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mrsoy

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what do yuo do when your eyes meet with another girl's? it seems to happen a lot to me and most the time i look away cause idk what else i should do..it happens most when im working at the restruant i work at,i bus tables and make eye contact with a lot of people but idk,i just tend to look away and look like im busy haha. but in general what do you do when you make eye contact with a random girl?
 

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I agree since you are working at a resturant they will think that you are busy and if you go over and talk to them they will be like totally into you. Everybody likes the waiter or bus boy that has time to talk to them. Of course I would only talk with them to improve my skills.
 

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Hold eye contact, and after a short while (as in when you would normally look away), smile. If she's interested, she'll smile back. That's your cue to initiate a conversation.
 

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Always hold the eye contact into the 'uncomfortable zone' until she looks away. This establishes that you are not a little b!tch.

Smiling is also good.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

UltimateScoundrel

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Originally posted by Stratocaster
Always hold the eye contact into the 'uncomfortable zone' until she looks away. This establishes that you are not a little b!tch.

Smiling is also good.
I know a few people who hold eyecontact for way too long. It's not impressive, just creepy.

Look at her, smile, maybe nod a bit, and get back to work. Don't stare her down.
 

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ight man! well first off you are suppose to be the last one who holds the eye contact!!! remeber this...chumps look down(because there daseled by there beauty) so just hold eye contact! and if she stairs at you then look around her....then find your way back to looking at her....if she is still looking back! then she definity wants u...so walk over there and start some convo! trust me...it will be a brease!.. good luck man
 

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You want to avoid eye contact at all possible costs. Looking someone in the eye only means one thing. It means you're ready to throw hands. If you look at any part of the body except for directly at the eyes, you'll come off as someone who isn't interested in her body. Women are self consious of their bodies. Moreso that their face.
 

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dont stare her down like a starving wolf at a lamb, that creeps them out

look over, eye contact, eye contact returned, smile, smile returned (or not) maintain eyecontact while returning to what your doing, break eye contact

approach when you have the time
 

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Originally posted by MicCheck1-2
You want to avoid eye contact at all possible costs. Looking someone in the eye only means one thing. It means you're ready to throw hands. If you look at any part of the body except for directly at the eyes, you'll come off as someone who isn't interested in her body. Women are self consious of their bodies. Moreso that their face.
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