, educate urself, and then come in here and go "ur stupid about eyes"

there have been so many psychological tests, where people where shown 2 exactly the same photographs, of the exact same peron, taken at teh exact same time, and on one of the photographs, the persons pupils were enlarged by a computer program


almost ALL of the people who were asked t pick out which one they like the best, picked he one wiht the bigger pupils, when asked why they said "i dont kno, they just seem more friendly, and happier.. more attractive"

the others said "i cant tell a difference between the two"

so YES larger pupils make u seem more attractive, also people who seem to have symmetric faces are more attractive.


you hitnk that your mind only processes whatever you think?

when you want to move ur arm do u think "alright, 30 degrees up, 2.543 inches north, and 3.4 inches to the left, witha force of 20%"

no
when u geta n errection, do u think "hmmm, i like her blonde hair, and her curves, also her nice ass

no, ur prolly thinkin "damn! loook at her!"


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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[oreo_renegade]

field report:

friday in 1st period:

me and 2 chicks are sitting at a table, and were just playing around, then one of them looks into my eyes like "ur so fun" and i look at her for a while, not thinking anything.

then i decide "why not dilate my eyes"

so i defocus my eyes and in about .5-.75 seconds her eyes are like:

o<before O<after

and ehn she gets really touchy, holding my hand, strocking my hair, taking my hand and putting in on her neck and hugging it up around her chest.

then the other chick joins in lol

the reason i didnt dilate my eyes at the otehr chick is cuz she was like 4ft across a table, and the first one was about 1 ft away right next to me.

^^^ see, proof of dilating eyes ^^^

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM