Eye contact

[confus4ever]

When a chick is talking to ya and you keep a constant eye contact with them (basically, not lookin away at all) does that come off as creepy. I do this alote when i'm attracted to someone. I'm only trying to show them that i'm listening.

 

[Shadow Dancer]

If you stare, you're being creepy. Keep your eye contact just a moment longer than her. Once she looks away, you also break contact. Come back to it in a bit.

Overall, you shouldn't be having a lot of eye contact. The amount of times should be few. But when you DO make eye contact, keep it just a moment longer than she does.

 

[DJZ]

Yeah, I was talking to this chick tonight at the library and she was saying that the guy that was helping her before was really creepy, that he would stare in her eyes the whole time they talked. Then I started staring in her eyes jokingly as I talked to her. She thought it was humorous, and even initiated a little kino later on.

So yeah, if you stare to much it comes off as creepy.

 

[confus4ever]

oops!!!!!!!!!

 

[dbot]

If you're in a conversation with her than strong eye contact is okay, as long as you glance away from time to time. But to fix your gaze on her permanently is just sick

 

[Player_Supreme]

You need to pace your eye contact. Hold the look for 5 -10 seconds at the longest and then look away at something else..otherwise you may end up looking like a freak.

 

[confus4ever]

player supreme, that is what i do, so i'm okay?

 

[becker]

It kind of depends. If both of you are totally into each other and it's obvious, then I say make sure you hold it. I've been in many situations where the girl and I hold eye contact for the entire time, hardly looking away. Then there's other times where it's a little awkward if you don't look away. The key is to not look away too fast after first establishing the eye contact. After holding it for a while, then it doesn't matter as much in my opinion.