Eye contact game

gator_DJ

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Well, I've been reading the DJ Bible, and I've been playing some eye contact games. One reaction I sometimes get is rapid/fast eye blink. I think maybe it's shock (could I be really be that frightening?), or maybe even arousal? Man, gotta build up the confidence so I can actually find out.

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Sometimes when I make initial eye contact with a girl, she reacts with rapid blinking. What do you think this means?
 

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oh.. well, it might mean a lot of things- allergies, something is in her eye, or she is nervous?

now being nervous isnt a bad thing, she might be nervous cause she likes you, or cause she doesnt...that's where you read her body language. Look for her hands, hair, apply some kino, smile and get your groove on;)
 

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You took her by surprise. She interpreted your gaze as staring and she is uncomfortable. Try making eye contact simultaneously. This can be done by subtly drawing her attention to yourself with an exaggerated body movement and then looking up at her while her attention is temporarily drawn to you.
 
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